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Context: Ok so I’m F19 and he is 22M I just feel very jealous lately. Well look me and my boyfriend have sort of been in the honeymoon phase, we have been spending every day together. It’s been really lovely and I’ve been really happy!

But now he’s going on this weekend trip with his family and Alison. Alison is a family friend of his and they met when they were 7. She is brunette, quite pretty, and petite she’s about 5ft. Basically what I’m insecure about I’m tall and have always wanted to be petite anyway not the point. I’m just worried what if something happens between him and her? I mean they haven’t seen each other in a year. I know I shouldn’t be jealous and it’s not like he seems that interested in her in that way he says he’s her like a sister.

But I still feel jealous. I really wish I didn’t. Am I a horrible person? Because I don’t like feeling possessive and I do want him to have fun. But I just can’t help it! I have tried to stop thinking about it by listening to music, reading, drawing but nothing seems to work. I really do love him very much and it’s rare that I do fall in love, because I have such bad trust issues! Also I’ve never really loved anyone this much before. Obviously that’s my problem. What is wrong with me?! 😭💔

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Ok so they were friends but he was very in love with her before they even got together. They eventually did get together, they were together for a while about 8 months and that is quite long if you’re young. Anyway he was very gentle with her, they shared everything. They were very close and had strong attraction and deep love for each other. Almost too passionate it was overwhelming. He was more of a country boy though, she grew up in the country too. But she had always wanted to be in the city.

Anyway she eventually broke up with him not because she didn’t love him anymore. It’s complicated and it’s too personal to share on here. Anyway now he’s seen her a while after and he is not looking good! Seems a bit wrecked and has been getting drunk more often, started smoking like a chain smoker, and has grown this beard.

Anyway she needs him to sign something and he is making it the most difficult thing in the world. Like he just WILL NOT SIGN IT! Which is weird because he’s not controlling or usually a bad guy. He is just being a total pain. But then when he saw her upset about something he got really protective. Which is a bit contradicting. Why is he being such a jerk to her?

Ok so they were friends but he was very in love with her before they even got together. They eventually did get together, they were together for a while about 8 months and that is quite long if you’re young. Anyway he was very gentle with her, they shared everything. They were very close and had strong attraction and deep love for each other. Almost too passionate it was overwhelming. He was more of a country boy though, she grew up in the country too. But she had always wanted to be in the city.

Anyway she eventually broke up with him not because she didn’t love him anymore. It’s complicated and it’s too personal to share on here. Anyway now he’s seen her a while after and he is not looking good! Seems a bit wrecked and has been getting drunk more often, started smoking like a chain smoker, and has grown this beard.

Anyway she needs him to sign something and he is making it the most difficult thing in the world. Like he just WILL NOT SIGN IT! Which is weird because he’s not controlling or usually a bad guy. He is just being a total pain. But then when he saw her upset about something he got really protective. Which is a bit contradicting. Why is he being such a jerk to her?

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Ok so basically I’m 16 and I want to go to art school. I currently live in Australia in a regional town that is so BORING! It is 3 hours out of Melbourne. Idk I have always felt a bit out of place of Australia, like it’s cut off from the world. I really want to go to London or Paris or Barcelona or Rome or New York or Los Angeles. I have been to 8 countries and did an exchange in Cyprus Limassol. But I wouldn’t want to go to university there. Our family has not got that much money. So I’d probably be mainly self reliant. I have some savings myself though and plan to get a job to make more savings.