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So I was catching up on season 2 of badly in love on Netflix and something really got to me. The way Maririn was crying infront of the boys, and that host guys first instinct was to smile. That really disgusted me. And the way the other guys were backing eachother up only made it worse. I don't think the guys understood how the girls were feeling protective of Maririn, like a sister you want to protect. Even I want to see her happy, and wanted to say I believe she can become a good and loveing mother with the right man. Unfortunately after the way they treated her, I don't believe any of the guys could give her the emotional safety she needs and the love that would make her shine as a woman. To be loved for who you are, and how you are, is important.

I don't know if she was seeing bits and pieces of the recent trauma she had with her ex in those new people, but I think she was looking for someone to atleast say: "Hey, I promise to never treat you that was and make you feel safe in body, mind and soul."

I understand why some of the other girls were thinking about leaveing. Personally I would only have stayed to make sure the other girls were not alone. And at that point you have a different issue that I am sure you figure out what is.

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I chose to give the show Euphoria a try and im only a few episodes in but the thing with Jules and Nate really stood out to me. All I can compare my theory to right now is a tiktok Edit of nate and crybabys wedding.

Do you think on some level he fell in love with jules, and that is why he is with the blonde girl who cries whos name I can't remember (sorry).

It just seems like he is trying to dress up Maddie in the sort of pink fluffy stuff Jules would wear. And when they have sex it's not very intimate, it's very performative for maddy and they rarely face eachother. Especially while he is cheating and starting to get violent over his repressed sexuality.

If he can't be with Jules because he is ashamed of the world finding out and looking down on him, is he with the other one at the end because it's the compromise between what he likes and the box he wants to fit into?

The more I think about my school days the more I realise how messed up it actually was. Like we were young teens, one half of the girl group in our class made a music video lip-syncing to moulin rouge with Christina Aguilera, while spreading their legs wide inside a soccer goal and licking their lips seggsualy. Another group went to comic cons, dressed up in japanese schoolgirl outfits, bend over so you could see their panties and filmed eachother while spanking eachother with bats that had the word Y*oi printed on it. But when I wore a spaghetti strap top, wich I always did cause I had a nectlectfull mom and literally only had 1 pair of clothes, I got slut shamed and told to cover up and show less skin. I was 14 and barely had the shadow of a curve yet.

Girls wrap the hair inside the towel so it dries faster after shower. But most guys seem genuinely surprised that the hair is inside the roll. And by now I no longer think they are jokeing. One guy even seemed annoyed and said there was no point and "Are they trying to make themselves taller" sort of questions.

There is no way they havent figured out why girls do it. Where do they think the long hair goes? Into a portal or stacked against the skull under the towel roll?

Genuinely do guys not know this in general? Is it a running joke between guys?

I have been invited on a beach trip with some nice ladies but I don't have any swimwear. I have been looking and it really bothers me that I have no other choice than a bikini or a bathingsuit. I have big b and don't like to show too much skin in a public setting, since someone filmed me with them exposed in a bra on the beach a few years ago. I want to be comfortable, so shoulders and above the knee is fine. But that would mean I would have to buy mens bathing shorts to put over a bathingsuit, wich is fine, but hard to find. Not the swimtrunks, but a bathingsuit that will not dig into my neck or shoulders so much that I have sore scabs on the skin a week after. So I have resorted to try and make my own swimwear, as a burkini or a divers suit seems too excessive. But even that is a challenge as I don't want to ruin my bras and have to buy metal and such to make one that redistribute the weight of my chest to my torso rather than my neck or shoulders.

I wish us women had more options. Or if those old vintage ones came back to the stores. The male equevelant would be if men only could buy those tiny speedo bottoms that digs into the skin and shows everything.

Can you also not feel your legs from the knee down or is this not normal?

People are so quick to judge the husband but I honestly think he played dumb on purpose for survival. She set fire to the house with him inside, she took advantage of his oldfashioned values to make him stay with her by saying she was pregnant.

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I mean think about it. His own mom were warning him about the wife not haveing a uterus, she was locked in the bathroom for months and had multible accounts sending messages to everyone where anyone with a brain could see it was her.

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I think he knew she was going to do something crazy, just not to what extend. And who knows what would have happened to him if he tried to leave?

Do you ever feel these lyrics when thinking about love? I feel like some guys like the fantasy version in their head better than getting to know the real you. Real love is to know someone. And a rejection from that same woman can make the version of her inside their head evil. Maybe they even like that, or it's an excuse to hate. Yes, it is that deep.

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Am I your dream girl? Do you think of me in bed?

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But you could never hold me, you like me better in your head.

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Make me evil. Then im an Angel when im dead. Atleast you will sanctify me when im dead.

The fact that ninjas were masters at camouflage and naruto is a Ninja from the hidden leaf running around in a bright orange jumpsuit will never not be funny to me.

Disney have fired a bunch of artists, and intend to train ai on the art their now former employers have spend decades refineing. The disrespec is one thing, but what will Disney do when the ai movies fail? Because they will. Not just because of people hostile opinions against ai and what it does to people, but because the ai will never be able to make something consistent without human touch? I mean not even the faces look similar on the man in the new ai animation they released about pregnancy.

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I want to thank the people who helped put things in perspective in the comments. It was time to just stop giveing chances.

I was thinking about if my boundaries and limits due to chronic illness were just not communacated properly or directly enough for him to understand. I honestly wanted to give my friend the benefit of the doubt, but I think the hope that he meant well overshadowed how I saw things in a honest light.

He knew. For years I have shared my journey with him, how my part time work was and why it was not full time, even when we played dnd together or did other things. I was always honest about my limits. This time he just wanted to push me past the point of exhaustion I think. I tried explaining how I felt he didn't respect or lisent to my physical limits and was ignored. He still looked at all my stories on instagram and Facebook for several weeks after. So I blocked him on both. Im done with people like that. I deserve to be treated better.

Read original post for perspective.

First I want to thank the people who helped put things in perspective in the comments. It was time to just stop giveing chances.

I was thinking about if my boundaries and limits due to chronic illness were just not communacated properly or directly enough for him to understand. I honestly wanted to give my friend the benefit of the doubt, but I think the hope that he meant well overshadowed how I saw things in a honest light.

He knew. For years I have shared my journey with him, how my part time work was and why it was not full time, even when we played dnd together or did other things. I was always honest about my limits. This time he just wanted to push me past the point of exhaustion I think. I tried explaining how I felt he didn't respect or lisent to my physical limits and was ignored. He still looked at all my stories on instagram and Facebook for several weeks after. So I blocked him on both. Im done with people like that. I deserve to be treated better.

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When I was a teenager I woke up in the middle of the night with an odd feeling. I went to check on my mom, but she was gone. I went to see if she had fallen asleep on the couch, but no. Her man was asleep in the out house because they had a fight. But anyway, I decided to go outside and look for her. But my shoes and jacket was gone.

I thought to myself wtf? Did I put them in my room? I checked, but no. So I thought maybe they were outside? I went to look, but when I opened the door I found my mom comeing home while not only wearing my shoes but my blue cardigan. She had been in my room while I slept to get it.

She even put her hair in a ponytail just like I did. I was like "Mom wtf are you doing in the middle of the night? Why did you stretch out my shoes too?" She then blocked my way into the pantry and I knew she was hideing something but decided to snoop around later when she was at work or something.

The next day the police called me. They had found footage and footprints that looked a lot like my shoes and jacket.

So basicly my mom had gone to my neighbours house in the middle of the night, broken a window, stolen a small handheld metal box filled with cash, and tried to blame it on me cause I was a minor and too young to get in real trouble.

I found the box and wanted to return it. And Idk how, but she somehow got the box open so it was completely empty with nothing inside to return. To this day I sit with the knowledge my mom was cool with frameing me as a thief.

As someone with a cronic illness, there are limits to the amount of hours I can be out and about. I get extremely tired in body and mind if I over extend myself. If I have told someone this, and they keep pressing me to hang out for longer and go on very long walks before forexample a dinner reservation, and they say they just are trying to be nice. Are they ignoreing my boundaries on purpose or are they just not very smart? Cause I feel like they are in the wrong.