u/TheChosenJohn197

السّلام عليكم.

حدّ عنده تجربة مع حوار المنتورز في التّحضير للمعادلة و كانت عاملة إيه؟

و إيه ال يخلّيني أخصّص منتور و إيه ال يخلّي الفكرة لا تستحقّ؟

و هل منصّة mentor MD كويّسة؟

و هل يفضّل أتابع معه طوال فترة التّحضير خصوصًا لو كانت الفترة ضيّقة و مضغوطة أم هو أوّل شهر ثمٍ العائد سيتناقص بشدّة؟

و شكرًا لحضراتكم.

From my understanding, female arousal is often tied to emotional connection, intimacy, and feeling desired by a trusted and safe partner. I've always thought that when these elements combine, women's desire tends to build up gradually, rather than being as sudden or primarily visually-driven as men's. ​Because of this perspective, I genuinely struggle to understand how women can enjoy or sometimes become addicted to visual adult content. ​I am honestly looking for a serious, mature explanation to help me understand the motives, feelings, and psychological drivers that lead women to watch it. Is my initial premise flawed or incomplete? ​I would highly appreciate it if responses could come directly from women so I can gain a clearer, first-hand perspective. Please keep the discussion respectful and polite. Thank you!

أنا في علمي أنّ الأنثى تحبّ المشاركة و الحبّ و أن تشعر أنّها مرغوبة من شخص تشعر معه بالثّقة و الأمان.

و عند اجتماع هذه الأمور تتولّد شهوتها و تكون شهوة بطيئة تراكميّة.

و شهوتها ليست سريعة حادّة بصريّة في المقام الأوّل مثل الذّكور.

فبسبب هذا أنا لا أفهم كيف تستمتع الأنثى بالإباحيّة أو تدمنها.

فصدقًا عايز شرح جادّ ناضج لأفهم الدّوافع و المشاعر الّتي تشعر بها البنت تجعلها تلجأ لها و لما ترضى بها و هل فكرتي الأولى فيها خطأ؟

و يفضّل أن تكون الرّدود من إناث بالفعل كي تكون الصّورة أوضح.

رجاءً لا أريد أي تعليق لا يليق أو غير لبق، وشكرًا.

نشرته على Egypt لكن الأدمن حذفه لسبب لم أفهمه فقرّرت أن أنشره هنا.

أرجو ألّا يحذف أيضًا.

أنا في علمي أنّ الأنثى تحبّ المشاركة و الحبّ و أن تشعر أنّها مرغوبة من شخص تشعر معه بالثّقة و الأمان.

و عند اجتماع هذه الأمور تتولّد شهوتها و تكون شهوة بطيئة تراكميّة.

و شهوتها ليست سريعة حادّة بصريّة في المقام الأوّل مثل الذّكور.

فبسبب هذا أنا لا أفهم كيف تستمتع الأنثى بالإباحيّة أو تدمنها.

فصدقًا عايز شرح جادّ ناضج لأفهم الدّوافع و المشاعر الّتي تشعر بها البنت تجعلها تلجأ لها و لما ترضى بها و هل فكرتي الأولى فيها خطأ؟

و يفضّل أن تكون الرّدود من إناث بالفعل كي تكون الصّورة أوضح.

رجاءً لا أريد أي تعليق لا يليق أو غير لبق، وشكرًا.

نشرته على Egypt لكن الأدمن حذفه لسبب لم أفهمه فقرّرت أن أنشره هنا.

أرجو ألّا يحذف أيضًا.

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I don't know if that the right place to share that.

I am a young girl and I've posted inquiry about thing related to my virginity and masturbation.

And i found my message request section about to blow up.

Many guys messaged me to turn themselves up and some sends their intimate organ.

I felt disgusted due to this aggressive and emotionaless actions.

How do men see us?

I feel it's like hesitation.

It breaks my privacy and sense of secure.

And how do I act well with those men?!

Hi everyone,

I'm a straight person I realized that most of what I know about being gay comes from assumptions, so I'd like to hear from people with real experience.

I'm not here to debate anyone, just to understand. If you're comfortable sharing:

1. When did you realize you were gay? Was it gradual or something you always knew?

2. Intimacy: How do sex and intimacy usually work in gay relationships? Are roles like top/bottom generally fixed or flexible?

3. Love: Does falling in love feel much like it does for straight people, just with the same sex?

4. Women: Do you still see women as beautiful aesthetically, even without sexual attraction?

5. Family: Do you hope to marry or have children someday? If so, what does that look like for you?

6. Daily life: What's something about being gay that most straight people probably don't understand?

7. One thing: If you could make straight people understand one thing about being gay, what would it be?

Thanks to anyone willing to share. I'm here to listen and learn.

Hey everyone,

First, I want to clear up one thing. My username is "John," but that's just a random nickname. I'm actually a 21-year-old woman. Someone I talked with thinking I was a guy, so I figured I'd mention it.

I'm from a conservative Asian culture where sex before marriage is completely off the table. My fiancé suggested I try masturbation to help with some of the sexual frustration we've both been feeling, so I only started exploring it about 4 weeks ago.

At first, I had no idea what I was doing. I was basically rubbing the whole vulva pretty hard, which just hurt and didn't feel good. Eventually I realized that gently and slowly stimulating the clitoris, instead of rubbing the whole area, is what actually works for me. I usually orgasm in about 10 to 15 minutes just using my imagination and thinking about being intimate with my fiancé.

I have a few questions that have been on my mind:

1. Is 10 to 15 minutes considered slow? I asked another woman, and she said she usually orgasms in around 5 minutes, but if she's been really pent up she can finish in about 20 seconds. The thing is, I'm usually really pent up too when I masturbate because I don't do it very often, yet it still takes me 10 to 15 minutes. Is that just because I'm so new to this? Does your brain kind of "learn" to orgasm faster after years of experience?

2. I haven't tried fingering or any penetration because I'm terrified of damaging my hymen. In my culture, virginity is taken very seriously, and losing my hymen before marriage could cause huge problems. Can fingering affect the hymen?

3. Is penetration actually more pleasurable than clitoral stimulation, or is it just a different feeling?

4. Am I late to this? I only discovered masturbation at 21, and sometimes I feel like everyone else figured this out years ago.

5. If I end up masturbating every day, and maybe watching or listening to something while doing it, is that likely to become a negative habit or negatively affect my future real-life sex life?

I'd really appreciate hearing from people with more experience. Thank you!

السّلام عليكم.

أنا في سنة ٣ و بحضّر لستب 1 و بتابع مع دكتور الحسينيّ.

لكن ماشي برتم بطيء جدًّا.

أنا قرّبت أخلّص المايكروبايولوجي بس أنا بادئ يعتبر من شهرين.

مشكلة تأخيري في رغبتي الدّائمة في المثاليّة و إتقان كلّ موضوع قبل مذاكرة الموضوع التّالي.

فأنا أشاهد المحاضرة و أقرأ محتوى المحاضرة من الكتاب ثمّ أحلّ أسئلة ال UW الخاصّة بالمحاضرة ثمّ أذاكر فلاش كاردز Anking.

حاسس إنّ ده overkill و مثاليّة زائدة و إذا أكملت بهذا الأسلوب فسآخذ أكثر من سنتين كي أدخل الامتحان.

فما نصيحتكم لي؟

I have a case of historical Female Genital Cutting (FGC) to understand the exact anatomical outcome based purely on the current physical presentation. I am providing the raw mechanism of injury and the current findings to get an objective assessment of what tissue was likely involved.

History & Mechanism of Injury

The individual underwent a traditional thermal FGC procedure in childhood. The heated instrument was applied strictly to the clitoral area; the labia minora and majora were completely untouched.

When the hot instrument was pulled away, a piece of tissue adhered to it and was avulsed (removed completely).

Current Physical Examination

The tissue of the exposed area is remarkably soft and plain while eracted and red dense in arousal status.

There is an absolute absence of fibrotic tissue, keloids, induration, or dryness anywhere in the region.

Functional Status

Climax is consistently achieved within a 5 to 12-minute timeframe exclusively through direct self-stimulation (masturbation).

Questions for Specialists

1. Based strictly on the thermal avulsion mechanism described, what specific anatomical structure was likely removed? Is it clinically plausible that a portion of the glans itself was avulsed alongside the prepuce?

2. Physiologically, how do you explain the complete absence of fibrotic scarring and the preservation of entirely soft tissue despite a thermal avulsion injury?

3. Does this presentation (an exposed, functional, and unscarred clitoral structure following thermal avulsion) align with specific outcomes you have encountered in clinical practice?

4. Will this woman face obstacles or limitations in any sexual practice with her partner (still virgin)?

السّلام عليكم.

أنا شخص أكره التّجمّعات و أن يعرفني أحد أو أن أكون محطّ اهتمام النّاس أو أجذب الانتباه.

لكن عندما يكلمني أحد أكون واثقًا من نفسي أعرف أن أتعامل و أتكلّم و أتناقش و أتصّرف.

باختصار أنا أكره الاحتكاك و لكن لست ضعيفًا اجتماعيًّا.

فهل هذا طبيعيّ و هل المسمّى النّفسيّ أنّه انطوائيّة؟

السّلام عليكم.

اكتشفت إنّ خطيبتي مختونة - إزالة جزء مش الكلّ - لمّا كانت طفلة و جدّتها عملت كدا من ورا أبيها لأنّه رافض لهذه الممارسة.

هي ليس لها ذنب.

لكن أنا كنت أحمل مشاعرًا سلبيّة كثيرة تجاه هذا الأمر.

فمش عارف بصراحة ما مدى تأثير هذا علينا مقارنة بلو كانت غير مختونة.

و مش عارف بصراحة كيف أتعامل مع هذا من صدمتي.