u/Sweet_Extension1688

So me 3rd yr, core dept. me hu and mera ek jane anjane me frnd circle ban gya 2nd yr me, ham 7-8 log hai but 3-4 log hi mere close hai, usme bhi sirf ek dost esa hai jiske saath me class , mess,khoka, sab jagha ham saath rehte hai even sote bhi kabhi kabhi saath hai par vo phir bhi mujhe itna prioritise nhi krta in terms of frnds. Mujhe kbhi kbhi lgta hai iss grp me bas hu iska part nhi hu, even sabke sub grp hai but mere sub grp me bhi mujhe koi prioritise nhi krta, I feel like bas me hi sbke liye effort marta hu koi mere liye kbhi nhi krta. Agar koi gussa ho jata hai mujhse me sry bolkar use pamper Krne jata hu but jab me gussa hota hu kbhi koi mujhe pamper krne nhi aata hai(like abhi bhi me gussa hu but koi nhi aaya). Me ab aur nhi sehn kar paa rha hu. Mujhe unn logo so jealous feel hota hai jinke kam hi sahi but real frnds hai. I also want to feel that close friendship.

Par khair🥀🥀.

Mujhe kbhi kbhi lgta hai naye frnds bnana chahiye me hamesha inhi logo ke saath ghumta hu, toh kese bnau. Me kisi club me nhi hu and alcher and techniche me 2nd yr tak tha. So pls people guide me especially seniors. And also seniors tell me about ur friendship.

Mods pls advice flair bhi introduce krdo.

Thanks to all whoever read this.

Feeling less on heart

I am currently studying in iitg

I am currently studying in iitg

I am currently studying in iitg

Hii seniors! I am in my 3rd year in Civil Engineering. I am confused about making a career choice. I have an interest in the core. There are two options in the core private and government,in govt. there is upsc(ese). What should I do? Also I don't want to join the corporate sector, I think I am suitable for it. Pls help. Thanks in advance

I have 2 very close friend (they are senior tho) one is a CA+IIM A/B/C graduate (can't tell you exact) and is working as an investment banking associate at JP morgan and the otherone has completed his Btech in CSE from IIT Roorkee (he was ranked around 400s in jee advanced 2020) and is working as a software engineer at Google bangalore

Both of the guys above are preparing for upsc cse along with their job and will give resignation soon and i was very awestrucked when they told me.

I have seen their insta pics and even went with them on vacation and all and the life they are living is very luxurious. 5 star hotel, foreign vacation, clubs and partying, armani,hugo boss clothes and watches.

Now ik there is power rutba permanent job and all in upsc but if someone has such a good job,good life, google and jp morgan tag and all then why would someone quit their fancy job and prepare for this unpredictable exam from the very scratch.

I mean i truly believe that both of them have good chances to ace the exam but idk why i was feeling something off/odd that's why i posted here