What happened to auto cancellation?

iirc you should have the ability to cancel if a seller hasn’t shipped after 3 business days and it would be automatically granted.

I bought an item on 9/29 and it still hasn’t been shipped, so I thought I would be able to cancel it by today but I only see the option to request to cancel (meaning the seller can still deny it)

Did they remove this option?

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u/TenderRain — 12 days ago

Yay or nay for keyboards with a tiny screen?

Hello! I’m itching to get a new keyboard and have been gravitating a bit towards ones that have a cute little LCD screen - Osume Play75, QK80 or 65, and Dino75. But I’m also paranoid that it could stop working, if it winds up being more like dead space/an eyesore, will look outdated, etc. so I’m curious to get people’s takes!

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u/TenderRain — 2 months ago

Sinus allergies caused by birth control pill?

Hi! I started taking Mili only about three weeks ago and it coincided with me starting to get nearly daily sinus/nasal allergies. Sometimes Claritin helps, nauvage/netty pot doesn’t help, I haven’t tried anything like Flonase. My home is clean and my sheets are washed, I have a blue air filter too.

My nose gets really itchy/stings and my mucus is very thin. I also started getting dry patches on my face. It’s starting to affect my work as I struggle to talk and get through meetings.

I reached out to my doctor and they said it’s unlikely to be the cause but I’m still skeptical, and I’m running out of things to eliminate in terms of what’s actually triggering my allergies.

Does anyone have any anecdotes on birth control + allergies? I don’t know if I should just stick it out (since bc takes 1-3 months for the body to acclimate) and make sure I take Claritin daily.

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u/TenderRain — 2 months ago

New to BC pill, tough it out or stop now?

Hi! I just started taking a BC pill for the first time ever (Mili) and it’s been about 16 days. I didn’t want anything inserted so I opted for a pill. But these side effects are driving me crazy:

- I’ve had nearly daily nasal allergies since starting the pill
- increased acne (I know this is a given but I hate it)
- breakthrough bleeding everyday, it stays at day 1 of a period but very annoying
- more recently, bad acid reflux. Like I have to take Pepcid and lie down until it kicks in. And the pain gives me bad health anxiety
- occasional random nausea even though I make sure to take it at night

I know you have to give your body 1-3 months to adjust to the hormones but these are driving me nuts. My mains reasons for trying the pill are to stop periods and stabilize my mood better, as I get really irritated before and after my period. But the combination of all these random symptoms are making me almost want to call it quits, though I can’t even be sure what is and isn’t being caused by the pill. Is it worth it to tough it out?

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u/TenderRain — 2 months ago

Pink stains from sunscreen(?) on

At least that’s my best guess, I wore this dress out on a hot day with a lot of sunscreen applied. Unfortunately, I threw it in the washer (cold water) and dryer (low heat) before I noticed the stains so I’m not sure if the pink is “baked” in now?

I tried to use Carbona stain devils rust remover but it didn’t work. Also tried dawn power wash, no dice either.

The dress is cotton and polyester fabric. Any other suggestions would be so helpful, I really like it and can’t buy a replacement!

u/TenderRain — 3 months ago

Villas at Disneyland Hotel vs Grand Californian

Hello! Thinking of going to Disneyland in December and currently weighing our hotel options. We have a toddler who’ll be 18 months old by then, so we really want to optimize for comfort around that (i.e. we’ll spend a lot of time resting in the hotel room)

To preface, we just got back from staying in a Deluxe Studio at Aulani. Suffice to say, it was subpar compared to our previous stays in the standard hotel room - outdated and small, and I didn’t know about the sparse housekeeping for DVC (babies are messy). So I have some learnings to go off of our most recent experience!

I am not a DVC member, I’m looking to rent points, or in DLH’s case I think the villas can be booked with cash.

We’re interested in booking a villa (1 or 2 bedroom) since other family may come with us. The villas at DLH look very nice and it seems recently updated, but are in the Discovery Tower so further away? The GC looks to be set for going under renovations late this year, and the current rooms (including the villas) look dated - but I keep reading a lot of praise for this hotel regardless. Alternatively we could book multiple standard rooms, but we’d prefer to stay together.

Any insight would be very appreciated!

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u/TenderRain — 3 months ago

13 month old knows how to drink from a straw but has a strong preference for bottle nipple

Hi! I’m struggling to wean my 13.5 month old off of bottles. I have the munchkin sippy cups, first years straw cups, and tum tum weighted straw cup.

She knows how to use a straw - she can get milk via the straw, but with water it’s kind of a crapshoot because she’ll let it flow out of her mouth. she just seems to love the nipple, she’ll take like one sip from a straw and then try to communicate she wants more but with the nipple instead of straw.

With the sippy cups she protests a lot but she also knows how to drink from them.

I’m kind of double struggling with trying to get her to drink more water (I’ve tried a lot of things - mix with juice, have myself and my husband pretend to drink from her cup, cheers, etc.) and bottle weaning. Combined with her tantrums, and she’s facing some constipation issues with her not drinking enough water, I am a very exhausted and overwhelmed mom right now 🫠

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u/TenderRain — 4 months ago
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Hele Hele Shuttle from airport to Aulani

Hello! Going to Aulani later this week as two parents and our 13 month old and I just booked Hele Hele. Can anyone speak to how they are? A bit nervous since it’s a shared shuttle service, but they seem more reliable than ordering an Uber.

And does a stroller count as a piece of luggage?

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u/TenderRain — 4 months ago

Switching to Acuvue Oasys Max causing worse dry eye?

Hi! I’ve worn contacts for 10+ years, I was always on Dailies AquaComfort Plus 1 day. I had mild dry eye but honestly not super noticeable, I never really had to use eye drops or artificial tears. I wear contacts all day, everyday.

I recently (like in the last few weeks) switched to Acuvue Oasys Max 1 day which does feel more comfortable in my eye and was recommended by my optometrist, but I feel like it’s made my dry eye worse? I started using Blink artificial tears when I feel a very slightly stinging but it’s when I remove my contacts at the end of the day my eyes feel a burning sensation. And now when I don’t wear contacts, my eyes feel more teary/watery than usual.

Has anyone else experienced this with this brand of contacts? I’m trying to switch back to my old one now but I’m disappointed because the Acuvue seemed to be more comfortable and more “modern” with the oxygen thing.

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u/TenderRain — 4 months ago