u/SCastleRelics

So there's been a few early 2000s early house and dance videos that have been circulating on social media and the comments are usually like look what we lost etc. Think milky - just the way you are. Anyway this song features 4 people and I'm pretty sure the singers are. Lip syncing and the other members are just dancers and the video is at some spring break early 2000s set up but it's in Germany? And the audience does not match the music. And it's just an upbeat maybe sexually charged club song from that era.

But also don't want to be in an area I might get my shit blown smoov off, where are some areas that have affordable bare bones hotels I can book? Obviously there isn't going to be much but say I didn't mind if it was basically a hovel with a bed and a microwave lmao

The switch in the middle of the song is everything 🔥🔥🔥

TLDR I want to learn how to get creative with a shared sleeping beauty kink with my partner.

I (M) am seeing someone right now (F) who's really into being woken up and we have been having a great time because I'm really into it too and it's been hard to find someone who enjoys it as much as me. Our typical scenario is she leaves her door unlocked and lets me know when she's feeling sleepy, and then at some random point I sneak in and have my way with her, trying to go as far as possible before she wakes up. And then when she does wake we try different things based on code words I guess. So for example if she wakes up randomly and I say don't try to get away that's usually code for some CNC thing and if I say wake up sleepyhead (it sounds silly typing it 😭) thats usually when I pretend to have slipped in her room and then do my best to make her enjoy it, culminating in her basically begging for it after being confused for a bit. Shit like that.

The major issue and confusion with my limits in knowledge is that she is in to being pinned and forced but is not into degredation and humiliation, at least in the things I say. I would like to explore new ideas or ways of dirty talk but it's honestly a little difficult without some element of degredation, and what I've gathered from what we talked about, the excitement to her is more about not being able to help myself with lust, and that she sees herself as a goddess who's being taken/appreciated beyond consent etc. So there's some praise in there too I guess.

I am starting to feel like it's "stagnating" even though it's still super hot, and I'm running out of ideas which is probably from the fact that I'm still pretty new to this kink too. Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated. I really want her to have a good time! The last time we talked she said that if I want I could up the intensity and dirty talk. She's into anal and freeuse as well and after the first frantic fuck she really enjoys me just rolling over on top of her throughout the night whenever I need to.

My main concern is just learning fun new ways to add intensity and raunchy talk or ideas without being overly degrading, which I'm having trouble with. thanks for reading my mini novel lmao.