u/TheRealBlueBard

Im going to do my best to explain this without naming names or parks.

Backstory: I was playing at my park fine but someone brought up (apparently for a group of people) that people feel uncomfortable with me being there because there were rumors spread about members of my polycule supposedly pressuring young men to drink in order to get with them. I know this is false for 2 reasons. 1, the primary member, who also used to be a part of the park but hadn't come in a couple months, doesnt get with anyone below the age of 25 nor has the money to buy people drinks on the regular and 2. The other member of my polycule accused is a lesbian. So yeah not targeting young MEN. She's also 22 so is young herself.

Anyway, the rumors spread, it became a talk with park leadership and the supposed face of the group that basically said: im still allowed at park but dont bug people who dont wanna talk to you. Fair enough. The issue is the rumors spread to basically everyone in the park and it basically became like 3 people willing to talk to me. It was clear no one really wanted me there.

Now I left for a couple reasons. 1. No one came to here my side of the story and just believed everything they heard. 2. Its clear I wasn't wanted and im not gonna stay where im not wanted. 3. I would want to make friends with people but no one wanted to be friends with me after the rumors. So for these reasons I left.

Its been a few months now and I miss fighting and I have no real solutions to it. There are no other parks close to me. Nearest one is like 4 hours away. The belegarth group in my town shares alot of members with amptguard so it'd be the same issue. There is no jugger group. Im open to fencing and hema fighting but those both cost alot of money to get into and im a broke bitch. So I have no real solution and I was hoping yall might have something?

Also, for those of you who may recognize me, unless the park has changed significantly I probably wouldn't want to come back if im still just gonna be ostracized.

Location: California united states.

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This morning I woke up to a voicemail from someone claiming to be from the department of justice asking to call him back in regards to my firearm i purchase from someone about half a year ago- a year ago. They did get my name, and the previous owners names right but did not give me any other details, just said to give them a call back and they will explain further. It was all purchased legally through the proper channels.

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So, presuming that the voicemail i received is real and actually from the doj, what rights do I have here? Do I have to talk to them, or can I wait for a warrant? What power over my firearm do they have over my firearm if it is somehow involved in a case(and can I be financially compensated if they do try and take it as evidence)? How much do I have to comply here?

forwarning this is gonna be disgusting af. my mom loves to complain about the house being a mess. i just went into her room(and it is just hers now since her and my dad sleep in diffrent rooms) and it is a fucking slophole. not only are clothes everywhere, there is litteral animal shit in her closet both old and newish and that is because she doesnt change the fucking litterbox which is more animal shit then litter. her room straight smells like cat piss, its fucking disgusting. she put a bathroom floor mat out in the laundry to be washed and it smelled like cat piss so bad that it went through the wall into my room. her bed hasnt been made in months and theres crumbs and shit all over it. but you know her bathroom is spotless(minus the litterbox and mats) because of her 2am cleaning sprees she does when she has withdrawls.

Also theres other drama too because my mom sold my dads truck to my aunt for connor without telling my dad until afterwards. but its been 2 months and they still havent picked up the truck from us, so now my dad is telling my aunt hes gonna keep the truck(which he never agreed to sell anyway) and give my aunt her 500 back(which is WAY less than that truck is worth) and even offered to give her the shit ass camery if they want one of our cars. so now there's that fight going on too. so im not even sure i can ask my aunt to knock some sense into her sister RN.

This is mostly a practice to help me develop my argument so feel free to play devils advocate if you'd like(tell me tho so I dont downvote you lmao)

I'm sure this seems a common argument but still very controversial based on my family dinners.

I am a bisexual pan-romantic genderfluid pagan furry in a poly relationship who believes in gun ownership. Each of these things individually have a lot of debates and talks about them. So let's define them all and talk a little bit about the reality of them.

Bisexual pan romantic: this is the most common debate you will ever see other than maybe gun control or abortion. Now they are pretty self explanatory but ill define 1 thing here. The difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction is why there are 2 things.

Genderfluid: pretty simple as well. I identify as Genderfluid. This basically means how I see myself gender identity wise fluctuates. Sometimes day by day, week by week, even hour by hour. (Pronouns are they them btw)

Pagan: here is where it gets interesting. I am an omnist. That means I believe every major religion does exist. All the gods are real typa thing. Personally I believe all the gods do have power and influence over the world but no grand authority over everything. They have influence over your life and the things that can effect you if you give them the ability to (worshiping them). I believe the after life is a big mix of all the after life's in religions and you go based off of what you worshiped in your life( if your atheist you just get an overall universe judgment on if.you were a good person or not and then your own personal paradise). A good example of this is actually in a tiktok and now book series called the helles belles if you're interested.

Furry: here's another big one. While the stigma has gone down some its still there. We're not all weirdos who want to fuck animals and shit. Some of us just like the escapism and being able to be "someone" else and just have fun with like minded people.

Poly: I don't really have an explanation for this other than I'm in a polycule of about 7 direct members and alot of metas.

Gun control: i am a gun owner and while I do believe people should own guns, but I do think gun control needs to change a bit. Obviously better background checks and I believe it should have a system similar to cars, with licenses going for d to a.

Your turn.

Basically the title. My fiancé has been in a depressive slump recently and tonight is pretty bad. She feels like everything sucks and has just been doomsdaying all day about everything. She's gotten to the point where i cant even get her to do the one thing that typically helps with her depression or mania.

I just dont know what to do for her or how to help.