What’s wrong with Toronto landlords

4 offers, all rejected
My partner and I’s application is solid imo, good-great credit scores, over 100k combined income, great reference from current landlord etc. I cannot for the life of me understand why we keep getting rejected. Is it the fact we’d rather pay via etransfer rather post dated cheques? Is it the fact we have a pet? Is it the fact we’re not giving more than two months deposit?
Any advice?

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 1 day ago

Ladies, when did you start your mat leave?

As I enter the third trimester, it’s getting physically harder to move and I’m rethinking working until 36 weeks, which was my original plan.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 days ago

Form 372, need advice on it

I’m looking for a place to lease in Toronto/North York/ Etobicoke or Scarborough, found an agent who can help me with showings. Before any showings he wants me to sign the 372 form. My question is:

  1. Is this standard for sign it BEFORE any viewings?
  2. If I find a place through Apartment buildings owned/managed by rental companies, rather than private landlords on mls, will I have to pay his commission as outlined in the 372 form?
  3. Is it standard that the form bounds me to the entirety of Toronto and the GTA?

Thanks in advance.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 1 month ago

Average number of showings at your unit?

If you give two months notice, how often are you having potential tenants coming to view the unit? I gave two months notice and currently getting bombarded with showing requests and it’s overwhelming me. What’s a normal amount in a given week? Will it die down as the listing stays up for a while?

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 1 month ago

Proof of documents before viewing an apartment?

What is up with realtors asking for proof of employment, ID, paystubs, credit score, references, filling out an application all BEFORE even viewing an apartment for rent? This is ridiculous, never done that before.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago

Husband confessed to cheating

He went to an erotic massage parlour a day after my birthday while we’re in a committed relationship. Before that, he was talking to women from porn sites and jerking off to the conversations/ photos/ vids shared. We’re married now and I just found out what happened two years ago, just in time for my one year anniversary. I’m so shocked and numb, I never in a billion years expected any of this.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago

I read my husbands diary

And found how he cheated on me while we were in a committed relationship, two years into dating. He cheated at least twice. I want to confront him but feel extremely conflicted. I’m not proud of reading his private journal, but also he cheated???? What should I do?

Tl;dr: cheating husband confessed in his journal that I read when I wasn’t supposed to.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago
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Therapist downtown?

Please suggest a good therapist in downtown Toronto. I am going thru relationship infidelity and have no one to talk about it.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago

Husband cheated on me while we were dating

I have lost trust in him completely. I was cheated on in the past and I asked him if he ever cheated on anyone, he lied and said no. Idk who in the world I married. I can’t even look at him. I’m sure he’s done it again while we’ve been married too. I’m disgusted and want to leave. But need him to confess somehow because how I can’t tell him how I found out.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago

Quitting at 2.5? Libido?

Has anyone quit at 2.5mg after 8+ years? What was the withdrawal like?
Also, for those that have quit, how soon after did your libido come back?

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 2 months ago

Any guesses?

Not sure which structure is the nub exactly but included multiple screenshots. Any ultrasound techs or nub experts please feel free to chime in!
Baby is a 12w6d

u/Possible_Ask9530 — 3 months ago
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There’s one study that suggests psyllium husk powder helps relieve heartburn symptoms. Has anyone tried it? How effective was it for you? Did you stop your medications as a result? Any input is welcome

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 4 months ago

Going for my next scan on Friday and really hoping I can see the genitals or at least a side profile to get the nub spine view. Anyone else get lucky this early on? I hate that we don’t do the NIPT test in Canada like Americans do.

Edit: I meant NIPT isn’t covered by OHIP unless you choose to pay for it. From my understanding, it’s covered for higher risk pregnancies. I don’t qualify for NIPT so that’s what I’m saying. That’s besides the point. I’m asking, have YOU find out the gender early on at around 12W5D?

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 4 months ago

Anyone opt for the “EI special benefits for self-employed people” and if so what was your experience like? Do you have to pay EI premiums until you retire?
I live away from family and can’t imagine leaving my baby at daycare with strangers, but also can’t afford not earning an income for months-years, so I’m considering EI benefits but don’t fully know how it works or if it’s worth it. Most mom dentists I know take a few months off and get back to business.

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u/Possible_Ask9530 — 4 months ago