Life after 30

Life after 30

I'm in my 20s doing a corporate job.

But don't want to end up my life like this

After 6 or 10 years , I'm planning to start something

Not like some niche start up

Just some small scale buisness or a store

More i like to create a farm.

Being more self sufficient, vegitables, cow ( but I really like goats ) hen, ducks, birds, small pond for fish. Dogs

Want to lead a peaceful life.

Just one normal bike and a car ( may be a alto )

No more voices.

In evening sip some tea with reading my fav books

Minimum screen time

Actually I'm not a fan of luxury

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 11 days ago

Life after 30

I'm in my 20s doing a corporate job.

But don't want to end up my life like this

After 6 or 10 years , I'm planning to start something

Not like some niche start up

Just some small scale buisness or a store

More i like to create a farm.

Being more self sufficient, vegitables, cow ( but I really like goats ) hen, ducks, birds, small pond for fish. Dogs

Want to lead a peaceful life.

Just one normal bike and a car ( may be a alto )

No more voices.

In evening sip some tea with reading my fav books

Minimum screen time

Actually I'm not a fan of luxury

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 11 days ago

Hence proved, Age is just a number

Ente office il oru colleague und who is 2 years younger than me. But always irritate me ' iyalk ithrem prayam undello '' kalyanam nokkunille'

So he didn't came to onam celebration.

I asked why

His reply is really shocking.

He never come to any religious festival

He's a orthodox muslim guy. Have zero interaction with female employees.

Now I got that we have 20 years age gap but he's older.

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 11 days ago

Anyone working at Paradigm IT Solutions, Kochi

How’s your experience there, especially for freshers? Work culture, salary, learning opportunities, and career growth?

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 1 month ago

Anyone working in Advenser Engineering Services Pvt. Ltd. - BIM Services & Consulting, infopark CSEZ

How’s your experience there, especially for freshers? Work culture, salary, learning opportunities, and career growth? Would

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 1 month ago
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Why are you staying in Kochi?

I feel like people have very different relationships with Kochi.

For some, Kochi feels like a land of survival work, rent, traffic, and just getting through the month.

Some genuinely love Kochi and enjoy the lifestyle here.

And some are simply forced to live here because of their job, studies, family, or other reasons.

Kochi isn’t necessarily a bad place. But from what I’ve noticed, a lot of people living here are actually from outside Kochi and came here because they had to.

So, what’s your reason for staying in Kochi?

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Are you using dating apps without premium?

For those using Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, etc. without paying for premium ,how has your experience been?

Are you getting enough matches

does it feel like the apps are designed to push you towards premium?

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Any aspiring indie filmmakers here?

Onathinu idayil ee post irrelevant aanu enn ariyam 😅 But there’s no perfect time alle.

Are there any aspiring indie filmmakers in Kochi who would be interested in a casual hangout?

I’m hoping to meet people who are interested in direction, writing, cinematography, editing, sound, acting, music, or anything related to filmmaking.

No big plans or expectations just a bunch of people who are interested in cinema, meeting up, sharing ideas, talking about films, and maybe eventually collaborating on a small short film.

If you're an aspiring filmmaker or just genuinely interested in indie filmmaking, let’s hang out

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Anyone going to MaHAHAdevan Live tomorrow? 👀

Anyone else going to the MaHAHAdevan Live Malayalam crowd-work show at Commons tomorrow? 👀

I’m planning to go and thought it’d be fun to go together. If you’re interested, we can book 2 tickets together and get ₹100 off.

DM me if you’re going! 😄

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Confused stage : film or career

I'm currently in probation of my job. Just started as a fresher. In my past I tried to enter film industry as a writer and director. Now I got a chance to assist in a film but now I'm not sure about it. If I resign my job everything will be changed. And if I don't join as a assistant director I don't know I'll regret in future.

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

To that irritating person in your life

Ente life il ippo oru irritating thendi und. Arum illel Avante crush ine patti parayum

4 alu koodiyal avanu enne kaliyakanam

NJN athra lola hrudayan onnum alla

Enik ente same vibe il ulla alkar kaliyakunathil preshnam illa.

Chilapo enik pattiya mandatharangal paranj NJN thanne enne trollar und.

But Ivan purake ninnu mattulavarod paranj madan akkan nokkuva.

Recently ente oru friend ine ivane parijayapeduthi

Next day avanodu 2 masam munne ulla karyangal paranj nanam keduthi

Guess what ivan ente colleague anu

Ivante Kure personal karyam ennodu vent chythit und

Oru day full enne chorinjapol NJN aa topic inte cheriya oru hint discussion il ittu

He became uncomfortable

And said ithra chetta ano nee

In my mind ennod vent cheyyan NJN paranjit illa

Kooduthal kalichal ellam NJN eduth purath idum

If you're that irritating person

Don't do this to anyone

If you're a person tolerating like me

Just thirich 4 ennam paranj kodukuka

We don't have to be silent

Pinne silent men wise anen NJN viswasikunilla...

So it's our life.

Athu paranjal chetta akumenkil

Yes I'm a loka chetta

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Book reading clubs in Kochi?

Are there any book reading clubs or communities in Kochi similar to Trivandrum Reads?

Looking for something where people meet regularly, read together, discuss books, and maybe make some new friends along the way. 📚

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Anyone interested in standup comedy for next week 22 Aug

Anyone planning to go for MaHAHAdevan Live! – A Malayalam Crowd Work Show on 22 August in Kochi?

📅 Saturday, 22 Aug 2026

🕢 7:30 PM

📍 Commons, Kochi

🎤 Malayalam crowd work / improv comedy

⏱️ Around 1.5 hours

Looks like it’s going to be mostly unscripted jokes, audience interaction and spontaneous comedy.

If anyone’s interested in going, let me know! Could be fun to go as a group.

u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/Kochi

Any book reading club available in kochi like trivandrum reads.

Are there any book reading clubs or communities in Kochi similar to Trivandrum Reads?

Looking for something where people meet regularly, read together, discuss books, and maybe make some new friends along the way. 📚

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

In corporate, is keeping a low profile good or bad?

I’m struggling to create visibility for myself at work. I usually keep a low profile and focus on getting my work done, but I’m starting to feel like that might be holding me back.

I find it really hard to break the ice with coworkers. Most people don’t seem interested in interacting, and I’m not sure how to approach them without making things awkward.

How important is visibility in the workplace?

How do you naturally build connections with coworkers?

Any tips for someone who finds it difficult to icebreak ?

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago

Anything fun happening in Kochi tomorrow (Sunday)? Looking to get out of the house

I'm feeling really bored and would love to join something tomorrow meetups, sports, board games, trekking, volunteering, live music, workshops, or any interesting events in Kochi. If you know of anything happening on Sunday that's open to newcomers, please let me know!

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u/Ok_Syllabub_7853 — 2 months ago