u/Prior-Scratch4003

I feel like when it comes to my weight I often stay quiet and reserved so people dont notice im fat. Obviously that doesn’t really make sense. Im a adult mentor at a summer program and they always say that the room we meet in is one of the safest places to be yourself. And im starting to bring that feeling/energy out of that meeting room. Ive been trying to put myself out there gradually the past 2 days. Like today, I realized I walk with my head down. So while I walked around home depot I walked with my head up. I think I need more confidence. I feel most confident when I look good, but planning outfits takes so much time. Especially since theres a specific style I like but cant ever find. clothes my size that match that style. And then I actually have to get them ready (ironing and stuff) that often just makes me put on a random tshirt and sweatpants. I also value being comfortable so thats another reason

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Im gonna be downtown and lowkey tacobell sounds kinda good

I am very much an introvert. I don’t really like talking with people and would very much prefer chilling by myself or with my friends. I want to change that. I have no conversation skills nor charisma because everything feels so scripted when talking to new people that I don’t care and just want to get through the motions.

For example, I work at a library. I’m meeting so many new people daily and every conversation feels the same. When I’m helping them with their issues its always like this:

“Are you a student here?”

Me: “Yeah. Im a sophomore. You?”

“Yeah I am. What’s your major?”

Me: “Computer Science. I like it. What about you?”

And then theyll say their major and thatll he the conversation.

I don’t really care about what their telling me and I think thats the issue. I don’t know you, so I don’t care about your major, or what you’re doing here. I know this is a bad mentality to have but I can’t seem to care, and I hate having to act like I do.

Winter 26, has by far been my worst semester in my whole Academic Career. Calc 2 whooped my ass, and other life events really messed me up. Gold scholarship says to keep it you must maintain a 3.0 gpa. I got a C- in calc 2 and my GPA is at a 2.8. Lowest it’s ever been in my life. Is there someone I can contact about being able to keep the scholarship? What steps would I need to take to see if they’ll grant me the opportunity to keep it.

Im curious to see if high performing men and women have the same values when it comes to looking for a partner.

Just curious on what you guys deem most important when it comes to a partner

I have a final at 8 am, but I would have to arrive on campus at 6 am because of something else I have going on. Are there any places open at 6am on campus?