u/Neebenice

Rewatching Insecure made me realize how self-absorbed Issa was. She expected this guy to drop everything for her unannounced visits and acted like that with everyone. Like treating her needs should be the top priority on everyone list. While I don’t think she was intentionally self-absorbed, she definitely was.

I like Frieda because she consistently demonstrates kindness and professionalism. Issa was biased, unlike Frieda, who remains objective and fair in her judgments.

I choose Apanra. While she annoyed me at times, I thought she was a better match for Lawrence because they share similar interests. She gave him good advice and had a similar sense of humor. It looked like they had strong chemistry, almost like what he and Issa share.

I like her for Lawrence because I think she was a better choice for him after Issa. They share similar interests, she gave him good advice, and she also matches his sense of humor. This could have been a successful match. I prefer her to be the mother of Lawrence's child rather than Condola. I believe Aparna is Lawrence's what-if girl, just like Daniel was Issa's what-if guy.

What are your thoughts on Will?

Another tough choice. I absolutely think he was a great match for Grace. One thing about this show is that they did an amazing job pairing Grace with wonderful significant others—those who match her sense of humor, chemistry, and intellect.

To psychologize Arthur Spooner, I see him as one of many elderly individuals, who in their later years, often reflect on their lives with feelings of regret for not having achieved something truly extraordinary or for not pursuing their dreams. I think the reason he frequently spews out his ideas is that he’s trying to convince others, including himself, that he might have or could have accomplished something remarkable with his life. He feels embarrassed and ashamed of living in his daughter‘s basement and perceives that others look down on him for it.

Karen is a perfect example of the saying money does not buy happiness. It is evident that she has endured deep-rooted trauma dating back to her childhood and continuing through her marriage. Her frequent use of pills and alcohol clearly indicates her efforts to numb and escape the pain she has experienced. I also believe she has been suffering emotional distress within her marriage to Stanley Walker. The conflicts and struggles with him likely contributed to her reliance on substances to cope with her feelings.

I believe he did. I think he was the best choice for Will. Will could have at least taken some time to see if he had changed his ways.