u/MuchWow81

Real estate sale/POA

I'll try to make this concise.

Estranged relative died, had will leaving everything to my minor children. Relative's lawyer is executor, a family friend had POA at end of life. A mere month or so before death, relative takes on a tenant in their house - tenant needed housing, elderly relative needed help around the house. This relationship was facilitated by POA. A contract to sell their house to the tenant at perhaps half of the fair market value was signed by the POA and dated to the day before death. Executor/attorney says he spoke to relative a few weeks before death, claims they were lucid and not under any influence during the conversation and this was their wish, to sell the house to this acquaintance, handing over 1-2 hundred thousand dollars in equity to her, taking it away from their grandchildren. Attorney says there is some document or amendment to the will to this effect but this was not submitted to the probate court and attorney is so far refusing to let me see it, nor will they give me a copy of the POA to see if she was even authorized to make the sale on relative's behalf. Probate judge doesn't seem to see a problem here.

What do I do? Do I have a case? I've been trying to get representation but getting bounced around and ignored. Not sure I'm explaining the situation well enough.

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u/MuchWow81 — 2 days ago
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Skinny stray cat drinking and peeing a lot

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Rural new england. Found what looks like an expensive cat on the side of the road covered in ticks and emaciated. Some kind of siamese or similar, maybe even pure bred. I think its a neutered male but I havent poked around much because I don't know if he will tolerate that from a stranger. Adult, pretty large or he would be if his bones werent protruding everywhere. I brought him home, put him in my office with food, water and litter box. I have another indoor cat so all I had for flea and ticks was a 3-years expired dose of revolution plus. I put that on him, hopefully it helps until I can get something else. No vets open around here on the weekend.

As for the drinking and peeing, when I brought him home he ate almost immediately. Ate a bunch but didnt eat like you might expect with a starving animal, drank a bit, then slept. I hung out with him for a while and eventually he started poking around the room so I drew his attention to the litter box, he knew exactly what to do and he peed and peed and peed. It was an austin powers pee, seriously. He had obly been in my house a few hours at that point, its not like hed been holding it all day. This morning I checked on him and he was more alert and active and his water dish was empty. I filled it up and he drank and drank and drank.

Could there be something else wrong with him? Access to water is easy around here for most animals. There are streams and swamps everywhere and it rains often. I've also never seen a cat that was living outdoors around here so skinny. There are tons of rodents and birds, and cats that aren't accustomed to living outside dont usually survive long enough to get skinny. They get picked off by foxes, coyotes, and hawks.

Im kind of worried he was dumped because he is sick. Other than the problems Ive noted he seems fine. Even his coat looks good. Any advice?

Poster age: im old

Country: usa

Vets: not open today, will call tomorrow

Tldr: emaciated cat drinks and pees a lot, expected? Or something else wrong?

u/MuchWow81 — 12 days ago
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Skinny stray cat drinking and peeing a lot

Rural new england. Found what looks like an expensive cat on the side of the road covered in ticks and emaciated. Some kind of siamese or similar, maybe even pure bred. I think its a neutered male but I havent poked around much because I don't know if he will tolerate that from a stranger. Adult, pretty large or he would be if his bones werent protruding everywhere. I brought him home, put him in my office with food, water and litter box. I have another indoor cat so all I had for flea and ticks was a 3-years expired dose of revolution plus. I put that on him, hopefully it helps until I can get something else. No vets open around here on the weekend.

As for the drinking and peeing, when I brought him home he ate almost immediately. Ate a bunch but didnt eat like you might expect with a starving animal, drank a bit, then slept. I hung out with him for a while and eventually he started poking around the room so I drew his attention to the litter box, he knew exactly what to do and he peed and peed and peed. It was an austin powers pee, seriously. He had obly been in my house a few hours at that point, its not like hed been holding it all day. This morning I checked on him and he was more alert and active and his water dish was empty. I filled it up and he drank and drank and drank.

Could there be something else wrong with him? Access to water is easy around here for most animals. There are streams and swamps everywhere and it rains often. I've also never seen a cat that was living outdoors around here so skinny. There are tons of rodents and birds, and cats that aren't accustomed to living outside dont usually survive long enough to get skinny. They get picked off by foxes, coyotes, and hawks.

Im kind of worried he was dumped because he is sick. Other than the problems Ive noted he seems fine. Even his coat looks good. Any advice?

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u/MuchWow81 — 12 days ago

Found this boy on the side of the road

He's just skin and bones and covered in ticks. I live in a rural area with lots of wildlife. Im surprised he has lived long enough outdoors to get in this poor of a condition. Ive got him in my office where its quiet, and he weirdly didnt eat like he was starving, just ate, napped, woke up, ate a bit more.

Any advice? He looks like an expensive cat. I plan to get him checked for a microchip but if he doesnt have one, or the owner doesn't come forward I plan to keep him. Im worried though about identifying the real owner. I don't want to post on CL "found purebred siamese" anybody could claim ownership. How do I make sure someone who claims him is the real owner?

u/MuchWow81 — 12 days ago

Location: CT

Short version of the story: death of estranged family member. Estate willed to my minor children with the family member's lawyer as executor. Executor seems unconcerned by fiduciary duty, trying to sell house for cheap in a deal that may not be arms length. Someone accessing the house, possibly living there, during probate period. Sale arranged without ever being listed far below market value.

I have been told that the lawyer is able to sell the assets as he sees fit because the deceased left a will. I have also been told that I can't get a lawyer to represent us in probate court because the kids are under 18 and have to instead be provided a guardian ad litem. I asked the court about that. They are making *me* the GAL. So now I have to go to the hearing and try to explain the problems I see with the sale of the house against an actual lawyer.

I feel like I have fallen through a very tiny oddly-shaped crack and am going to be extruded out the other side by a lawyer who wants to take half of my kids' inheritance.

What do I do?

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u/MuchWow81 — 15 days ago

These were obviously disconnected and empty over the winter.

ETA: i think I figured out what happened. We had a crazy bad winter . I think the snow was deep enough, for long enough and thawed and refroze enough times to fill up those two pipes since the ends were just open. It didnt affect the rest of the system because there is another valve inside the pool shed that was closed. Crazy. Replacing with removable valves and will be capping them for the winter too in future!

u/MuchWow81 — 16 days ago

Somebody pisted a cute crocheted guitar shaped box and lid a while back and I thought my husband would love that. So last night I tried to make one freehand in one piece, no cuts. It started out great until I tried to do the "walls" of the box then it, well, this is as far as I got before I had to stop because I was laughing so hard I couldnt see what I was doing anymore.

u/MuchWow81 — 20 days ago

To my sincere shock and amazement, Breyers chocolate peanutbutter ice cream has NOT been enshittified. There is certainly less of it for more money than there used to be, but it is still GOOD.

Update: I didnt notice it wasnt "iced cream".
From their website: Ingredients

Skim Milk, Peanuts, Cane Sugar, Corn Syrup, Water, Dutched Cocoa (Processed with Alkali), Cream, Coconut Oil, Corn Syrup Solids, Fructose, Less than 2% of: Dairy Product Solids, Peanut Oil, Mono and Diglycerides, Salt, Guar Gum, Carob Bean Gum, Tara Gum, Whey, Natural Flavor.

That's not all that crazy and it hit the spot. Ive had far far worse in recent years.

u/MuchWow81 — 25 days ago