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So basically I need a solid recommendation based on experience for a real learning experience at a Japanese school whether online or on-Site, Many schools have wasted my time and money and I can not speak the language till now, I know that self study is crucial but I need a school that pushes me hard.
Everyday presentations, Kanji reading tests, mean teachers who correct your 発音, so that when the course is finished I could actually speak and interact in real world.

I am currently a student at Toyo language school At the N2 level 3 month class and I already feel I wasted 200,000 yen and my time, there are no homework and barely 2 presentations in 1 month!! This is bullshit! There is no book except for listening and they use their own made worksheet for grammar, there is no kanji workbook and 0 speaking practices !! What kind of shit this is!

I need hardcore language school that prepare me for the real business world in this country not some visa sponsoring foreigners pampering school.

Hello everyone, I need your experience and perspective, my baby was born with severe respiratory and digestive malformation, she will require at least four surgeries and she will need a permanent Tracheostomy, they will remove one lung, so she will live with one lung, and she will need a g tube for feeding.

As her parents, how would life be like? Our country does not provide home nursing at all, How would her quality of life be? Can I provide the care she needs?

Surgeons are leaving us to decide between surgeries or palliative care.

Please share your opinions

I (28F) need to understand from a psychological perspective why do I always do this, whenever I spend time with mom and dad I find myself treating them unkindly, being overly critic to everything they do and say, attack their lifestyles, their political views, their relationships, literally everything.

I attack, criticise and judge them all the time, I use dark sarcastic tone all the time, I hate their naiveness and kindness.

I always feel like an asshole after I leave them and process our conversations and THE GUILT, fuck the GUlLT that torture me later.

They are the most kind, easygoing, humble, smily, generous people and everyone knows them say this.

What is wrong with me, why can’t I just be their sweet kind hearted easygoing simple and cute daughter ? Why?

Can I birth my baby again?
She is the most beautiful creature I ever seen in my life
She is a real angel and the purest thing I ever saw
She is 2 months old in the NICU
I do not know how much is left
Can she return to me in another healthy body?
Is it possible, did this happen before!!
I am dying every second in the miserable experience.
I just want my babygirl please

I need feedback from the ladies who went through this, how your body reacted, how was the second pregnancy like, If you suffered from HG in your first pregnancy did it reoccur in the second time? What are the risks overall?

I also need to read about positive experiences please share it

Hi everyone,

I’m a parent facing an incredibly difficult personal decision, and I’m trying to hear different perspectives from others—not medical advice, just how people would think about this emotionally and ethically.

My newborn baby has a very rare and severe condition where her airway and esophagus are not properly separated. She also has only one functioning lung and cannot feed normally.

We’ve been told that without intervention, she likely won’t survive.

There is an option to proceed with a series of very complex surgeries over the coming months. Even in the best case, this would likely mean years (possibly lifelong) dependence on a tracheostomy (breathing tube in the neck), a feeding tube for a long time, and an ongoing medically complex life.

There are also real risks of complications, including developmental challenges.

and even successful cases can still involve long-term limitations.

At the same time, there are rare cases where children do survive, grow, communicate, and have a meaningful life—though not without challenges.

I feel completely torn between:

wanting to give my child every chance to live
and wanting to protect her from prolonged suffering and a difficult life
So I’m not asking for medical advice—but from a human perspective:

If you were in this situation, how would you think about making this kind of decision? What factors would matter most to you?
I would really appreciate honest, thoughtful perspectives.
Thank you 🙏