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my boyfriend knew this girl since highschoool they didnt talk for years. We were together for a long time when we ran into her somewhere. He saw her one night out and got her number so he can do work on her house she moved into so he can make some money.

Now hes sneaking around hanging out with her. I saw him texting her n he said its about work. Then he started being sneaky with his phone n flipping it over and bringing it with him everywhere. Then he wasnt answering my calls some weekends. I live with him n was at home.

I got suspicious and asked him some questions n he must have thought i knew so he blurted out yes i did sleep there on her couch for a few hours. He told me I know the dudes she hangout with and they are there when they hungout. He said he slept on couch for a few hours n they had some drinks it was no big deal. I thought he was working at his shop all night. Now they are still talking.

I told him im not comfortable with it n he said he doesnt care shes like one of the dudes and he turns it on me that im being insecure and acting like a child. I caught him a few times since then. We talked about it. He told me he didnt want to tell me because he knew id get mad for no reason. We have been together for 12 years.

They talk all the time and its not work related always. Its just random stuff n asking if they want to hangout. He even invited her to the shop when she was with her friend for some drinks. I am not even invited there anymore.. he says hes too busy. Im so stressed n now we are having money issues and have to move out of our house n he is taking all his stress n anger out on me but goes n helps her for free sometimes n makes time to hangout with her when he is telling me he is working.

Now he told me he wants a break until he sees if he can get through these money issues and to go to my parents n he will figure out where he will go or stay at his shop? He said he will go to my parents sometimes to shower n wash clothes maybe but he has to figure stuff out or if he cant we cant move forward. So he said he is so stressed n I need to do this for now. He refuses to come to my parents. He said he doesnt want to bring all his stuff there. He doesnt even have alot of stuff. Thats an excuse. Even if he did, they have the room.

Then other days he tells me he is gonna talk to someone about a place for us. He is pulling me back n forth. It feels to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. Btw in the past he was on dating apps asking for discreet friends with benefits. He said he never met up with anyone. I talked to him n he is off those apps now. to me it seems like he could have possibly found another way to get what he wants discreetly.

He tells me they r just old friends n she has got her shit together n he likes hanging out with good people. He also went out n met up with her n others when I was out of town. He was there until the morning. I dont know what to do. I feel stupid. I always felt like I would always say bye but now that its actually happening to me I feel stuck n stupid.

I love him so much. This hurts. Can anybody give me advice? Should I have any reason to think they can just be old friends n hanging out? Also, I caught him alot hanging out with her and not telling me. I talked to him about that n it got nowhere. He just got mad n said im insecure and acting like a child. One time her daughter called him n asked if he could come fix something at their house.

He tells me he has to work on her house for money. He didnt even start it yet... he is going there n hanging out. One time he went 2 times in 1 day.. please be nice. I need advice on what to do. He hides his phone n flips it over now. He just acts different lately and since they started talking I feel like im getting the cold shoulder or he gets angry with me everytime I talk about anything. I know we have money issues and things are tough right now so I thought it was that at first but I dont think its just that now.

Can I be wrong? Idk.. but i need advice and thoughts. Again, please be nice. Im really going through a tough time over here and just feeling sad n drained n confused. This feels like so much is happening all at once. Thank you all.

my boyfriend knew this girl since highschoool they didnt talk for years. We were together for a long time when we ran into her somewhere. He saw her one night out and got her number so he can do work on her house she moved into so he can make some money.

Now hes sneaking around hanging out with her. I saw him texting her n he said its about work. Then he started being sneaky with his phone n flipping it over and bringing it with him everywhere. Then he wasnt answering my calls some weekends. I live with him n was at home.

I got suspicious and asked him some questions n he must have thought i knew so he blurted out yes i did sleep there on her couch for a few hours. He told me I know the dudes she hangout with and they are there when they hungout. He said he slept on couch for a few hours n they had some drinks it was no big deal. I thought he was working at his shop all night. Now they are still talking.

I told him im not comfortable with it n he said he doesnt care shes like one of the dudes and he turns it on me that im being insecure and acting like a child. I caught him a few times since then. We talked about it. He told me he didnt want to tell me because he knew id get mad for no reason. We have been together for 12 years.

They talk all the time and its not work related always. Its just random stuff n asking if they want to hangout. He even invited her to the shop when she was with her friend for some drinks. I am not even invited there anymore.. he says hes too busy. Im so stressed n now we are having money issues and have to move out of our house n he is taking all his stress n anger out on me but goes n helps her for free sometimes n makes time to hangout with her when he is telling me he is working.

Now he told me he wants a break until he sees if he can get through these money issues and to go to my parents n he will figure out where he will go or stay at his shop? He said he will go to my parents sometimes to shower n wash clothes maybe but he has to figure stuff out or if he cant we cant move forward. So he said he is so stressed n I need to do this for now. He refuses to come to my parents. He said he doesnt want to bring all his stuff there. He doesnt even have alot of stuff. Thats an excuse. Even if he did, they have the room.

Then other days he tells me he is gonna talk to someone about a place for us. He is pulling me back n forth. It feels to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. Btw in the past he was on dating apps asking for discreet friends with benefits. He said he never met up with anyone. I talked to him n he is off those apps now. to me it seems like he could have possibly found another way to get what he wants discreetly.

He tells me they r just old friends n she has got her shit together n he likes hanging out with good people. He also went out n met up with her n others when I was out of town. He was there until the morning. I dont know what to do. I feel stupid. I always felt like I would always say bye but now that its actually happening to me I feel stuck n stupid.

I love him so much. This hurts. Can anybody give me advice? Should I have any reason to think they can just be old friends n hanging out? Also, I caught him alot hanging out with her and not telling me. I talked to him about that n it got nowhere. He just got mad n said im insecure and acting like a child. One time her daughter called him n asked if he could come fix something at their house.

He tells me he has to work on her house for money. He didnt even start it yet... he is going there n hanging out. One time he went 2 times in 1 day.. please be nice. I need advice on what to do. He hides his phone n flips it over now. He just acts different lately and since they started talking I feel like im getting the cold shoulder or he gets angry with me everytime I talk about anything. I know we have money issues and things are tough right now so I thought it was that at first but I dont think its just that now.

Can I be wrong? Idk.. but i need advice and thoughts. Again, please be nice. Im really going through a tough time over here and just feeling sad n drained n confused. This feels like so much is happening all at once. Thank you all.

my boyfriend knew this girl since highschoool they didnt talk for years. We were together for a long time when we ran into her somewhere. He saw her one night out and got her number so he can do work on her house she moved into so he can make some money.

Now hes sneaking around hanging out with her. I saw him texting her n he said its about work. Then he started being sneaky with his phone n flipping it over and bringing it with him everywhere. Then he wasnt answering my calls some weekends. I live with him n was at home.

I got suspicious and asked him some questions n he must have thought i knew so he blurted out yes i did sleep there on her couch for a few hours. He told me I know the dudes she hangout with and they are there when they hungout. He said he slept on couch for a few hours n they had some drinks it was no big deal. I thought he was working at his shop all night. Now they are still talking.

I told him im not comfortable with it n he said he doesnt care shes like one of the dudes and he turns it on me that im being insecure and acting like a child. I caught him a few times since then. We talked about it. He told me he didnt want to tell me because he knew id get mad for no reason. We have been together for 12 years.

They talk all the time and its not work related always. Its just random stuff n asking if they want to hangout. He even invited her to the shop when she was with her friend for some drinks. I am not even invited there anymore.. he says hes too busy. Im so stressed n now we are having money issues and have to move out of our house n he is taking all his stress n anger out on me but goes n helps her for free sometimes n makes time to hangout with her when he is telling me he is working.

Now he told me he wants a break until he sees if he can get through these money issues and to go to my parents n he will figure out where he will go or stay at his shop? He said he will go to my parents sometimes to shower n wash clothes maybe but he has to figure stuff out or if he cant we cant move forward. So he said he is so stressed n I need to do this for now. He refuses to come to my parents. He said he doesnt want to bring all his stuff there. He doesnt even have alot of stuff. Thats an excuse. Even if he did, they have the room.

Then other days he tells me he is gonna talk to someone about a place for us. He is pulling me back n forth. It feels to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. Btw in the past he was on dating apps asking for discreet friends with benefits. He said he never met up with anyone. I talked to him n he is off those apps now. to me it seems like he could have possibly found another way to get what he wants discreetly.

He tells me they r just old friends n she has got her shit together n he likes hanging out with good people. He also went out n met up with her n others when I was out of town. He was there until the morning. I dont know what to do. I feel stupid. I always felt like I would always say bye but now that its actually happening to me I feel stuck n stupid.

I love him so much. This hurts. Can anybody give me advice? Should I have any reason to think they can just be old friends n hanging out? Also, I caught him alot hanging out with her and not telling me. I talked to him about that n it got nowhere. He just got mad n said im insecure and acting like a child. One time her daughter called him n asked if he could come fix something at their house.

He tells me he has to work on her house for money. He didnt even start it yet... he is going there n hanging out. One time he went 2 times in 1 day.. please be nice. I need advice on what to do. He hides his phone n flips it over now. He just acts different lately and since they started talking I feel like im getting the cold shoulder or he gets angry with me everytime I talk about anything. I know we have money issues and things are tough right now so I thought it was that at first but I dont think its just that now.

Can I be wrong? Idk.. but i need advice and thoughts. Again, please be nice. Im really going through a tough time over here and just feeling sad n drained n confused. This feels like so much is happening all at once. Thank you all.

Am I being clingy for wanting to go with my boyfriend to a horseshoe tournament with him that his friend set up? Its at a bar n restaurant with outdoor seating. Anyone can go n hangout at anytime. Anyone is welcome. He is playing in the tournament. i am not. But its at a bar.

Everyone is welcome . There is outside seating and food n drinks. . But he doesnt want me to go. He refuses to let me be there saying im a distraction but anyone can go there, men and women.

He said i wont know anyone but I want to go and enjoy myself there also. Also, alot of people going are people that we see at same party every year.

I dont see the big deal.

He is refusing to let me go. .

I feel like he does this alot lately. He goes out and enjoys himself at the bar on some night without me. . Im asking to go to something with him n said I wont be in the way and he stormed out of the house.

We have been together for years. . . I dont get it.

Am i being rude for wanting to go out with him on a Saturday night n enjoy some time out?

I really dont see the big deal...

It just hurts that I dont feel welcome. N i dont get why he had to storm out of the house n leave for a bit because something so silly. Yet he called me the child?

He automatically said well i dont want u to start anything with me and I dont want to spend more money for both of us then he said u will get bored ..n the list goes on of excuses he made. .

I dont get why he stormed out of the house n left. .

I know this seems silly but im just confused why this escalated. I dont get the big deal if I go or not.

I thought he would be happy if I got out for a bit n enjoyed myself for a bit.

Im annoyed. ..

Ive been with my boyfriend 12 years n have lived with him the whole time. I recently found out he was subscribed to some dating apps n asking for fwb n saying just alot of stuff to many women about meeting up hotel and coffee etc. He didnt meet with any i dont think . Pretty sure of it.. He said he lived with a roomate to those women. Then my friend who uses that site saw him on there n got it out of him he has a gf and that because her health scare (idid have one but im fine n still the same person) (also when i brought it up to him he said he knew it was me. Which in his defense, in the app he said this sounds like a trap but she talked him out of it n he definitly did not know it was her)( i didnt know she was doing this she told me after.. she was looking out for me) anyways... he said to her things r different n shes content in her ways but its awkward but sex is still good but idk im looking for someone whose intellectual and on my level to talk to n fwb type thing n he said he would have met up with her that night when she asked..lol he is always working n i never see him enough as it is n i get yelled at if I even ask him to stay home a bit longer. But he told her f work . Id totally meet up with you . (He didnt know it was my friend talking to him) Then he went on vacation and hungout with some girl. . . Now he deleted all of that ( he showed me. Everything is off his phone) when i found it n confronted him and said hes sorrry n nothing happened. A few months has gone by n we have been a little better n trying to work past it but i remember telling him I know u deletedd the apps but now your just gonna use it as an excuse to hangout with other girls outside the apps... N thats exactly what hes doing . He said he can hangout with who he wants alone. It was so random when he said it too.. N then he rambled off some names. One of them I knew forever he knew her before we were together so im fine with but the other ones not so much . N he said im just insecure n ill never change n i said I have a right to be right now but then he pulls the excuse ive been this way for whole time we have been dating . Lol then why r u still with me ? Right? Im so pissed off. He said i am not going to hurt you. I promise. But wtf. I really feel stupid right now for even staying at this moment that he said that. but I love him n we have been working on trust again... just asking for thoughts or opinions. Oh BTW we do have a roomate now which is a guy that he brought here not me. He said everyone said why would u bring a man in with your woman? Thats a no no . But hes the one that decided to do that. I would never hurt my man or try anything with the roomate. Dont u think he was just using that to his advantage when talking about the other women? Im really sad right now. I always thought I would know what to do in this situation but I dont. I do love him. He does work hard . We have been working trust back up but I feel like I try harder then him n he gets mad about alot n it feels like everything is thrown back at me to make me feel bad at times when I didnt do him wrong ever ! I feel like I know what everyone's going to say on here. But im just looking for advice. He has never been like this to me before until after my health scare. Ive been out of work for a bit n idk he says he loves me n doesnt feel different about me but it sure feels n looks that way. N i dont really have many friends BTW. N idk where id go if I left. N i dont have a car atm. :( he said he wants us to work out but i need to stop being insecure. N he loves me n we will see if i can change he said. I let him know its not just me that has to fix things here. N he used to be happy for me that i see a therapist but now he tells me its funny u can tell some stranger everything but dont communicate everything with me n its funny your therapist just knows your side. Which isnt true at all. But it really threw me off. I said well id love to talk to u more but im not intellectual enough anymore i guess n because my health scare i act younger than my age he said lol which isnt true at all. Anyone would vouch for me that i know including the doctors. But ya ... he still said ill be here for you through everything but im to old for this insecurity and he said he loves me but when hes mad he says he doesnt love anyone since his mom n grandma who passsed away a long time ago. Then he tells me he loves me obviously n he was just upset. He said alot of his past relationships didnt work because he is here for everyone who needs it. Which is very nice but this is a different situation lol . I do get quite pushy n am feeling insecure lately about things. N i know that upsets him n can push him away . But ive been working on that. N i feel like hes just having his cake n eating it too. ( oh he also said that to my friend that he didnt know was my friend on the chat that he knows it seems like he is having his cake n eating it to or w.e ) but ya. . . I want to move on from all of that n i think we have been working on it. But now that was brought up exactly what I thought about hanging out with other women that are just friends. I get it for some but others I said i dont feel comfortable with that. N he got mad. I asked him how he would feel if its reversed? He said well u dont have friends n i told u i want u to hangout with ppl more. I told him I knew u were going to do this i called it. N maybe it wont be a big deal... but with what has happened, right now l, to me it is making me nervous n idk who to vent to. He just got mad when i brought it up n called me insecure. W.e. Let me know what you all think . Thanks for the vent session. Please be polite in the comments. Thank you

Ive been with my boyfriend 12 years n have lived with him the whole time. I recently found out he was subscribed to some dating apps n asking for fwb n saying just alot of stuff to many women about meeting up hotel and coffee etc. He didnt meet with any i dont think . Pretty sure of it.. He said he lived with a roomate to those women.

Then my friend who uses that site saw him on there n got it out of him he has a gf and that because her health scare (idid have one but im fine n still the same person) (also when i brought it up to him he said he knew it was me. Which in his defense, in the app he said this sounds like a trap but she talked him out of it n he definitly did not know it was her)( i didnt know she was doing this she told me after.. she was looking out for me) anyways... he said to her things r different n shes content in her ways but its awkward but sex is still good but idk im looking for someone whose intellectual and on my level to talk to n fwb type thing n he said he would have met up with her that night when she asked..lol he is always working n i never see him enough as it is n i get yelled at if I even ask him to stay home a bit longer. But he told her f work . Id totally meet up with you .

(He didnt know it was my friend talking to him) Then he went on vacation and hungout with some girl. . . Now he deleted all of that ( he showed me. Everything is off his phone) when i found it n confronted him and said hes sorrry n nothing happened. A few months has gone by n we have been a little better n trying to work past it but i remember telling him I know u deletedd the apps but now your just gonna use it as an excuse to hangout with other girls outside the apps... N thats exactly what hes doing . He said he can hangout with who he wants alone. It was so random when he said it too.. N then he rambled off some names.

One of them I knew forever he knew her before we were together so im fine with but the other ones not so much . N he said im just insecure n ill never change n i said I have a right to be right now but then he pulls the excuse ive been this way for whole time we have been dating . Lol then why r u still with me ? Right? Im so pissed off. He said i am not going to hurt you. I promise. But wtf.

I really feel stupid right now for even staying at this moment that he said that. but I love him n we have been working on trust again... just asking for thoughts or opinions. Oh BTW we do have a roomate now which is a guy that he brought here not me. He said everyone said why would u bring a man in with your woman? Thats a no no . But hes the one that decided to do that. I would never hurt my man or try anything with the roomate.

Dont u think he was just using that to his advantage when talking about the other women? Im really sad right now. I always thought I would know what to do in this situation but I dont. I do love him. He does work hard . We have been working trust back up but I feel like I try harder then him n he gets mad about alot n it feels like everything is thrown back at me to make me feel bad at times when I didnt do him wrong ever ! I feel like I know what everyone's going to say on here. But im just looking for advice. He has never been like this to me before until after my health scare. Ive been out of work for a bit n idk he says he loves me n doesnt feel different about me but it sure feels n looks that way. N i dont really have many friends BTW. N idk where id go if I left. N i dont have a car atm. :( he said he wants us to work out but i need to stop being insecure. N he loves me n we will see if i can change he said. I let him know its not just me that has to fix things here. N he used to be happy for me that i see a therapist but now he tells me its funny u can tell some stranger everything but dont communicate everything with me n its funny your therapist just knows your side. Which isnt true at all.

But it really threw me off. I said well id love to talk to u more but im not intellectual enough anymore i guess n because my health scare i act younger than my age he said lol which isnt true at all. Anyone would vouch for me that i know including the doctors.

But ya ... he still said ill be here for you through everything but im to old for this insecurity and he said he loves me but when hes mad he says he doesnt love anyone since his mom n grandma who passsed away a long time ago. Then he tells me he loves me obviously n he was just upset. He said alot of his past relationships didnt work because he is here for everyone who needs it. Which is very nice but this is a different situation lol . I do get quite pushy n am feeling insecure lately about things. N i know that upsets him n can push him away . But ive been working on that. N i feel like hes just having his cake n eating it too. ( oh he also said that to my friend that he didnt know was my friend on the chat that he knows it seems like he is having his cake n eating it to or w.e )

but ya. . . I want to move on from all of that n i think we have been working on it. But now that was brought up exactly what I thought about hanging out with other women that are just friends. I get it for some but others I said i dont feel comfortable with that. N he got mad. I asked him how he would feel if its reversed?

He said well u dont have friends n i told u i want u to hangout with ppl more. I told him I knew u were going to do this i called it. N maybe it wont be a big deal... but with what has happened, right now l, to me it is making me nervous n idk who to vent to. He just got mad when i brought it up n called me insecure. W.e. Let me know what you all think . Thanks for the vent session. Please be polite in the comments. Thank you

Ive been with my boyfriend 12 years n have lived with him the whole time. I recently found out he was subscribed to some dating apps n asking for fwb n saying just alot of stuff to many women about meeting up hotel and coffee etc. He didnt meet with any i dont think . Pretty sure of it.. He said he lived with a roomate to those women. Then my friend who uses that site saw him on there n got it out of him he has a gf and that because her health scare (idid have one but im fine n still the same person) (also when i brought it up to him he said he knew it was me. Which in his defense, in the app he said this sounds like a trap but she talked him out of it n he definitly did not know it was her)( i didnt know she was doing this she told me after.. she was looking out for me) anyways... he said to her things r different n shes content in her ways but its awkward but sex is still good but idk im looking for someone whose intellectual and on my level to talk to n fwb type thing n he said he would have met up with her that night when she asked..lol he is always working n i never see him enough as it is n i get yelled at if I even ask him to stay home a bit longer. But he told her f work . Id totally meet up with you . (He didnt know it was my friend talking to him) Then he went on vacation and hungout with some girl. . . Now he deleted all of that ( he showed me. Everything is off his phone) when i found it n confronted him and said hes sorrry n nothing happened. A few months has gone by n we have been a little better n trying to work past it but i remember telling him I know u deletedd the apps but now your just gonna use it as an excuse to hangout with other girls outside the apps... N thats exactly what hes doing . He said he can hangout with who he wants alone. It was so random when he said it too.. N then he rambled off some names. One of them I knew forever he knew her before we were together so im fine with but the other ones not so much . N he said im just insecure n ill never change n i said I have a right to be right now but then he pulls the excuse ive been this way for whole time we have been dating . Lol then why r u still with me ? Right? Im so pissed off. He said i am not going to hurt you. I promise. But wtf. I really feel stupid right now for even staying at this moment that he said that. but I love him n we have been working on trust again... just asking for thoughts or opinions. Oh BTW we do have a roomate now which is a guy that he brought here not me. He said everyone said why would u bring a man in with your woman? Thats a no no . But hes the one that decided to do that. I would never hurt my man or try anything with the roomate. Dont u think he was just using that to his advantage when talking about the other women? Im really sad right now. I always thought I would know what to do in this situation but I dont. I do love him. He does work hard . We have been working trust back up but I feel like I try harder then him n he gets mad about alot n it feels like everything is thrown back at me to make me feel bad at times when I didnt do him wrong ever ! I feel like I know what everyone's going to say on here. But im just looking for advice. He has never been like this to me before until after my health scare. Ive been out of work for a bit n idk he says he loves me n doesnt feel different about me but it sure feels n looks that way. N i dont really have many friends BTW. N idk where id go if I left. N i dont have a car atm. :( he said he wants us to work out but i need to stop being insecure. N he loves me n we will see if i can change he said. I let him know its not just me that has to fix things here. N he used to be happy for me that i see a therapist but now he tells me its funny u can tell some stranger everything but dont communicate everything with me n its funny your therapist just knows your side. Which isnt true at all. But it really threw me off. I said well id love to talk to u more but im not intellectual enough anymore i guess n because my health scare i act younger than my age he said lol which isnt true at all. Anyone would vouch for me that i know including the doctors. But ya ... he still said ill be here for you through everything but im to old for this insecurity and he said he loves me but when hes mad he says he doesnt love anyone since his mom n grandma who passsed away a long time ago. Then he tells me he loves me obviously n he was just upset. He said alot of his past relationships didnt work because he is here for everyone who needs it. Which is very nice but this is a different situation lol . I do get quite pushy n am feeling insecure lately about things. N i know that upsets him n can push him away . But ive been working on that. N i feel like hes just having his cake n eating it too. ( oh he also said that to my friend that he didnt know was my friend on the chat that he knows it seems like he is having his cake n eating it to or w.e ) but ya. . . I want to move on from all of that n i think we have been working on it. But now that was brought up exactly what I thought about hanging out with other women that are just friends. I get it for some but others I said i dont feel comfortable with that. N he got mad. I asked him how he would feel if its reversed? He said well u dont have friends n i told u i want u to hangout with ppl more. I told him I knew u were going to do this i called it. N maybe it wont be a big deal... but with what has happened, right now l, to me it is making me nervous n idk who to vent to. He just got mad when i brought it up n called me insecure. W.e. Let me know what you all think . Thanks for the vent session. Please be polite in the comments. Thank you

Does it mean someone had to favorite someone else on whatsapp if their name appears in a bubble under calls and next to keypad? Or can someones name pop up there? No right? You would have to favorite them for their picture bubble to pop up right there? Thank you in advance.

My man was out on a boys trip and I have been dating him 12 years. He met a girl and went out with her without telling me .( she lives in a different state) I saw their texts on his phone in accident when he gave it to me to text myself something he wanted for a present when he got home.

Then I saw a weird name I never saw before. I clicked on it and I didnt read it all but she was sending heart emoji and saying how shes so happy they can talk for hours. I confronted him n left for the night. (I live with him) and then I came home n told him to block n delete her. He said he did n hes sorry n he blocked n deleted her... and I said id like to see his phone .(I dont have access to his phone) We were about to go somewhere tho. He offered me his phone but I said ill look later.

He is busy with work so I haven't got the chance to ask again. He has been doing some things to try n be nice n be here n reassure me when I need it but I dont know what to do . I was blindsided. I really love him n want to give him another chance but im so stressed about this . He is busy with his business so its hard to catch him at a good time to even talk to him about it more. I feel lost.

Can someone give me advice? Im sad im not working right now as I had medical issue this year. N things have been hard. I just never expected this n I wish I read all the texts before confronting him. She was a bartender n suggesting a place for them to go n then he got her number n only he met her there . Not his friends .

Mind u he had his own hotel room. He said he never cheated. I told him if u didnt cheat physically u sure as hell did emotionally. Looking for advice. I feel so lost in my thoughts. I love him so much n he has been trying to make time for me aside from work n make plans with me n calls me and sends pics of what he is doing while hes working n lets me know when he is coming home.

I dont ask for it. Idk i dont want to just feel better for the moment. Everything seemed so normal! Everything. I was honestly so blindsided. N I want to make this work. But can it? I really am still just in shock. Any opinions or thoughts would help.

Thank you. Im just sad. N I dont know what to say what to bring up . Its like u always know what to say until it happens to you. Then u freeze. I do want this to work though. Again , please any thoughts and opinions help. Thank you sorry for my long rant. Im in 30s hes in his 40s