u/PrincessConsuelaBrew

A few of us are heading to Chin Lungs this evening to catch the F1 race screening, and we'd love to have a few more people join us.
We're a friendly, respectful group of working professionals who enjoy meeting new people over the weekend. If you're into F1 (or just want to hang out and enjoy the atmosphere), you're welcome!
We're preferably looking for female members to help keep the group balanced, but as always, the main priority is that you're respectful and easygoing.

If you're interested, feel free to DM me. See you at the race!

I’m a beginner and would like to join a run group or club in the Varthur/Gunjur area.

Hi, I’ve been on a weight loss journey focusing on calorie deficit and weight training. I recently started running and my appetite has increased significantly after each run. This has made it difficult to maintain a calorie deficit diet. Could you please advise on what to eat after running? I’m also doing weight training alongside this.

Hi, I’ve been on a weight loss journey focusing on calorie deficit and weight training. I recently started running and my appetite has increased significantly after each run. This has made it difficult to maintain a calorie deficit diet. Could you please advise on what to eat after running? I’m also doing weight training alongside this.

I’ve made good friends here, but I’ve also received hundreds of creepy DMs and male approaches for creepy stuff and nonsense. To be safe, I’m looking for a female fitness accountability partner who lives near Varthur or Gunjur. Please DM me.

I’ve been struggling with attachment issues and find it incredibly hard to let go of people, relationships, memories, and even hopes for how things could have been. Even when I know something is no longer healthy or serving me, a part of me keeps holding on.
I often find myself replaying conversations, wondering what I could have done differently, or hoping things will somehow go back to how they used to be. It feels like my mind understands reality, but my heart refuses to accept it.
For those who have gone through something similar, how did you learn to detach in a healthy way? How did you stop seeking closure from people who couldn’t give it to you? Were there any habits, mindset shifts, books, therapy techniques, or life experiences that genuinely helped?
I’m not looking for a quick fix. I know healing takes time. I’d just like to hear from people who have successfully worked through deep attachment and learned how to let go without becoming cold or emotionally disconnected.
What helped you the most? Any advice would be appreciated. ❤️

Hi everyone,
I've been involved in animal welfare and rescue activities for the past 7 years. I started by participating in and leading stray dog deworming drives, putting reflective collars on community dogs, and helping with rescues whenever possible.
Over time, due to a hectic work life and some personal challenges, I couldn't continue as actively as I wanted. For the last 3 years, health issues have also limited my ability to participate in rescue work. Lately, I've been feeling guilty about stepping away from something that has always been close to my heart.
I would really like to reconnect with people who are genuinely involved in animal welfare, feeding strays, rescue work, fostering, or adoption activities. Even if I cannot contribute physically all the time, I would love to volunteer digitally and help in whatever way I can.
If you're involved in such activities around Gunjur, Varthur, or nearby areas, please reach out. I'd be happy to build a network and support the cause to the best of my ability.
A small request: Please contact me only if you're genuinely involved in animal welfare. I'm not interested in dating, social exploration, or anything beyond connecting for this cause. Thank you for understanding. 🙏
Looking forward to connecting with fellow animal lovers and volunteers.

Hi everyone,
I've been involved in animal welfare and rescue activities for the past 7 years. I started by participating in and leading stray dog deworming drives, putting reflective collars on community dogs, and helping with rescues whenever possible.
Over time, due to a hectic work life and some personal challenges, I couldn't continue as actively as I wanted. For the last 3 years, health issues have also limited my ability to participate in rescue work. Lately, I've been feeling guilty about stepping away from something that has always been close to my heart.
I would really like to reconnect with people who are genuinely involved in animal welfare, feeding strays, rescue work, fostering, or adoption activities. Even if I cannot contribute physically all the time, I would love to volunteer digitally and help in whatever way I can.
If you're involved in such activities around Gunjur, Varthur, or nearby areas, please reach out. I'd be happy to build a network and support the cause to the best of my ability.
A small request: Please contact me only if you're genuinely involved in animal welfare. I'm not interested in dating, social exploration, or anything beyond connecting for this cause. Thank you for understanding. 🙏
Looking forward to connecting with fellow animal lovers and volunteers.

I'm a 36-year-old woman and I'm struggling with a decision that feels impossible to make.
I've been with my husband for about 15 years. We started dating in 2011 and got married after 4 years. This was a love marriage, and for most of my adult life, he's been my person and my constant companion.
Our marriage has had a lot of challenges. Family interference and conflicts caused years of fighting. Later, my husband had a 3-year online affair with another woman. When I found out, I was devastated. He apologized, and we decided to try to rebuild the marriage.
The difficult part is that he's not a bad person. He's always been caring when I've been sick, we've traveled together, built a life together, bought two houses, and never had financial conflicts. In many practical ways, we've been a good team.
But emotionally, things never fully recovered. Even after 5 years of trying, I still get triggered by the betrayal. I kept hoping time and effort would make the pain disappear, but it hasn't. I've become emotionally numb, our intimacy is basically nonexistent, and I often feel lonely even while being married.
Recently, he suggested that we separate respectfully. For the first time, I agreed.
Now I'm terrified.
I don't know if I'm scared because ending a 15-year relationship is genuinely the wrong decision, or if I'm simply scared of being alone and starting over at 36.
Part of me feels lonely and disconnected in this marriage. Another part of me wants to tell him not to leave and try again.
Has anyone else faced this kind of situation?
How did you know whether your fear meant you still wanted the relationship, or whether it was just fear of change and uncertainty?
If you left a long-term marriage, what helped you cope with the loneliness and fear afterward?
I feel completely confused and would appreciate any perspective.

I'm a 36-year-old woman and I'm going through what feels like a complete emotional breakdown. I would really appreciate some perspective from people who have been through something similar.
This was a love marriage. We started dating in 2011 after reconnecting on Facebook. He was my schoolmate, though we barely interacted in school. Looking back, I think I was always searching for connection outside my family because I often felt lonely growing up as the eldest child.
We dated for 4 years and then got married. Neither of our families were fully supportive, and there was pressure from my parents for me to get married sooner rather than later. After marriage, there was a lot of interference from family and constant conflict. We ended up fighting frequently.
At some point, my husband started talking to another woman online. What began as an emotional connection eventually became a sexual relationship that lasted around 3 years. Around the same time, I threw myself into work, NGO activities, and animal welfare work as a way to cope.
When I discovered the affair, I found messages where he was also badmouthing me to her. It shattered me. We had huge fights, and eventually he apologized. I decided to give the marriage another chance.
The confusing part is that he isn't a terrible person. He has always been caring in many ways. He looked after me whenever I was sick. We traveled together, bought two houses together, and never had financial conflicts. In many practical aspects, our marriage worked.
For the last 5 years, we've both tried to repair things, but I can't seem to get past what happened. The betrayal still triggers me. I keep expecting him to somehow put in enough effort that the pain will disappear, but it never really does.
Over time, I've become emotionally numb toward him. Our intimacy is basically nonexistent. He gets frustrated that I work long hours and spend a lot of time on my phone. I get frustrated because I don't feel he has done enough to repair the damage he caused.
I feel lonely in this marriage, so I try to make new friends and build connections elsewhere. Not romantically….just to feel less alone.
We've talked about separating many times over the years but never followed through. Recently, he said we should separate respectfully, and for the first time I agreed.
Now I'm terrified.
I've been with him for about 15 years. I've never really been alone as an adult. I'm 36 and suddenly I'm questioning everything. I feel lonely in the marriage, but I'm equally scared of life without him.
Part of me wants to beg him not to do this. Another part of me wonders if we've both been holding on because we're afraid of letting go.
For those who stayed, how did you know it was worth saving?
For those who left a long-term marriage, how did you deal with the fear, loneliness, and uncertainty afterward?
Right now everything feels hazy and overwhelming, and I honestly don't know what the right decision is.

Okay, here’s a weird ask: 🙈is anyone female here who has a car and can drive? We could go cafe hopping and shopping. We could rant and overshare things or just have fun all day shopping or over a coffee.

Male please dont dm me. You will be disappointed :)

I’m a 36F and honestly feeling super bored this weekend 😅 Work has been hectic lately, and all my friends are busy. Thinking of going cafe hopping or maybe clubbing tomorrow, and it would be nice to socialize and meet new people.
Any girls or female groups interested in joining? I don’t mind mixed groups either, as long as the vibe is respectful and chill. Just to be clear.. this is NOT for dating , so please no creepy vibes or weird DMs 🙏
I’m in my mid-30s, pretty calm and slightly introverted at first, so it takes me a little time to break the ice. But I’d genuinely love to connect with good people and maybe find a fun social circle.
If anyone’s interested, feel free to DM me 😊
And please be kind in the comments …no sarcasm, trolling, or creepy messages please 🙏