Can someone tell me what this is? has anyone felt anything like this before? i feel so different from everyone around me
i finally put how i feel into words last night and i was interested in seeing if anyone else has had a similar experience before in some way or another. i was in a state of a sort of aware meditation and could put the words together perfectly without even having to think about if it made any sense or what words to use and it was almost like i could see it in my head while still being fully aware of my body and typing obviously and i could feel everything but in a true state of what i can only describe as “me” if that resonates with anyone at all. i’ll copy and paste what i wrote here, please share your stories! :
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i do feel everything i think SO much deeper than other people like i feel heartbreak to the point it hurts and i feel happiness to the point where hangouts with friends are ab and cheek workouts and i feel sadness to the point that everything in me fades and i feel love so incredibly deeply it makes me feel high and my skin is sensitive and my vision is too and loud noises bother me to an extreme and i can hear pretty well and i can see pretty well and i have stomach problems and circulation problems and sensory issues and my skin reacts to everything and my nervous system does too
i think maybe i am “too” me. i think i have just finally hit a shocking level of awareness in myself and so many parts of me that i am resistant to anything that doesn’t feel like me. not that i am like a superhero or whatever i can’t prevent it but if it comes and i feel like it isnt reflective of something i want to see or be or doesn’t bring me any joy or connection or benefit emotionally or physically i have just chosen to remove it from my life completely and remain peaceful by mourning the loss and continuing the journey of filling my life with what i want and i want happiness and meaning and purpose duh. but i have become so extremely sensitive and aware of every part of me good or bad that i think its completely changed my life and maybe my skin is reflecting that too. my whole body is doing it, i stopped caring about what i looked like and chased what i felt for just a little while and my hair wont hold any sort of color and chooses to be some weird combination of everything despite my efforts and i think its worked in my favor because it’s gorgeous, my skin is (normally) incredibly clear and glowy, my eyelashes are crazy long, my weight has fluctuated over fine, but i stopped caring about what i ate and started eating listening to what i craved and when i wanted to eat (though cut back because of stimulants boo) and i think i look the best i ever have and i look so individual and unique and kinda bright but every part of my life and my body has shifted
i can feel whats discomfort and what is me. when something is for me i mean i feel its for me like my heart just knows and my whole body just knows idk. i started feeling that and i just started to keep trying things and doing things so i could build a collection of things thst gave me that feeling and i ran with it and ive done it ever since and im on a track that feels solid for the first time in my life and i feel like me wholly and truly i do.
my life is full of diversity. i’m not afraid to meet new people or make new friends although it’s exhausting. i have kinda always been that way, i just love people. i love how everyone is the same although we are all so different. humans are just so incredible at connecting with other humans from anywhere despite language or physical or cultural barriers if we want to and i love how all that can be true but we can still be so different in even more ways i love knowing what makes people weird and offering strangers smiles because a smile is in every language and culture and that’s so fucking cool so i’m pretty much just constantly surrounded by people of all kinds and it’s great because somehow i get along with everyone even though i can always get a read on people and can tell when someone has completely different values from me or my friends and can immediately predict if they will eventually be a horrible idea to make besties with or get too close to. the only people that ever have a problem with me is one sided and i think it’s because they can just tell i see right through them and want to turn the people around me against me but that’s only happened a few times and the first was my mom so oops. but i am open in every aspect of my life it’s not like me saying something isn’t for me is because i’m closing off its just because im so open that what fits is what fits. it’s like the old show where the people had to jump into certain body/weird-shaped holes and fit just perfectly to pass, basically what’s not for me can try to make its way in my life but some part of me always knows, whether it’s my skin or my hair or my medications or my body or whatever, only what’s right fits what’s right to pass, like i have some sort of fence around “me” (as a concept) but the gate is that thing they jump through in the show but instead of a weird shape it’s in the shape of the concept of me/myself???? it’s open in everything i do and everywhere i go and everything is constantly trying to get in and trying to jump through but only what fits passes through and gets to me. it sounds so weird, but that’s literally the only way i can describe it. it took me SO long to get here and ive slowly gotten better at it, i guess as i get better at it the gates mold more intricately to what actually is me (as a concept still, whole thing), and then i still have to go through what sneaks past and isn’t right for me because it fit some part of me i had yet to discover and got through the gate and i still have to experience and figure out how to grow and learn from what happens when it’s revealed that it actually wasn’t for me and grieve and feel all the effects of their loss as i ultimately choose whats in my benefit by exploring that part of myself and learning how to mold that part of me (gate) further and develop a sense of me (concept) that feels right. and then i use what i learned to grow and not let it happen again because i understand now what i want and what i don’t but eventually as i develop that i just attract everything i want naturally, sometimes before i even realize its exactly what i want.