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I work out 5-6 days a week sometimes I’ll do 7 depends
F45 & 10k steps minimum daily - I’ve been doing this for 10 years I’m in the best shape ever but I’m constantly exhausted.

I love doing it but at the same time I’m like… is this what it takes to maintain?

Anyone ever experience an eye opening ego death in a way that felt liberating? I feel like I’m going through one now realizing how I got where I am today.

Living alone which I love duh - but realizing why certain things didn’t pan out & why I had a boyfriend/relationship that was doomed from the start

Almost weirdly grateful but also lowkey crying at all the versions that existed in the last 5 years.

Been waiting 8 months postponed 4 times. No discovery

I know what I’m thinking may be common but anyone sitting at home alone lately and whilst nothings necessarily wrong but you’re wondering “is this it?”

I work out, I have my dream job, always clean my apartment, broke up with my ex (it was for the best), I’m happily single and free to do anything, I don’t know if I can be bothered dating ever again, not really with friends with anyone, not really close with family, like im in auto-pilot mode but still high functioning.

It’s almost like a feeling of wanting more and knowing the steps to grow because you did all the self help books in your early twenties but then also just wanting to do absolutely nothing from being overstimulated.

I hope this makes sense, it’s not a cry for help I just wonder if anyone has experienced a pressure point feeling similar to this

Have a great week!

Anyone have any instances where you have paid your lawyer more and they’ve managed to get the case filed and dealt with quickly?

Hi! Has anyone seen a blue diesel wallet electric blue it has ID and bank cards I think it fell near tumadre at 5pm

Anyone else ever experience that weird alienated/villainized feeling when people can’t seem to grasp you’re happily choosing to spend the weekend at home alone?

I’m always generally confused how I’m looked at like I’m in the wrong you can’t be out every weekend all year

Or spend time with the same person every weekend with no real incentive or am I just weird?

I’m just starting to really enjoy being home.

Started with 1mg just as a starter/test but wondering if I should just take the other 1.5mg today to make it the 2.5mg that wa prescribed does doing it slightly after make a difference?

I’ve ordered my first prescription but asked if I could start at a lower dose like 0.5mg or 1mg they replied saying their lowest is 2.5mg. It’s telehealth btw Goodlife meds & im on contrave so I don’t want to go overboard so quickly.

Can I just do what I’m comfortable and do 1mg anyway?

Thank you!

Looking deeply in this and super curious

My DUI case is still listed as an “active investigation” months later, and I’m confused about what that actually means.

Does “active investigation” mean the DA still hasn’t made a filing decision yet? Or does it mean the police haven’t finished/submitted everything? I’m not asking for legal advice on the facts of the case.

I have a lawyer, I’m just trying to understand the process/status. Would it be a bad idea to email the detective directly just to ask for a status update, or should all communication go through my attorney while it’s still active?

I think I’m realizing I’m better off alone right now.
This is about my ex, who used to live with me.

He’s not a bad person he’s actually nice and it felt like my first real relationship whilst living in another country.
I just don’t think he noticed how exhausting his behavior was, from never helping with the cleaning, not taking accountability for not paying rent & no overall future plans.

We broke up and he moved out because of this it was becoming super toxic and we were always drinking etc.
This year he was coming over for the weekend to watch a tv show series, end up staying for three days, eat through my fridge not replace things, use my space, and somehow I’m still the issue because I’m not being affectionate enough.

It’s hard to feel soft toward someone when their presence starts to feel like another responsibility.

The funny thing is, since I stopped spending weekends with him and started being alone, I haven’t drank alcohol in almost three weeks.

I thought being alone would make me lonely, but I actually feel more regulated. My space stays clean, my routine makes sense, and I don’t have someone putting a pillow on my head because they don’t have the awareness that I’m right next to them.

My ego fights with that rejection of us mutually kinda giving up, but sometimes peace really does look like being by yourself.

Just venting, anyway have a great weekend!

I’m in a really weird stalled period right now where everything feels like it’s on pause, and I’m finding it hard to deal with the isolation. I’m in a city by myself, and over time I’ve separated myself from friendship groups, so there isn’t really a strong support system around me day to day. I’ve already finished the main things I was supposed to work on, so now I’m in this strange space where I’m trying to stay productive, keep a routine, work on smaller things, make plans, and not completely lose momentum but it all feels like an echo chamber.

I’m doing things alone, thinking alone, waiting alone, and there’s no real feedback, direction, or sense of what comes next. It’s starting to feel like I’m just managing myself in silence. Days and weeks go by, and even when I technically do something, it still feels like nothing is moving. I wake up on Mondays feeling defeated because there’s no sense of progress, no one checking in, no clear structure, and no real indication of what I’m supposed to be working toward now that I’ve already done what was expected of me. Has anyone else gone through a period like this where you felt isolated, directionless, and stuck waiting for life to start moving again?

Is this what life is meant to be?

I’m F(30), my ex is M(28). We were together for 2 years. He broke up with me, but he still comes over and spends time with me on weekends.

He also took forever to move his stuff out of my apartment, so the breakup felt dragged out. We’re not back together, so I’m naturally being less romantic, but I’ve noticed he sometimes makes little digs at me for not kissing him or being as affectionate.

The hard part is that he’s still my best friend. The relationship left me feeling pretty isolated, and because he’s been such a big part of my life, I don’t necessarily mind spending time with him. At the same time, I keep wondering what I’m getting out of this arrangement if we’re not actually together.

Another thing I struggle with is that he doesn’t really go out of his way to do anything special when we spend time together, and honestly, that was an issue in the relationship too. So sometimes it feels like I’m still giving him access to me, but the dynamic hasn’t actually changed in a way that makes me feel cared for or chosen.

I feel stuck in this in-between space where he ended the relationship, but we never really made a clean break. Part of me enjoys having him around because he’s familiar and I care about him, but another part of me wonders where relationships like this actually go from here.

Is it fair for me to stop inviting him over unless there’s actually something intentional or interesting we’re doing together? And for people who have had this kind of post-breakup dynamic, where did it end up going?

Does anyone else have those random moments where everything just feels like a never ending hamster wheel?

I feel like I’ll have 5 really solid days of work and focus and once it’s Saturday or the next week comes my brain is like so we’re just meant to go to sleep early, cook, clean, do all these things again and again?

I’m really grateful to say i live here - (double export Africa (5)> Australia(20)> LA(5) the regulars @ coffee bean Albertsons , yuccas, the hill hurst liquor store, all time, Los feliz cafe, homestead, Los Feliz smoke shop, doms, liberate emporium, La pergoletta.

My DMV hearing for a first-time DUI in California just got postponed again. This is like the 5th time.

They said they’ll reschedule it in a few days and that I don’t need to be there. My actual court hearing is still Monday, June 9th, so I’m confused. Is it normal for the DMV hearing to keep getting pushed with no new date yet when court is already coming up? Or there’s a chance for it to be all dismissed?

I have a lawyer and I’m asking them too, just trying to understand.

My Fitbit app has switched over, I’m getting frustrated at the AI. it suggested I hit 30,000 steps a day for a month to reach my goal & when I say it’s ridiculous it’s just like. “yeah, you’re right!)

Like??

Hiii I 30(F) live on my own in a 900ft 1BDR and I have a friend who is honestly really fun to hang out with we’re like long distance best friends - she left this city because she had no where to stay and couldn’t afford it.

Wellll now she’s coming back and asked to stay with me for 3-6 days while she visits. We met when we both felt outcasted by our friendship groups and bonded over that & I know that she doesn’t really have anywhere else to stay when she’s here because she’s fallen out with everyone else I think they caught onto what she was doing.

She’s pretty harmless but I have a whole schedule and routine now & just broke up with a boyfriend I used to live with who stayed here & didn’t pay rent.

I’m just not really in the mood to have visitors over & dont want to party etc. I don’t really know how to reply to her msg - what do I say/do.