I think the key to escaping is not trying to be clever, think/justify/negotiate your way out of it, but just operate in a frame that you are in command and deciding not to come back.
I've spent the last year pondering this extensively and reading various texts (old and new) and it seems that the answer is simpler and more intuitive. Just decide that whoever you meet on the other side does not have authority over you.
I think this is what the Gnostics meant by Gnosis = knowing. I would post this theory over in r/Gnostic for discussion but I was banned there for suggesting that Sofia may not have our best interests at heart, I suspect she (of whatever entity holds her characteristics) also wants us here, at least until some impossible task is complete like universal human enlightenment, etc.