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Can’t even name it.

it's weird how i can be surrounded by everything and still feel like i'm missing something i can't even name.

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u/MidnightNumb — 6 days ago
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Sometimes the strongest face hides the quietest pain no one gets

Well, just wanted to pour out something that I’ve notices about myself recently and I clearly have no idea whether it’s healthy or not. Everything that happens in and around me are impacting me in many different ways, I may have looked unbothered after that situation, but i went home and let it all hit me at once, sat in silence replaying everything, and questioned my worth more than i should have.

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u/MidnightNumb — 1 month ago

Does Micromanaging boss burns you out?

Nothing burns employees out faster than a micromanaging boss who has no idea how to lead a team. They'll preach about "efficiency" while their constant interference slows everything down.
I can't boost morale when you don't even trust your people to do their jobs; can you?

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u/MidnightNumb — 2 months ago

Right person at the wrong time

We met at the wrong time,
and that's the cruelest part of all.
Deep down, beneath all the distance, the silence, and the reality I've been forced to accept,
a part of me still believes we were meant to be something more.
More than a lesson.
More than a memory.
More than two people who briefly touched each other's lives.
I hate how life got the timing so wrong.
How everything between us felt right,
except the moment we found each other.
You came into my life when we were both carrying battles no one could see—
half healed, half broken,
half afraid, half hopeful.
And somehow, despite all of that,
you felt like home.

I replay our moments in my head, wondering if things would've been different had we met a little later, a little sooner, when our hearts were ready.

“Its goes like some people don't just leave memories behind.
They leave unfinished stories.
And maybe that's what hurts the most—

No matter how much time passes,
a part of me will always wonder if you were the right person who arrived at the wrong chapter of our lives.
And that's a question I'll probably carry forever.

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago

Share sth that has recently happened to you!

Mine
\*Got betrayed by a friend
\*Got into smoking and drinking
\*Mom got sick
\*Cried a lot
\*Every relationship got disturbed
\*Banged my knuckles
\*Couldn’t sleep properly

………,

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago

I was always there for them

I always try to cheer people up even if it’s for the short duration, that i didn't realize i needed someone to do the same for me. i kept trying to be the strong one, the listener, the comfort, thinking that was enough until i felt empty myself.I've been running miles for people who couldn't even take a step for me. You know it sucks. I forgot that even the person who holds everyone together still deserves to be held too.

But it ok! Now
I am slowly teaching myself that someone else's emergency is not my emergency.
And priorities myself of all the people.

Thank you!🙏

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago

Share sth that has recently happened to you!

Mine
*Got betrayed by a friend
*Got into smoking and drinking
*Mom got sick
*Cried a lot
*Every relationship got disturbed
*Banged my knuckles
*Couldn’t sleep properly

………,

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago

I’m stuck

I’m stuck grieving something that never even had a name. Stuck between moving on and holding onto the smallest hope that maybe this wasn’t supposed to end here.
Because the truth is… it’s not that I can’t let you go.
It’s that a part of my heart still believes you were supposed to stay.

Has anyone felt like that too!

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago

That’s what hurts the most.

I’m stuck grieving something that never even had a name. Stuck between moving on and holding onto the smallest hope that maybe this wasn’t supposed to end here.
Because the truth is… it’s not that I can’t let you go.
It’s that a part of my heart still believes you were supposed to stay.

Have anyone felt like that too!

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago
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The "Silent" struggle: How do you handle the grief of missing the small, mundane moments in a relationship ?

My boyfriend (24 age) and I (25 age)have been long distance for all most a year because of our careers. We love each other and communicate well overall, but lately the emotional side of the distance has been really difficult.
I think the hardest part is that small relationship moments disappear — no casual hugs, dinners together, or simply existing in the same space. Arguments also feel worse over text because tone gets misunderstood easily.
We still make time for calls and online dates, but sometimes I feel emotionally exhausted from always missing someone instead of actually building a normal life together.
Sometimes I feel guilty for struggling because nothing is technically ‘wrong’ between us. But the distance creates this constant low-level sadness and frustration.
The hardest part is that feeling disconnected during stressful periods because we can’t just sit together and talk naturally.”
For people who’ve been through long distance relationships, how did you manage the emotional fatigue?”

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u/MidnightNumb — 3 months ago