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My family likes to make fun of my appearance a lot, especially since I look different or I change my looks from what I actually look like. For example, I wear makeup, dyed my hair red, have a nose and fake eyebrow piercing, and thinned my eyebrows significantly. I wouldn’t say I’m alt I just like to try new styles. And honestly, at least in mine and a lot of others opinions, I have glown up a lot and I guess I look more conventionally attractive.

Furthermore, for my parents and my older sister (25) constantly make fun of me for my very thin eyebrows and red hair. My sister likes to brag all the time about how she dyes her friends hairs and does their eyebrows and how she learned how to grill and how she parallel parks her friends cars. Basically, everytime she comes home she likes to tell my parents all the tasks she does and she genuinely sometimes acts and talks like she’s 5 years old and complains how ”no one asks for her ID anymore”. Anyways even if she does something rude or wrong, bcs she’s in college my parents like baby her and even forget what she’s done, yet they yell at me daily over simple things.

So today, while we were in the car my mom shows me this lady who is making her eyebrows thicker and saying how people desire thick eyebrows not thin and she said how my eyebrow lady is going to ask “where my eyebrows are” and lecture me. And I gave her a very straight answer that if she lectures I will say something back because honestly I’m fucking exhausted. Then we talk so much and sister looks at my eyebrows and says where are you eyebrows and like makes fun of how thin they are. Then I said well maybe you need to get rid of some eyebrow hairs because clearly you have a bunch (Ik it was mean but she had been making fun of me the whole week and honestly all i felt like doing was punching her in the face so that was the better alternative).

My parents also act like Im jealous of my sister all the time when I bring up the treatment she gets versus I do. For example, when I was a kid I had a very abusive nanny yet my sister would enable this. My sister would hear her make r3pe jokes about me and see the nanny hit me yet they would both laugh at me (my sister never got in trouble btw bcs apparnely she’s my “second“ mom) and even when I bring it up anymore, my mom says ”oh she was a kid. she made mistakes“. Btw almost an adult and the exact same age I was btw but I forgot I get yelled at daily!!!

There was also a stage and unfortunately sometimes it still happens where I would sh almost daily and everyone would make fun of me and even ask if I wanted something sharper to do it with. But my parents buy me stuff a lot, so I feel guilty complaining about them because my mom says she does all of this out of love. Idk:(

My family likes to make fun of my appearance a lot, especially since I look different or I change my looks from what I actually look like. For example, I wear makeup, dyed my hair red, have a nose and fake eyebrow piercing, and thinned my eyebrows significantly. I wouldn’t say I’m alt I just like to try new styles. And honestly, at least in mine and a lot of others opinions, I have glown up a lot and I guess I look more conventionally attractive.

Furthermore, for my parents and my older sister (25) constantly make fun of me for my very thin eyebrows and red hair. My sister likes to brag all the time about how she dyes her friends hairs and does their eyebrows and how she learned how to grill and how she parallel parks her friends cars. Basically, everytime she comes home she likes to tell my parents all the tasks she does and she genuinely sometimes acts and talks like she’s 5 years old and complains how ”no one asks for her ID anymore”. Anyways even if she does something rude or wrong, bcs she’s in college my parents like baby her and even forget what she’s done, yet they yell at me daily over simple things.

So today, while we were in the car my mom shows me this lady who is making her eyebrows thicker and saying how people desire thick eyebrows not thin and she said how my eyebrow lady is going to ask “where my eyebrows are” and lecture me. And I gave her a very straight answer that if she lectures I will say something back because honestly I’m fucking exhausted. Then we talk so much and sister looks at my eyebrows and says where are you eyebrows and like makes fun of how thin they are. Then I said well maybe you need to get rid of some eyebrow hairs because clearly you have a bunch (Ik it was mean but she had been making fun of me the whole week and honestly all i felt like doing was punching her in the face so that was the better alternative).

My parents also act like Im jealous of my sister all the time when I bring up the treatment she gets versus I do. For example, when I was a kid I had a very abusive nanny yet my sister would enable this. My sister would hear her make r3pe jokes about me and see the nanny hit me yet they would both laugh at me (my sister never got in trouble btw bcs apparnely she’s my “second“ mom) and even when I bring it up anymore, my mom says ”oh she was a kid. she made mistakes“. Btw almost an adult and the exact same age I was btw but I forgot I get yelled at daily!!!

There was also a stage where I would cut almost daily and everyone would make fun of me and even ask if I wanted something sharper to do it with. She also would tell me that I sh for fun and attention. But my parents buy me stuff a lot, so I feel guilty complaining about them because my mom says she does all of this out of love. Idk:(

My family likes to make fun of my appearance a lot, especially since I look different or I change my looks from what I actually look like. For example, I wear makeup, dyed my hair red, have a nose and fake eyebrow piercing, and thinned my eyebrows significantly. I wouldn’t say I’m alt I just like to try new styles. And honestly, at least in mine and a lot of others opinions, I have glown up a lot and I guess I look more conventionally attractive.

Furthermore, for my parents and my older sister (25) constantly make fun of me for my very thin eyebrows and red hair. My sister likes to brag all the time about how she dyes her friends hairs and does their eyebrows and how she learned how to grill and how she parallel parks her friends cars. Basically, everytime she comes home she likes to tell my parents all the tasks she does and she genuinely sometimes acts and talks like she’s 5 years old and complains how ”no one asks for her ID anymore”. Anyways even if she does something rude or wrong, bcs she’s in college my parents like baby her and even forget what she’s done, yet they yell at me daily over simple things.

So today, while we were in the car my mom shows me this lady who is making her eyebrows thicker and saying how people desire thick eyebrows not thin and she said how my eyebrow lady is going to ask “where my eyebrows are” and lecture me. And I gave her a very straight answer that if she lectures I will say something back because honestly I’m fucking exhausted. Then we talk so much and sister looks at my eyebrows and says where are you eyebrows and like makes fun of how thin they are. Then I said well maybe you need to get rid of some eyebrow hairs because clearly you have a bunch (Ik it was mean but she had been making fun of me the whole week and honestly all i felt like doing was punching her in the face so that was the better alternative).

My parents also act like Im jealous of my sister all the time when I bring up the treatment she gets versus I do. For example, when I was a kid I had a very abusive nanny yet my sister would enable this. My sister would hear her make r3pe jokes about me and see the nanny hit me yet they would both laugh at me (my sister never got in trouble btw bcs apparnely she’s my “second“ mom) and even when I bring it up anymore, my mom says ”oh she was a kid. she made mistakes“. Btw almost an adult and the exact same age I was btw but I forgot I get yelled at daily!!!

There was also a stage and unfortunately sometimes it still happens where I would sh almost daily and everyone would make fun of me and even ask if I wanted something sharper to do it with. My mom would also tell me I’m doing it for attention and for fun but I feel like I genuinely need help sometimes. But my parents buy me stuff a lot, so I feel guilty complaining about them because my mom says she does all of this out of love. Idk:(

My family likes to make fun of my appearance a lot, especially since I look different or I change my looks from what I actually look like. For example, I wear makeup, dyed my hair red, have a nose and fake eyebrow piercing, and thinned my eyebrows significantly. I wouldn’t say I’m alt I just like to try new styles. And honestly, at least in mine and a lot of others opinions, I have glown up a lot and I guess I look more conventionally attractive.

Furthermore, for my parents and my older sister (25) constantly make fun of me for my very thin eyebrows and red hair. My sister likes to brag all the time about how she dyes her friends hairs and does their eyebrows and how she learned how to grill and how she parallel parks her friends cars. Basically, everytime she comes home she likes to tell my parents all the tasks she does and she genuinely sometimes acts and talks like she’s 5 years old and complains how ”no one asks for her ID anymore”. Anyways even if she does something rude or wrong, bcs she’s in college my parents like baby her and even forget what she’s done, yet they yell at me daily over simple things.

So today, while we were in the car my mom shows me this lady who is making her eyebrows thicker and saying how people desire thick eyebrows not thin and she said how my eyebrow lady is going to ask “where my eyebrows are” and lecture me. And I gave her a very straight answer that if she lectures I will say something back because honestly I’m fucking exhausted. Then we talk so much and sister looks at my eyebrows and says where are you eyebrows and like makes fun of how thin they are. Then I said well maybe you need to get rid of some eyebrow hairs because clearly you have a bunch (Ik it was mean but she had been making fun of me the whole week and honestly all i felt like doing was punching her in the face so that was the better alternative).

My parents also act like Im jealous of my sister all the time when I bring up the treatment she gets versus I do. For example, when I was a kid I had a very abusive nanny yet my sister would enable this. My sister would hear her make r3pe jokes about me and see the nanny hit me yet they would both laugh at me (my sister never got in trouble btw bcs apparnely she’s my “second“ mom) and even when I bring it up anymore, my mom says ”oh she was a kid. she made mistakes“. Btw almost an adult and the exact same age I was btw but I forgot I get yelled at daily!!!

There was also a stage and unfortunately sometimes it still happens where I would sh almost daily and everyone would make fun of me and even ask if I wanted something sharper to do it with. But my parents buy me stuff a lot, so I feel guilty complaining about them because my mom says she does all of this out of love. Idk:(

My family likes to make fun of my appearance a lot, especially since I look different or I change my looks from what I actually look like. For example, I wear makeup, dyed my hair red, have a nose and fake eyebrow piercing, and thinned my eyebrows significantly. I wouldn’t say I’m alt I just like to try new styles. And honestly, at least in mine and a lot of others opinions, I have glown up a lot and I guess I look more conventionally attractive.

Furthermore, for my parents and my older sister (25) constantly make fun of me for my very thin eyebrows and red hair. My sister likes to brag all the time about how she dyes her friends hairs and does their eyebrows and how she learned how to grill and how she parallel parks her friends cars. Basically, everytime she comes home she likes to tell my parents all the tasks she does and she genuinely sometimes acts and talks like she’s 5 years old and complains how ”no one asks for her ID anymore”. Anyways even if she does something rude or wrong, bcs she’s in college my parents like baby her and even forget what she’s done, yet they yell at me daily over simple things.

So today, while we were in the car my mom shows me this lady who is making her eyebrows thicker and saying how people desire thick eyebrows not thin and she said how my eyebrow lady is going to ask “where my eyebrows are” and lecture me. And I gave her a very straight answer that if she lectures I will say something back because honestly I’m fucking exhausted. Then we talk so much and sister looks at my eyebrows and says where are you eyebrows and like makes fun of how thin they are. Then I said well maybe you need to get rid of some eyebrow hairs because clearly you have a bunch (Ik it was mean but she had been making fun of me the whole week and honestly all i felt like doing was punching her in the face so that was the better alternative).

My parents also act like Im jealous of my sister all the time when I bring up the treatment she gets versus I do. For example, when I was a kid I had a very abusive nanny yet my sister would enable this. My sister would hear her make r3pe jokes about me and see the nanny hit me yet they would both laugh at me (my sister never got in trouble btw bcs apparnely she’s my “second“ mom) and even when I bring it up anymore, my mom says ”oh she was a kid. she made mistakes“. Btw almost an adult and the exact same age I was btw but I forgot I get yelled at daily!!!

There was also a stage and unfortunately sometimes it still happens where I would sh almost daily and everyone would make fun of me and even ask if I wanted something sharper to do it with. But my parents buy me stuff a lot, so I feel guilty complaining about them because my mom says she does all of this out of love. Idk:(

Sorry this is so long, but if you want more context js ask😭😭

For context, I’m in a debate team with a large majority of them being girls in my grade. I usually try my best to interact with them, but they kind of always leave me out and it makes me feel really shit about myself especially because they do it in the weirdest ways.

More so, an incident last week really just kind of weirded me out. Basically we were on a trip, and this day we weren’t doing anything it was just a small group of girls walking around and watching things. I had went to go sleep in a friends room since she was one of the few that I was more comfortable with. Basically, she had to leave early in the morning and so as her other roomate and I was in the room alone.

I feel really guilty about this as I put multiple alarms, but basically my alarm was going off without any sound at all, so I woke up to banging on my door at the time we were supposed to leave. I opened it and this girl was just screaming at me, so I got ready in under 5 (we weren’t late btw, act early) and when we went down I showed them my alarm and they literally just ignored me.

That same day they were just giving me weird stares and acting like I was this sort of freak who held back the whole team and I felt really bad because I already was trying to fit in and these girls were being sort of better to me before this incident. Anyways, we come back to the hotel and one of my og roomates (same girl who got pissed) is one of the dirtiest roommates ever. She has the audacity to put her clothes on my bed, throw mine on the ground, leave her trash everywhere and throw nutella knives on the ground that I have to end up picking it

Once when I asked what to clear from the fridge she was acting like I was the worst, most disgusting, wasteful roomate ever like giving a lot of attitude and make backhanded comments.

Anyways, I have to deal with this for two more years and honestly I don’t know how to. I’ve tried really hard to be nice to these people and have never done anything bitchy. I’ve never necessarily been life out ASIDE from these group of girls. They’re all indian and Im not so idk if it’s cultural differences or what but I’m arab so it can’t even be far off😭😭???? (Because I’ve heard some of them say some strange things about muslims).

I also want to make a side note that they just for some reason have a group resentment towards me idk. Bcs one of my friends who doesn’t even interact with them showed me how they were like complimenting her in like instagram comments yet theyve never even commented once on my posts but thats kinda silly (commented on theirs btw so not rly a valid reason).

Hi guys. I was at the Dallas show and I recorded another one but my camera was glitchy the whole way through. it’s my fave song if anyone please could make a google drive link or dm :(💕💕💕

Hi everybody. I've been doing gymnastics for 5 years now and i've really enjoyed it. In fact, its one of my highlights after leaving school and i always look forward to it even if practice is tiring. My mom, who cares mostly about studies really wants me to quit because she thinks im wasting my time by going to gymnastics and because she btw is busy I've been missing a lot of practice lately. Today she brought up how I should quit because she's spending a lot of money just for me not to attend every single practice. And I want to attend all the practices, but quite literally she is the one who is always busy.

She kept convincing me and saying that if I just want to workout then she'll sign me up for a gym membership because me "working with weights" should be more fun. However for me, I love being at gymnastics because I get to spend time with my friends and it helped me build bonds with people outside of school and I really love doing the sport. I got really really angry because I kept telling her a million "No. I want to stay in gymnastics" and my mom just kept trying to convince me. I knew my outburst was childish, but I really just wanted her to LISTEN to me.

Then she proceeds to get super angry and is like you can't talk to me like that, I don't need your permission to take you out of gymnastics, I'm spending so much money on this stupid sport. She was acting like she was giving me the option, even though it was just felt like she was forcing me to quit. She then proceeds to talk about how she can never have a conversation with me because I always get angry. Then I apologize and she still gets super angry at me and tells me "apology accepted now get out" and I told her she can take me out if she wants, but I really really don't want to quit. I still don't think I'm in the wrong though because I really want to continue gymnastics and I had told her a million times and she continued to act like it doesn't matter.