Im a qatari girl and idk how to make friends in qatar, i am now in uni which is harder to make friends in than school, but even in school the social construction was difficult to enter, its like a hierarchy.
Any tips?
Yoo im finally 18 im officially unc
I just turned 18 im unc now 🥹
So ive got two sides of cousins, mom side and dad side, im close with both. in the past while ive been developing a disliking towards my cousins from my dads side, so i started talking shit about them with my cousins from my mom,
that disliking developed because of our small fights and one of them once told me "u changed" i said "no i didnt" then she said "everyone noticed", i said "who" she said "cousin B, cousin C, my mom and i" (her mom) so after that i started thinking that there is no way that they just said "oh she changed" and they ended the conversation on that note, they probably escalated further and started talking shit about me, thats when i started disliking them and thats what gave me the green light to start talking shit about them.
so during the time where i was talking shit about them with my cousins on my dads side, sometimes we would do that on snapchat, fast forward a few weeks, i decide to go to our other house with my grandma far away in a remote location and leave my electronics at home to rest and reset my dopamene, i decided that at like 4 am and the only person who was online at that time was cousin C, so i tell her about my plan and she says "what about our streak?" i say "it doesnt matter" she says "let me send for you" so i agree and give her my password...
later on, i decide to use my grandmas phone to check my snapchat and i see that my cousins from my dads side all blocked me, i started stressing real bad and i called my mom to see what happened (shes close with them) and she calls me back and tells me that cousin C looked through your snapchat and found out that you talked shit about them and they are sad.
so i go back home and cousins from mom side come over and i apologise like a million times to them and i say im so so so sorry and stuff, and i explain to them that i thought they hated me because of when they thought i changed, they swore that they have never said anything bad about me ever and that they love me and are disappointed, i think they know that i understood that i was wrong, but then they tell me that they've also blocked my cousins from my dad.
few hours later, after they went home, cousin B from my dads side calls me and asks "have your cousins from your moms side blocked you?" i say "i dont know" (i didnt know if i was supposed to say anything or whatever) then she asks me to check and i do, then she says "maybe they all deleted their account" i say "why dont u ask them?" she says "ive called cousin A a million times she isnt answering" then i say "i dont know" then we hang up.
few minutes later cousin C from my moms side texts me on tiktok and tells me that cousin B from my dads side is spam calling and that nor her or the others want to talk right now to them so they tell me to tell cousin B that i gave cousin C the password to my snapchat to send streak and then she saw the messages, i do that and then cousin B calls me and tells me "why the hell would you give her your snapchat when you know that we talked shit about them there" i say "she was the only one awake at that time" then she says "i dont even think i talked shit about them" i say "i dont know? check?" then she keeps preassuring me and wants me to give her cousin C's phone number so that she can get mad at her for checking my phone (my mom already got mad at her and she apologised to me for that) then my mom hears us and takes the phone from me and talks to cousin B and tells her to check our chat and to talk to cousin A from my moms side (because she is the oldest and most understanding) so then my mom closes from her, and tells me to send a voice memo to cousin A telling her to sort it out with them and to tell her what hurt her from the chats, then i turned off my phone and now i am here typing this, my mom took my phone and wants me to sleep right now.
im scared that cousin B from dads side will say every single bad thing i said about cousins from moms side to them as "payback" or something.
did i do the right thing? what should i do now? any advice??
So ive got two sides of cousins, mom side and dad side, im close with both. in the past while ive been developing a disliking towards my cousins from my dads side, so i started talking shit about them with my cousins from my mom,
that disliking developed because of our small fights and one of them once told me "u changed" i said "no i didnt" then she said "everyone noticed", i said "who" she said "cousin B, cousin C, my mom and i" (her mom) so after that i started thinking that there is no way that they just said "oh she changed" and they ended the conversation on that note, they probably escalated further and started talking shit about me, thats when i started disliking them and thats what gave me the green light to start talking shit about them.
so during the time where i was talking shit about them with my cousins on my dads side, sometimes we would do that on snapchat, fast forward a few weeks, i decide to go to our other house with my grandma far away in a remote location and leave my electronics at home to rest and reset my dopamene, i decided that at like 4 am and the only person who was online at that time was cousin C, so i tell her about my plan and she says "what about our streak?" i say "it doesnt matter" she says "let me send for you" so i agree and give her my password...
later on, i decide to use my grandmas phone to check my snapchat and i see that my cousins from my dads side all blocked me, i started stressing real bad and i called my mom to see what happened (shes close with them) and she calls me back and tells me that cousin C looked through your snapchat and found out that you talked shit about them and they are sad.
so i go back home and cousins from mom side come over and i apologise like a million times to them and i say im so so so sorry and stuff, and i explain to them that i thought they hated me because of when they thought i changed, they swore that they have never said anything bad about me ever and that they love me and are disappointed, i think they know that i understood that i was wrong, but then they tell me that they've also blocked my cousins from my dad.
few hours later, after they went home, cousin B from my dads side calls me and asks "have your cousins from your moms side blocked you?" i say "i dont know" (i didnt know if i was supposed to say anything or whatever) then she asks me to check and i do, then she says "maybe they all deleted their account" i say "why dont u ask them?" she says "ive called cousin A a million times she isnt answering" then i say "i dont know" then we hang up.
few minutes later cousin C from my moms side texts me on tiktok and tells me that cousin B from my dads side is spam calling and that nor her or the others want to talk right now to them so they tell me to tell cousin B that i gave cousin C the password to my snapchat to send streak and then she saw the messages, i do that and then cousin B calls me and tells me "why the hell would you give her your snapchat when you know that we talked shit about them there" i say "she was the only one awake at that time" then she says "i dont even think i talked shit about them" i say "i dont know? check?" then she keeps preassuring me and wants me to give her cousin C's phone number so that she can get mad at her for checking my phone (my mom already got mad at her and she apologised to me for that) then my mom hears us and takes the phone from me and talks to cousin B and tells her to check our chat and to talk to cousin A from my moms side (because she is the oldest and most understanding) so then my mom closes from her, and tells me to send a voice memo to cousin A telling her to sort it out with them and to tell her what hurt her from the chats, then i turned off my phone and now i am here typing this, my mom took my phone and wants me to sleep right now.
im scared that cousin B from dads side will say every single bad thing i said about cousins from moms side to them as "payback" or something.
did i do the right thing? what should i do now? any advice??
So ive got two sides of cousins, mom side and dad side, im close with both. in the past while ive been developing a disliking towards my cousins from my dads side, so i started talking shit about them with my cousins from my mom,
that disliking developed because of our small fights and one of them once told me "u changed" i said "no i didnt" then she said "everyone noticed", i said "who" she said "cousin B, cousin C, my mom and i" (her mom) so after that i started thinking that there is no way that they just said "oh she changed" and they ended the conversation on that note, they probably escalated further and started talking shit about me, thats when i started disliking them and thats what gave me the green light to start talking shit about them.
so during the time where i was talking shit about them with my cousins on my dads side, sometimes we would do that on snapchat, fast forward a few weeks, i decide to go to our other house with my grandma far away in a remote location and leave my electronics at home to rest and reset my dopamene, i decided that at like 4 am and the only person who was online at that time was cousin C, so i tell her about my plan and she says "what about our streak?" i say "it doesnt matter" she says "let me send for you" so i agree and give her my password...
later on, i decide to use my grandmas phone to check my snapchat and i see that my cousins from my dads side all blocked me, i started stressing real bad and i called my mom to see what happened (shes close with them) and she calls me back and tells me that cousin C looked through your snapchat and found out that you talked shit about them and they are sad.
so i go back home and cousins from mom side come over and i apologise like a million times to them and i say im so so so sorry and stuff, and i explain to them that i thought they hated me because of when they thought i changed, they swore that they have never said anything bad about me ever and that they love me and are disappointed, i think they know that i understood that i was wrong, but then they tell me that they've also blocked my cousins from my dad.
few hours later, after they went home, cousin B from my dads side calls me and asks "have your cousins from your moms side blocked you?" i say "i dont know" (i didnt know if i was supposed to say anything or whatever) then she asks me to check and i do, then she says "maybe they all deleted their account" i say "why dont u ask them?" she says "ive called cousin A a million times she isnt answering" then i say "i dont know" then we hang up.
few minutes later cousin C from my moms side texts me on tiktok and tells me that cousin B from my dads side is spam calling and that nor her or the others want to talk right now to them so they tell me to tell cousin B that i gave cousin C the password to my snapchat to send streak and then she saw the messages, i do that and then cousin B calls me and tells me "why the hell would you give her your snapchat when you know that we talked shit about them there" i say "she was the only one awake at that time" then she says "i dont even think i talked shit about them" i say "i dont know? check?" then she keeps preassuring me and wants me to give her cousin C's phone number so that she can get mad at her for checking my phone (my mom already got mad at her and she apologised to me for that) then my mom hears us and takes the phone from me and talks to cousin B and tells her to check our chat and to talk to cousin A from my moms side (because she is the oldest and most understanding) so then my mom closes from her, and tells me to send a voice memo to cousin A telling her to sort it out with them and to tell her what hurt her from the chats, then i turned off my phone and now i am here typing this, my mom took my phone and wants me to sleep right now.
im scared that cousin B from dads side will say every single bad thing i said about cousins from moms side to them as "payback" or something.
did i do the right thing? what should i do now? any advice??
Yves Saint Laurent at Christian Dior’s funeral.
PS: i dont have any animals, and i never wear short sleeved clothes outside so i cant say “oh i was trying to pet a stray cat” or like “i tripped and fell” cuz then it would scar my sleeve not my arm 🥹 only good ones ive thought of was “scratching myself in my sleep” but my scratches arent that sharp and parallel like my nails arent a knife lol, i also saw “tried shaving and cut myself on accident” id say that but the scars are like 6 and all next to each other IDKK HELP ME MY MOM IS VERY SNOOPY!!!
Where exactllyyyy does it say in Islam that a woman has to cover her face? I saw that women have to wear khimar but it was only to cover breasts not hair..? Please let me know.
Planning to send it to psa hoping it’ll get a 10
17f I literally do nothing all day I wake up at 12 pm immediately doomscroll for an hour even before washing my face, when I finally wake up I play video games, watch anime, scroll, that’s it, I have a few good friends honestly but like we rarely hang out, 90% of the time I bail out on the hangouts cuz Im more comfortable sitting in my room but then I get mad at myself cuz I’m wasting chances of going out. I feel like I’m wasting away my youth and time, what do I do? Can yall give me things to do and / or advise on what to do? ( I can’t just go to a park or go for a walk randomly 🥹 )