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Yesterday on the 4th of July, the guy (23M) I’ve been seeing for about 4 months and I (23F) got into an argument that has left me feeling really confused and hurt. We’ve had disagreements before, but this situation felt different and I’m struggling to understand whether I’m missing something or if our communication styles are just very incompatible.

The day started off great. It was my first time meeting and hanging out with his friends, so I was already feeling a little nervous. On the drive there, he made a comment telling me not to do anything “disrespectful.” I told him I wouldn’t and added that if he knew me well enough, he’d know I would never intentionally do something like that.
Later in the afternoon, I was swimming in the lake with some of his friends’ girlfriends. When I got out of the water, I was about to adjust my bikini top when he looked at me and asked, “What’s wrong with you?” I was confused, and he told me that part of my breast was exposed.

I genuinely had no idea. I was facing him, not his friends, and was literally in the process of adjusting my top when he pointed it out. I immediately fixed it, apologized, and explained that it was an accident.

Instead of ending there, it turned into a much bigger argument. He kept asking what was wrong with me and saying I was being disrespectful. I kept telling him it wasn’t intentional and that I would never purposely do something like that. I ended up crying because I felt awful and embarrassed.

What really confused me was that he wanted me to explain how I would prevent this from ever happening again in the future. Since it was an accident, I didn’t really know how to answer that.

Afterward, his friend took us out on the boat, and while we were there he told me that he loves me and that the situation upset him because he cares about me so much.
Later that night, he told me he doesn’t think I care about him as much as he cares about me. He said my words are nice to hear, but that my actions don’t match them. He feels very attached to me and doesn’t think I feel the same way.

The thing is, I do care about him deeply. I have strong feelings for him, but our communication often feels difficult. After this argument, I felt incredibly defeated. Instead of feeling closer to him, I felt like my confidence and happiness were being chipped away.

I can’t stop thinking that no matter what I say or do, it will never feel like enough for him.

Am I missing something here? Was his reaction reasonable? How would you handle this situation moving forward?

When I think of songs like this I think of Outside by George Micheal & Tabloid Junkie by Micheal Jackson. Does anybody have more songs that are in the same vain?

When I think of songs like this I think of Outside by George Micheal & Tabloid Junkie by Micheal Jackson. Does anybody have more songs that are in the same vain?

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Sometimes I want a dirty joke explained to me or something along those lines and some people are like “oh no I don’t want to corrupt you.” “Keep your innocence.” Or whatever. Just explain the damn joke to me. I’m not a kid/innocent. But I’m stupid. Like yes I know it’s a dirty joke but what is it supposed to be?

So it seems that horror stories on episode are either 3-5 chapters or are incomplete. I’m looking for longer horror stories. Ideally over 30+ chapters like Foul Play, Crimson Palms etc. or it can be 14+ chapters long. I’d like more diverse horror stories to. I don’t want a bunch of zombie stories. Yeah zombies are cool but there’s more to horror than that.

So I’d like some stories that will have me cracking up. I’ll tell you some stories I find funny so you can understand my sense of humor

Rough Cut, A Sip Of Time, Twisted, Shape Of Secrets, Quarantined by shahar, Party Girls

They can be any art style I don’t mind.

The stories don’t have to be comedies. Like ASoT, SoS and twisted aren’t comedies but they’re hilarious.

I’d also prefer long(er) stories but I’m ok with short stories to.

I’m not talking about greyed out songs. I was trying to find a song I KNOW I put in my playlist and it wasn’t there. I added it back. I know I have 544 songs on one playlist but the other day it said 543. I know these are 2 seperate instances but it made me wonder. How many songs have disappeared from my playlists that I don’t know about? How can I stop this from happening.

So every day I’ve got an alarm. I’ve had it for years now. Anyways I go to my history of music and it shows I listened to that song when I haven’t actually listened to that song in a while. But now it’s counting as if I listened to it. And I’ve got an app called Airbuds that’s also counting my alarm song. Will this count in my final stats? How do I stop this? Why is it only doing it now? I updated my phone the other day to iOS 26.5 and prior to my update it’s never done that. Did the update cause this? Idk.