u/Simple-Government490

I mean let's take example of chunkz. One time he's wallahi, astgfirullah and other he's having podcast, dates, pics, meet ups , challenges, etc. With women.

By this logic I can be friends with girl, just don't touch them and develop feeling in a bad manner and have bad intentions. Like could possibly hang out , chill and to normal things as a friend.

Can someone explain what we allowed to do and what we are not.

I know normal talk like asking for help or asking for something and just normal talk to anyone we do is fine. But like how we talk to a male friend we can't talk in that manner . Right??

I was wondering what would be your reaction to when a young men (22-25) . Asks if he can marry your daughter.

Catch he just graduated uni. Looking for a job easily can find one. Live with parents but soon as he marries will move out. (Marriage is after 2-3yrs of nikah)

Main talk is like he says I'll have nikah with your daughter. Then after 2-3 yrs becoming financially okay will do the wedding ceremony.( both will live with parents even after nikah) .

Would you proceed if he's from a good family just not rich only financially okay until he starts working and saving . like before hand of job.

Ppl don't lash out on me know this ain't the sub for this. But this is the best and most humanity filled sub here. Like y'all really help each other out genuinely ans questions.

Downvote as much as y'all want but one thing I learned after reading maximum comments is that you dads and there daughters want a rich man Not a good one. And ppl saying living together after nikah is Sunnah . Then also your allowed to let the boy hustle after the marriage and daughter wait till he's able to provide. I mean y'all earned your fortune after 30-40 yrs of struggle and want him to be Steve Jobs and bill gates at 25. Hypocrites. Also looking only for money is also not the most decent thing under islamic rules. And looking at comment is see y'all don't want him to be, good, caring, knowledgeable, deen, praying , mature, just rich . This is why I am not considering marriage. First of all I don't know who I'd match up with and if they also reserved there self for me like I Reserved myself for them. Then if they trun out like you ppl it would be a living hell.

17M So was assaulted sexually by a cousin about 10yrs ago when was like 6-7.gone over never bothered me because.

I always be loved it will only affect me if I let it affect me. So long story short . I just realized I might be exposed to some sexually transmitted diseases. So should I go for a check up because just watched a video where a person said if your born on 17 the you'll get a trauma in the near time.

Not scared or ashamed to tell parents about it and never taught like ppl will see me from a different perspective just I don't want the other person to deal for the things that he did in the past.

I am scared because grown in a Muslim family so they won't think its trun also there first taught would be a gf. And I am also kinda religious and talk that I don't have any sort of relations with girls. They will highly doubt that I was molested by someone form our own family.

I am not scared of ppls taughts and diff things. Just my health. Even if I do the rest secretly. If I come positive I gotta get a doc and med for it so I am planning to tell.

I was never the soft guy .like I am emotional ,very . I have always been mature and moved on the things my dad died when I was 6 , both grand fathers one at 7-8 and one at 14 . So I never whined about shit. Grandmother also wasn't suppotive took all the propertys and savings of both father and grandfather ,mother had to raise us with big struggles. My maturity level is more than a 25yr old man at this time. So pls help with some good advice

As a growing teen. I constantly think about future and money. So I wanted to know, if someone can explain. Can I sell ,clothes, bags, shoes, etc form replica. Not original piece but like same design , theme, patter, color . But just using there design language or like let's say replica. Does islam allow it because stealing is when the design or piece is patented. And what about replica jersey .(took this business option in consideration because one of the few that never goes down or fail, atleast in my experience).

Good because a non Muslim got a better view why islam is the most beautiful religion, bad because indian and Pakistani muslim have destroyed islam. I mean i live in India so, the point starts at I am in my high school so we have workshop. I usually don't come to regular classes just workshop/practicals.so today I went for it in which my batch is divided into 3 groups of 18ppl each and further divided into 5-6ppl so i was with boys and one of them found me cool and got together and we did the whole thing together. In between chit chat he asked “you gotta girl" I said no. He was like why. I said not allowed. So he said “come on bro sacred of parents in 2026".I said no, not parents just my religion doesn't allow. So he said “your muslim right"? , I said yeah, he said bro they also date, they never say they aren't allowed. I mean muslim don't date islam doesn't allow they just wear the name don't have a single quality of it in them . He was stoked. I was like yeah as much as I can i control I do ,im damn serious for a 17yr old tall and good looking,be noticed by everyone and get hit by girls I know how hard I try .then I said Matter of fact can't even be friend he was shocked. He then asked but why not friends tho I said bro this is the universal constant that men and women can never be just friends. So he said true. I said yes ,moment you both get comfortable in a friendship it turns into relationship. He said explain why no relationship I said, in short cheating, side chick, using, etc leads to heartbreak which is why dating isn't allowed. So he said never new this, I thought your were just like everyone but prayed 5 times a day . Brothers and sister this is why allah said to be modest. Because the action we do is what ppl base our self in there minds. Indian and pakistani already have destroyed islam by making sunnhi, wahabhi, etc then darga, rope around neck, arms, own practices, and festivals. Pls stop doing this. Also did I do good in explaining him and will i get good deeds.

17M , recently stopped talking to all my friends( like brothers). Reason being, lately got like really close to allah and his saying, always was, but now everything I do constantly think will allah be pleased or will he like it, always had a small grp of friends 3-5 , they were the only reason I was living because, everything I did they were always there like walk, talk, play, hangout, grocery, market run, running airends etc. So I cutoff them completely because allah said be with ppl who grow you close to me. There were many reasons but, these are the one I think are okay to present, they were completely off deen, no haya, no gaihrat, always around girls, talking bads thinks about ppl,having gf,vaping, smoking,dating, flirting,etc kinda living like western ppl. So I left them for good. But no I am completely lonely, don't have no one to talk, what should I do, I am also not perfect but ,the things I know aren't permissible I never go near them. they completely neglect this fact for them self. They don't fear allah. Even tho I have never read quran with translation ( I am ashamed of this) but still know a lil, this point is up here because on of them is a son of hifze quran and he himself has read the whole quran with translation, and he still vapes, smokes, has a gf + talks to her sister to. ( not only one but has dated and has been friends with girls in past. And if I mention these things they are like don't act like you don't do this, I have never done this allah know better, still they say like you were also like this, because they just can't digest the fact that I was different and had control over everything. So what should I do. Thinking of getting new friends but the fact that ppl say, this all things are normal, everybody does it makes me rethink . Did I do right thing or can I still be friends because we knew eachother for 6-7 yrs almost.

So last year after winning college tournament with complete domination over teams with wins like 7-0,7-1,7-0.etc I left the game completely like only used to login for top up and air drop,and now the tournament is also coming ahead,i can't perform like I used to,how come I get back on track like my gameplay in the past,I was a very good player at that time like used to solo matchs for my team but now can't we cannot one headshot.matter fact I won my team the 2 BR matches solo because revival wasn't allowed from tower and machine. So can someone genuinely hlp 😭😶‍🌫

16M, HSC this year, after it I am thinking of CET and similar exams but I am kinda average student. Scored 84 in 10th and 75 in 11th . My main concern is I don't have my father with me so I need to build everything on my own, like I have a flat but like in future if I am seeing someone to marry gotta atleast have a 2bhk good apartment, I am very ambitious about working and growing but there is no clear path, I wanna be at 30-40lpa by 25 but ppl and reality says its impossible ,like IIT graduate start at 18-25lpa so I am considering a private college so how come I earn 11-15 lpa freshie , and my only concern is making money because from childhood I wasn't deprived of everything but I had something that I wanted to do but couldn't do due certain things or circumstances. Help me . And worst part is marriage only. I am muslim so I can't date, so only way is marriage, but to be able to do that I gotta earn heafty amount of money. Like every expenses will be on my shoulder than I also a small brother his responsibility will also be on me. This was just an example. Don't go in the comments saying go on matrimonial for this. Reason for studying is money and money fulfills these dreams . Can someone pls help . Or like a pathway . Pls no one saying your to young to think about all this. Bhai mai jis jaga hu aap waha hote toh pata chalta. Help needed

What's the best performer from em5 in there fresh catalog,

But

Scent profile:

I am leaning towards neroli and talisman due to there dna and scent profile and not performance,I like citrus more. Constant has cardamom which I am not a big fan of so suggest some .

in 12th , in future what I have to do koi idea nahi. And after parent is saying what course or degree you want to do. I am thinking of entrance exam but problem is I have only one year for exam. And after that i got to find work I and my family is in no position to bear me sitting at home. But how come I give entrance. I mean giving only entrance is not the best possible thing but how do i Or anyone else give jee, cuet and cet together. Should I consultant a guide or something

What's your ppls view on dating as a muslim.

I know it's haram but. My own religious freind is in a relationship so I kinda don't understand the point .Because I have seen more boys and girls dating flirting etc. Honestly I am not that much religious yes I am inconsistent with prayers etc.but never smoked,vaped,druged had relationship,dated,party,clubs ,etc.I try to do my best and alhamdulillah I have not been in a haram relationship before and infuture never will be. But I was just wondering are there any muslim boys and girls that don't date. I am indian btw. And this post isn't to make someone feel bad about how they are . But i am very worried of my future that will I be married to a good person and have a good parent to raise my child.because I had good parents to teach me and a dumb mind to understand everything they say blindly in my childhood. But not everyone parents are that strict and caring. I know this to extreme for a teen but lifes been showing me the harsh reality of life lately. Feel down form past times seeing our own ppl do haram stuff kinda kills the confidence and believe. Hlp😭😭😭

I am 16 , 5'11 and 83. Don't even know the C of calisthenics. Any tips gudie or anything will help pls. I am trying to look sharp. But it is like I am a class 2nd students learning thermo dynamics. So any amount of help will be great. Thankyou. Pls