What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 3 days ago

What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 3 days ago

What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 3 days ago

What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 3 days ago

What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 3 days ago

Ppl think that kink=turn on when it doesn’t

And it completely changes what ppl hear when you say that you are antikink, kink to me means something that’s not naturally sexual turned sexual, or something that’s harmful/extreme, but kink is so normalized it’s completely changed its meaning to other ppl, same for the word “gooning” it’s completely lost its meaning that it once had, no one will understand what we are saying unless we have to spell it out for them now, and even if we do they will probably hold their same beliefs because that’s what’s expected of them and who wants to go against the grain right?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 4 days ago

What did you do after the break up?

And I don’t mean just “break up” but like actually left for good, what did you do? What did that process look like? Were you reckless? Were you scared? Were you overly cautious? How long did it take to move on? Did you move on too fast or wait too long to move on? What mistakes did you make? What did you learn? Was it easy or hard?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 6 days ago

I want to fall in love again

But it’s too soon, I know I’m not healed enough yet, but I just want to feel safe with someone so badly already, but I know if I rush things I’ll just jump into the arms of someone else abusive again, how long did it take you to find someone healthy after leaving your abusive ex? How long did it take you to feel safe with them? How did that relationship go?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 7 days ago

I want to fall in love again

But it’s too soon, I know I’m not healed enough yet, but I just want to feel safe with someone so badly already, but I know if I rush things I’ll just jump into the arms of someone else abusive again, how long did it take you to find someone healthy after leaving your abusive ex? How long did it take you to feel safe with them? How did that relationship go?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 7 days ago

I want to fall in love again

But it’s too soon, I know I’m not healed enough yet, but I just want to feel safe with someone so badly already, but I know if I rush things I’ll just jump into the arms of someone else abusive again, how long did it take you to find someone healthy after leaving your abusive ex? How long did it take you to feel safe with them? How did that relationship go?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 7 days ago

I left and then so did she

After I left their infidelity accomplice left them too, and I don’t know how to feel about it, I wanted that for so long, but now it’s too late, they didn’t even choose to let her go, she left them because they couldn’t pick one of us, so they ended up losing both of us, I feel like I should be happy, but I just feel like it’s not real or something, like it’s not going to last, like she’ll come back eventually, but then I also think, why do I even care? This person isn’t in my life anymore, if I only ever cared in the past is because I didn’t want their infidelity accomplice in my life, but once I left them that meant neither of them would be in my life anymore so I just don’t care what they do, I kinda wish I could feel the satisfaction of them leaving tho, in a weird way, because I needed it so badly for so long, but now it’s just too late to care

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 7 days ago

I just got out of an abusive kinky relationship

I keep getting emotional flashbacks everytime I try to have sex, I feel so broken, even when we aren’t doing kink, one mention of kink, and not even in a way suggesting we do kink, just like saying that “this isn’t a kink but”and I completely lose the moment, and start to panic slightly mentally, it’s like the word itself is a trigger for me, idk how I’m supposed to even have vanilla sex if even vanilla takes me back to my abusive relationship

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 13 days ago