u/Pretty-Waferrrr

ive always had a hard time standing up for myself when it came to him because i always give in. today i stood up for myself the way i shouldve. he cheated on me with multiple girls, had their nudes in his phone, told me “what if all of it was a lie” when i said i missed the way he used to be a few years ago. he would argue over things that i didnt even do. even though i gave him every part of me, he still treated me the way he did. he decides to call me delusional because i have another partner, yet he has a girlfriend and continues reaching out.

i dont know why, but recently i have felt awful. i dont feel like im a good owner for jasper. he has toys, food, water and treats. i play with him everyday. he has everything he could ever want. but he wont cuddle with me anymore. im used to having dogs who love cuddles, this is my first cat. he used to love laying on my chest and sleeping beside me. now he curls up on my rug instead of coming to bed with me. not having him cuddle with me anymore makes me feel like ive been horrible and i feel like shit because i want to be the best for him. i dont know what to do. i feel like he doesnt love me anymore. hes about a month old and i know hes just probably becoming more independent but im terrified

(f16, 5ft) im trying to gain more upper body muscle, especially my arms and back. would it look weird on me or keep going?

Does anyone know a place in memphis that can do my hair like this??