u/Minute_Sea_3914

Need help

M22

Hello everyone, I hope you’re all having a great night.

I’m looking for some advice on substance abuse,

Since I was 14 I’ve been heavily addicted to cannabis with only maybe a year off in between.

My preference is very strong concentrates, But along with that I have been addicted to vaping for the same time frame.
I have came to the conclusion that I have a drinking problem, One is not enough & neither is 1,000 drinks.

I feel like I’m constantly chasing dopamine from anything, I would love to live my life without worrying about always having substances with me.

Thank you guys

M22

Hello everyone, I hope you’re all having a great night.

I’m looking for some advice on substance abuse,

Since I was 14 I’ve been heavily addicted to cannabis with only maybe a year off in between.

My preference is very strong concentrates, But along with that I have been addicted to vaping for the same time frame.
I have came to the conclusion that I have a drinking problem, One is not enough & neither is 1,000 drinks.

I feel like I’m constantly chasing dopamine from anything, I would love to live my life without worrying about always having substances with me.

Thank you guys

M22

Hello everyone, I hope you’re all having a great night.

I’m looking for some advice on substance abuse,

Since I was 14 I’ve been heavily addicted to cannabis with only maybe a year off in between.

My preference is very strong concentrates, But along with that I have been addicted to vaping for the same time frame.
I have came to the conclusion that I have a drinking problem, One is not enough & neither is 1,000 drinks.

I feel like I’m constantly chasing dopamine from anything, I would love to live my life without worrying about always having substances with me.

Thank you guys

Good evening everyone, first time poster

M22 & I possibly think I’m Bi or curiously trans?

My sexual relationships since I was a teenager has strictly been with women, However the last few years I’ve been gradually gaining sexual interest in transgender women & femboys

I don’t have the same attraction to a guy without the feminine side attached to it, if that makes sense?
But there is some curiosity when talking to a guy

I do use a sex toy & a lot of times I crave that sensation from another person, just not a masculine man? If that also makes sense lol
For context I have tried pegging with a girlfriend, but it didn’t fill that void.

I will add that sometimes I day dream of being in a girls body & especially having multiple orgasms, as guys cannot do that. Somedays I wish to be a girl dressed nice with her friends, at the bar getting guys. I don’t know how to feel about anything.

I also enjoy wearing thongs at times while I self pleasure

I think maybe in another universe I’d become transgender, (NO HATE AT ALL, It’s just I’m scared how my family would view)

I’m extremely confused & not sure how to move forward, I don’t know if I’m BI or curiously trans?

Thank you SO MUCH everyone

Have a great night❤️

Good evening everyone, Canadian 🇨🇦

I’m 22, almost 23

I’m writing here to seek some financial advice, When I’m 23 I will receive a lump sum of money that is already invested in stocks, the total is approximately $130k

My question is, after I max out my contributions for TFSA, RRSP (I’m going to open a FHSA & max it out)

What should I do with the rest of the money investment wise?

I’m hoping to be retired by 40 - 45 I have an apprenticeship that’ll pay amazing once I’m a red seal, Just need to secure a position at a company to gain hours & an apprenticeship spot.

I’m a 2nd year heavy equipment mechanic, I’m extremely interested in moving out west (From Eastern Canada), I have my own tools & toolboxes. If anyone is currently hiring apprentices

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!

Good evening everyone, Canadian 🇨🇦

I’m 22, almost 23

I’m writing here to seek some financial advice, When I’m 23 I will receive a lump sum of money that is already invested in stocks, the total is approximately $130k

My question is, after I max out my contributions for TFSA, RRSP (I’m going to open a FHSA & max it out)

What should I do with the rest of the money investment wise?

I’m hoping to be retired by 40 - 45 I have an apprenticeship that’ll pay amazing once I’m a red seal, Just need to secure a position at a company to gain hours & an apprenticeship spot.

I’m a 2nd year heavy equipment mechanic, I’m extremely interested in moving out west (From Eastern Canada), I have my own tools & toolboxes. If anyone is currently hiring apprentices

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!

Good evening everyone, Canadian 🇨🇦

I’m 22, almost 23

I’m writing here to seek some financial advice, When I’m 23 I will receive a lump sum of money that is already invested in stocks, the total is approximately $130k

My question is, after I max out my contributions for TFSA, RRSP (I’m going to open a FHSA & max it out)

What should I do with the rest of the money investment wise?

I’m hoping to be retired by 40 - 45 I have an apprenticeship that’ll pay amazing once I’m a red seal, Just need to secure a position at a company to gain hours & an apprenticeship spot.

I’m a 2nd year heavy equipment mechanic, I’m extremely interested in moving out west (From Eastern Canada), I have my own tools & toolboxes. If anyone is currently hiring apprentices

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated!

Hey everyone, first time poster

For context I’m M22, I have had my suspicions about having ADHD for years. My brother was diagnosed at a young age with ADHD

I CONSTANTLY crave immediate dopamine, I have struggled with substance abuse quite a bit as I have a very addictive personality (If it gives me quick dopamine, I’m hooked, daily 🍃 since I was 14)

I’ve noticed I recognize patterns well, for example I’ll get bored of a movie I haven’t seen fully, because I’ll predict the ending or the jump scares in it. Also I interrupt people ALOT to finish what they’re going to say, it’s like my brain knows and is wanting them to speak quicker?

I’ve noticed over the years, I will get quite distracted (for example: I restore vintage Honda bikes & I’ll start one task & next thing I know I’ve moved on half way through to start a new task.

I’m extremely impulsive, There’s so much I’d like to do however I’m scared of rejection

I take an SSNI for anxiety & depression, it still feels like my brain won’t shut up, Hence the marijauna use

I’ve had issues for years holding down jobs. I want to chase my career goals & become successful

Any help or advice is greatly appreciated!

Thank you Reddit family, have a great night!🤙