u/Neebenice
The Triangle
Even though it may seem like Condola was encouraging Lawrence to go after Issa, that doesn’t mean she wasn’t hoping she and Lawrence would get back together. She just realized he was still in love with Issa. I think she may have thought his feelings had faded since a little over a year had passed, but when she saw Lawrence glancing over at Issa, she understood that he still loved her. Condola likely felt guilty that Issa and Lawrence had broken up because of her decision and wanted to make things right. That’s why I feel like she was hinting that Lawrence should go after Issa, thinking things could still work out between them despite her decision to keep the baby. She didn't want it to be a complete loss; things could still go as planned between Lawrence and Issa.
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I feel like Issa settled on being a stepmother to be with Lawrence, even though that’s not something she wanted. When Molly says “she’s not trying to be anyone's stepmother,” Issa nods in agreement.
Wouldn't the same reservation someone had about being a stepparent be the same later on? Tell me, how can one's reservation about something like that change?
To the Team Nathan, why?
Honestly, I never got the team. I always questioned why they thought he'd be a good partner for Isa. Whenever a small disagreement arises, he prefers to run away instead of finding another barbershop to work at he wanted to completely leave LA while he was in a relationship with Isa. When faced with accountability, he doesn't accept it and instead blames her. If he felt this way about her, why did he get into a relationship with her? Also, Issa was wrong for persuading him to stay when she wasn't in love with him; she was thinking about Lawrence.
What initial thought did you have about Insecure that changed later on?
reddit.comWho presents a convincing argument: MOLLY or Andrew?
Nathan and Issa's friendship
I'm unsure why Issa thought remaining friends with Nathan was a good idea, given he still has feelings for her. I secretly think she knew it was a bad choice, but if she stopped being friends with him, she feared it might confirm what Molly said about her using people. So, she kept being friends with Nathan to avoid seeming like she's used him.
Nathan tells Issa that he's bipolar
Isa accepted the explanation for Nathan's actions when he labeled it as bipolar disorder, but not the actions themselves. Nathan told her that when he returned, he sometimes experiences mood swings, though he didn't explicitly say he was bipolar. Initially, Isa didn't understand or accept this. However, once it was labeled as bipolar disorder, she began to understand and accept it better. Why do you think that is?
Condola's “Abortion”
Some believe Condola had an abortion, but this isn't clearly stated. She only said she wasn’t ready with her husband and that this time she wants to keep it, which can be interpreted in various ways. I interpret it as her not having a child or trying to conceive when she was married because she wasn’t ready, but now, being established, she feels prepared and wants to keep it. One can be married and not be ready as of yet to have a baby, but that doesn’t mean you don’t want a baby with that person. Her saying 'this time' doesn’t automatically imply an abortion; unless she explicitly said the word, people should avoid claiming she had one. They can share their beliefs or interpretations, but shouldn't state it as fact without her direct statement. Hopefully, Issa addresses this on her podcast when the relevant episode is discussed.
I thought Issa was wrong
I think Issa was wrong to ask Lawrence to stay and to sleep with him despite knowing he was still involved with Condola and on his way to see her. I believe Issa should have shared her feelings and then left. Out of respect for Condola, Issa shouldn’t have slept with Lawrence until he had fully ended things with Condola. Some might say, 'Oh, they weren’t friends and Condola ghosted her," but Condola also helped Issa’s career and provided resources she needed, and because she and Condola had a personal relationship—not just a connection as Lawrence’s ex—I believe Issa should have shown Condola more respect. Without Condola, her career might be very different. Molly was right when she said Issa uses people; she’s willing to step over anyone to get what she wants.
Why do you think Lawrence and Condola rekindled things after they broke up?
I've always wondered if Condola didn’t want to remarry and Lawrence knew about it. Why did they reconnect then? What were they hoping to accomplish with each other?
If Lawrence didn't want to rekindle, then what was he trying to gain from Issa?
I always wonder why Lawrence asked Isa to dinner to talk, since it didn’t seem like he wanted to rekindle their relationship. I believe his intention was more about ego; he wanted answers about why she cheated on him, perhaps driven by lingering pride and curiosity. I think he believes he’s that special person, so he’s questioning what could have made her betray him, searching for explanations that would restore his sense of worth.
Molly is Insufferable🤦♀️
Molly is insufferable. She was ready to discard Issa just to avoid a conversation when she wanted one, but when her turn came to talk, she refused. This girl, I tell you 🙄
Should Isa have reached out or never spoken to Molly again after the Block party?
What would you have done in this situation with you and your best friend? Would you try to work things out with her if you were Isa and your best friend was Molly, or would you let that friendship go?
Who was in the right?
I believe Issa was justified. Molly said she didn’t want to get involved, although that wasn’t her true intention. Issa simply followed through on her words and didn't involve her.
However, I also think Molly’s actions were understandable, even if her way of expressing herself wasn’t ideal. I can understand how Molly could be upset that Issa used her connection—namely her boyfriend—to succeed while not maintaining regular contact with her, only reaching out when she needed something.
Condola
If Condola supposedly didn't take Lawrence seriously, what underlying reasons might explain her jealousy of Issa? Do you think her envy stems from a genuine desire to be with Lawrence, or could there be other factors at play? What specific aspects of Issa or the situation do you believe trigger Condola's feelings of jealousy?