Thoughts on Justin from season 10

I thought he was pretty hot, but also very, very competent

Do you think he could have beaten Christina (I reckon he could have, if he didn’t have Clemenza on his team, can’t even tell you how much that man annoyed me 🙄)?

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 2 days ago
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Nowadays

The fact that Dani Beck brought in more suspects than the average cops (12-13 compared to 7-8 a month I think?) would make her an absolute badass

Back then they viewed her with suspicion. I don’t understand the hate - I liked her

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 4 days ago

Tell me how a Sag navigates a job

When they (like mine) despise taking orders and dislike people
(Sag sun/stellium, Pisces moon, Libra rising)

Autonomy is a BIG thing for R. I can understand it to an extent (he has a physical disability, is neurodivergent and REFUSES to ask for help)

How do you navigate a job?

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 5 days ago

A reminder to the daughters

Your mothers didn’t want daughters
They wanted dollies
Dolls that they could dress up, manipulate, play into their little fantasies. It took me 26 years to figure this out.

Dolls that fit the perfect image. In my case, the perfect cookie cutter image. Don’t wear this, it doesn’t look flattering. Don’t wear that, it’s not feminine. Pointing out bodily insecurities.

She chose my outfit today. I rebelled and made sure she knew that I wasn’t happy and I’ll admit, the biggest asshole today. I still had to wear it anyway as I was meeting my dad’s dying cousin. I feel bad about THAT, but not about working against strings when it comes to outfits. I’m not your personal Barbie. I picked out a top that showed a lot of cleavage. She said she didn’t want to look at my tits when she was talking to people

Simple. DO NOT LOOK. She is OBSESSED with my breasts when it comes to clothing and even balked when a guy stared down at my breasts and I swore at him… at a wedding. I’m on the bigger side. Next time I’ll have the outfit picked in advance and I’ll go with it. If I’m told that she won’t go with me looking like that (I still live at home) I’ll stay home.

I’ve started loving the whole band t shirt aesthetic. I had the intention of wearing one, a pair of white pants and this denim jacket with skulls that my brother owns. Wouldn’t even entertain it. I threatened to stay at home. I wish I did. She was in awe of the outfit but I made barf sounds as I didn’t feel like me. My second cousin rocked up in a dress with spaghetti straps and sneakers. Why didn’t I have that freedom?

I’m going to tell her. From now on, I choose my wardrobe. And I will be choosing when to wear it. Obviously I’ll remain professional for work. Outside work? Band t shirt. Pants. Sneakers.

She acted like the best woman going until we got home. Told a school principal she allowed me to be autistic. Unmask when I got home. The lies. “Be NORMAL” “Why can’t you talk to anyone NORMAL” (I attract alt, neurodivergent and LGBTQ individuals). She waited until I got home and until the demon and I got off call. Then unleashed it. I don’t care anymore. She’ll shame other women and did exactly that by talking about my second cousin’s tattoos, another woman’s back fat. My sister has always bought into it and dresses the exact same pink cookie cutter way. She pretended that my SOAD t shirt was nice but wouldn’t let me wear my Pink Freud today 😂 nah no. I’m not anyone’s puppet. I’ve ALWAYS worked against the strings. Tonight, I didn’t just work against them. I cut them. PayDay? I’m not looking at River Island or H&M. I’m going on KILLSTAR and metalshop.uk

The demon’s logic is this. Live unapologetically. Don’t answer to anyone. I need this outlook. I felt guilty for not liking an outfit (I had bought this dress from H&M, but I looked like I was wearing a lampshade so I gave it to my sister.

But nah no. Dress how you want. If you want to wear makeup, wear it. If you don’t, don’t.

Your mother didn’t want daughters. She wanted dollies. She wanted little marionettes.

Buy the ripped jeans. Get the tattoo. Try the bold makeup. Dye your hair. Get your nails done. Because that’s what I’m doing from now on.

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 6 days ago

Is it common for Sag to have attitude

Mine gives me lip ALL the time. He’s Sag sun/stellium and the type who will do the exact opposite of what’s expected like
“DO NOT press the red button”
“Why” (presses the red button) analogy

It’s funny yet frustrating

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 6 days ago

She listed all the stuff I drunkenly did when I came home

I unintentionally kept everyone awake (I’m sorry I hold my hands up) but she and the golden child sister listed everything off

I love how they mentioned my colourful vocabulary when I was on the phone to my LD demon (his is a lot lot worse, so I was tame)

It took ages for me to get undressed (I was way too tired and could not move then when I tried to be quiet, it was a case of noise was amplified)

She mentioned that I was up and down the stairs multiple times (inaccurate, it was once as I thought I was going to puke and needed water)

What’s funny is half the stuff listed either A) didn’t happen (falling off the toilet) or B) was not me, brother came home far later than I did

I don’t know whether it’s satire or not, but she said my duvet and shit will be in the living room if I’m going out again - this is fine to an extent but saying I’m going to pre in the back garden? I’m going to yell when I’m in the bathroom and annoy my demon… WITHOUT my AirPods because respect goes both ways. She will hear every single blonde joke, every single insult we throw back and forth, the LITANY of swear words, the way he goes “WOMAN” when I forget things or I’m ditsy. To top it off, we also have innuendos and a little cutesy dynamic. And hope she hears that too.

Like I hold my hands up but I’m sorry, I didn’t think that I would have a post mortem

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 7 days ago

I (26F) have been texting a guy (25M) for seven months

Long distance (I say that, he’s four hours away and due to a physical disability, accessibility is a barrier). He’s a little moron and he isn’t afraid to speak his mind at all. I love that….. most of the time. The dynamic is only getting stronger by the day.

I have never been more scared though. Because I have been asked on a date by another man (28M, one I’ve met in real life through a friend of friend and I get along really well with too).

I don’t want to build a new dynamic without ruining the other

Please send help

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 9 days ago

I (26F) have been texting a guy (25M) for seven months

Long distance (I say that, he’s four hours away and due to a physical disability, accessibility is a barrier). He’s a little moron and he isn’t afraid to speak his mind at all. I love that….. most of the time. The dynamic is only getting stronger by the day.

I have never been more scared though. Because I have been asked on a date by another man (28M, one I’ve met in real life through a friend of friend and I get along really well with too).

I don’t want to build a new dynamic without ruining the other

Please send help

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 10 days ago

I have been speaking to a man for six months

He wants to take things to the next level (long distance)

I have been single for three years and I want it.

I’m worried about HER reaction to him being physically disabled, yet autonomy driven, independent and refuses to ask for help

“You’ll be his carer” (No I won’t)

“You’ll be limited” (again, no I won’t)

I’m ready to say fuck it to the wind

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 13 days ago

AIO: Please tell me if I’m overreacting - it really got to me

I have been speaking to a man for the past six months. For context, he loves to game in his spare time and he has a very ……colourful vocabulary as a result (yes, that also includes slurs). Gaming context? Doesn’t bother me. Today, I found out a major line had been crossed.

He told me he had yelled the N word to a child who had been playing knock door run at his door (he’s physically disabled but very independent) for the past three days.

As soon as I found out, I lit up on him. Doesn’t matter what the kid did, he should NEVER have yelled the N slur (yes, hard R) to the child.

I was calm on call but the minute it ended the anger started rising - that’s a child! There was a knock on the door so he ended it

I’m wondering if I overreacted for going off on him

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 27 days ago

AIO: Please tell me if I’m overreacting - it really got to me

I have been speaking to a man for the past six months. For context, he loves to game in his spare time and he has a very ……colourful vocabulary as a result (yes, that also includes slurs). Gaming context? Doesn’t bother me. Today, I found out a major line had been crossed.

He told me he had yelled the N word to a child who had been playing knock door run at his door (he’s physically disabled but very independent) for the past three days.

As soon as I found out, I lit up on him. Doesn’t matter what the kid did, he should NEVER have yelled the N slur (yes, hard R) to the child.

I was calm on call but the minute it ended the anger started rising - that’s a child! There was a knock on the door so he ended it

I’m wondering if I overreacted for going off on him

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 27 days ago

Koop should not have been eliminated

As others have said, Paulie got chance after chance despite being pretty shit and honestly - the biggest asshole of that season, bar Johnny.

imo Koop was WAY more competent and honestly? Should have made it further.

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 1 month ago

Alden Grant from the Blake trilogy

Second story: oooooooofffffff. He pretty much love bombed Grace into being his mafia queen

Third: what an ass. ESPECIALLY to his daughter. Grief NEVER excuses that sort of behaviour. EVER.

What about the three main characters though?

Blake: used her experiences to help others and loved her children dearly

Grace: Grace was naive and was love bombed into being a mafia queen - due to her trauma she was almost dependent

Queen: My fave. Lived up to her name.

What’s everyone’s take?

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u/Prestigious_Peach_44 — 1 month ago