The Scavo Family’s Weird Hypocrisy About Drugs and Mental Health Has Aged Poorly
The Scavo family is so weird about drugs on Desperate Housewives. I know Lynette grew up with a mother who struggled with alcoholism and from stories in the show it’s implied there were drugs involved too, so I absolutely understand where some of her fear and control issues come from. It’s terrible for a child to grow up around addiction like that, and I really do sympathize with her there because seeing a parent behave that way absolutely leaves lasting damage. And yes, the show was airing in the 2000s when there was a way bigger stigma around things like weed and mental health medication. But rewatching now, the hypocrisy is honestly wild.
Lynette is allowed to abuse substances when it’s on her terms, but acts morally superior about everyone else. She literally abuses her kids’ prescribed Adderall and even steals medication from another child’s medicine cabinet. But then the show turns around and acts like prescribed weed or antidepressants are this horrifying slippery slope.
The cancer storyline especially bothers me on rewatch. Lynette gets so sick she can barely eat, and her mom gives her cannabis brownies so she can finally have an appetite again. Obviously we understand you shouldn’t be drugging people against their will, but the actual concept of using cannabis medically for cancer symptoms is not some evil or morally corrupt thing. That is a real treatment people use to help with appetite loss, nausea, and chronic pain. But the show frames it like this morally questionable thing instead of an actual medical treatment recommended by doctors.
Then later with Tom’s depression, Lynette is honestly awful about it. She mocks the pamphlet suggestions like naps and baths, dismisses his mental health struggles, and acts like taking prescribed medication is some kind of weakness or “easy way out.” And when he’s prescribed medical marijuana by a professional, she literally swaps it out with oregano or whatever. It’s played for comedy but it’s actually incredibly disrespectful.
Like yes, obviously nobody should be high 24/7, but these were prescribed treatments meant to help people function and feel okay again. The show constantly uses Lynette as the mouthpiece for this weird anti-medication, anti-mental health attitude while simultaneously showing her abusing medication herself.
I still love the show and Lynette so much, but this is one part of it that aged poorly for me.