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I’m 17 and I want to get atleast one therapy session about something going on in my life but I don’t want my parents to know. It’s not about anything that will harm others or me so I feel like maybe it wouldn’t be an issue? But I’m not sure if I have to have parental consent to be there or my parents have to be aware of it

How do I help my anxious attachment issues, they are ruining my mental health I have horrible attachment issues with my bf and they are destroying my wellbeing and I desperately want to fix this so our relationship can be healthy as well as me. It gets really bad when it comes to him not answering my texts…and yes it becomes bad once it’s more than an hour 😬 for example today he went for a bike ride (I didn’t know this) and he was out for about maybe 3 hours and didn’t answer my messages in that time span I had a panic attack, threw up, and was so convinced he was done, probably found a new girl, and all the bad things when in the end it was nothing he was just going for a bike ride. This happens almost everyday maybe not to the throwing up extent but definitely the panic attack and overthinking and everything it ends in it being nothing and we are completely fine. And no matter how many times I tell myself it will end in nothing it comes to this. I really want to work on this and find a way to help myself. I’m really struggling (please don’t say therapy yes I know that is the best way but that isn’t an option for me rn :(!!)

I have horrible attachment issues with my bf and they are destroying my wellbeing and I desperately want to fix this so our relationship can be healthy as well as me. It gets really bad when it comes to him not answering my texts…and yes it becomes bad once it’s more than an hour 😬 for example today he went for a bike ride (I didn’t know this) and he was out for about maybe 3 hours and didn’t answer my messages in that time span I had a panic attack, threw up, and was so convinced he was done, probably found a new girl, and all the bad things when in the end it was nothing he was just going for a bike ride. This happens almost everyday maybe not to the throwing up extent but definitely the panic attack and overthinking and everything it ends in it being nothing and we are completely fine. And no matter how many times I tell myself it will end in nothing it comes to this. I really want to work on this and find a way to help myself. I’m really struggling (please don’t say therapy yes I know that is the best way but that isn’t an option for me rn :(!!)

Not much to say but basically when I was 17 my bf started to lose interest me and we were verging a breakup and I payed some random witch lady online $500 to put an obsession spell on him 😬

And did it work? Maybe it did continue for another year but we did end up breaking up in the end I would love that $500 back 🥲🙏

Before me and my bf were dating and were just talking I guess you can say we did have sorta of a lot of problems and sometimes I wish I was smart enough to notice that at the time as a red flag..but to be fair I was just 15-16 and he was 18. He was pretty pushy for sexual things and we would get in alot of fights and sometimes he could be mean to me..but in the end that stoped and we starting dating and it was good, none of that happened to much anymore. Recently he told me “I want to forget what happened before we started dating. I did that to you and honestly some other people because i would think im never gonna date them anyway and it will never work out so I would just treat them how ever cause it wouldn’t matter” and that is bothering me so much cause it sounds horrible to me why would you ever do that to anyone..what should I do about this?? Or am I being dramatic about this and overthinking what he said. (If people are confused I can try to add more context)

17f, 169cm, 114lbs, I have constant utis!! I have had constant utis like pretty much all my life. There are periods where it will be really bad too. I’m constantly getting antibiotics but as soon as I come off them it will just come back. It’s hard to explain how it feels but it doesn’t burn or anything with my pee it’s just this super weird feeling in my bladder that I have pretty much all the time and it’s worse when I’m walking I can’t say it exactly hurts but it feels so uncomfortable but I can’t even really explain how it feels it’s sorta like maybe a ticklish feeling maybe?? I really feel it towards the end of finishing peeing in my bladder and it’s just so uncomfortable. I’ll add I really do try to clean probably and I’m not sexually active either i don’t know how these keep happening

This is gonna sound really creepy and I know it is but I can’t stop obsessing and worrying that my bf is cheating!! And I feel so bad for doing that cause it’s most definitely just me overthinking. I’ve only asked him sometimes in the past but I don’t anymore it honestly caused problems me asking that and I feel bad for accusing him. I constantly watch his location and when he’s active and if he’s a little active after texting me..I watch his snap score and Snapchat and stalk his followers, like for example his followers on snap when up today and I felt so sick I wanted to pile. When we called a few days ago he was screen sharing and went onto snap and I didn’t get to see quick enough since it switched off but he did message someone that day but I didn’t get to see any names I do know he has his guy friends in there sooo. I think that he can screen share should be an indicator enough for me he isn’t cheating I don’t know why I do this!! I feel so anxious whenever he goes out that some girl will ask for his number or he is meeting up with a girl, etc. I wish I could stop and find peace and I really need some advice cause I love him so much but I’m so terrified of him leaving me and stuff :( I’m constantly on my phone cause of this in every situation I just can’t put it down I feel like I constantly need to be checking. I’m aware of how unhealthy this is and I want to fix this so bad it’s making me lose so much weight cause I feel like I can’t ever eat I’m always so naeauous with anxiety when he isn’t answering or active not answering me or his snap score is going up

I’m currently long distance with my bf and he jerks off to me in call usually, I’ll typically sit there naked and watch him sometimes masturbait with him typically just rubbing or using a vib but what things could I do other than that? I wanna do more for him but Idk what! Especially like if I’m on my period what could I do I’m not into masturbating then personally too messy for me lol. But I just wanna be less boring than sitting there and do something more for him :)!