u/Total-Command-8383

I asked on the hair systems subreddit and I was advised to ask here!

I’m a woman w alopecia who’s reliant on female hair systems. I’ve been using a mesh integration system for the past year or so and it hasn’t really been working for me

For one I have very advanced hair loss and sparse hair on top and since it’s designed to work with your pre existing hair the hairline looks too high and unnatural and “off”. Bangs to conceal the hairline exacerbate the issue rather than solving it

I’m looking into alternatives: I had a consultation w another place that does fully bonded systems and while it looks v tempting (and their portfolio looks good) it’s going to cost £3.5k-£4k :/ so I want to be 100% sure it’ll look good and feel good before committing

I’m also considering cnc systems but they look even more expensive

I’m a woman w alopecia and I’ve been using a hair system for a year now, but I’m not fully satisfied with it

It’s a mesh integration system so since it works with my pre existing hair the hairline ends up looking unnaturally high and off and wiggy? And I’ve had issues with my hair poking through the hairline and other stuff

I’m considering switching over to a fully bonded system after shaving the hair I do have. Does anybody have experience with this? I’ve had a consultation already and it looks v promising but it’d cost £3.5-4k so I want to be really sure before committing. I’ve also considered a CNC system but I think that would be outside of my price range. I just want something that’s as close to a full and natural head of hair as possible and I’m v desperate for solutions

I (29F) have a very ugly face and combined with being autistic it causes me to get constantly mistreated in my personal life :(

Other women in particular are often horrible to me. When I was out on Saturday night I had this girl w a group of friends act nice to me and ask me if I wanted to tag along w her and dance. Then after we danced for a bit she randomly said something about me making her uncomfortable. I didn’t do anything at all except for dance, I didn’t get close to her or anything, I was literally just dancing in the same space bc she invited me to tag along…

Then another time one girl was acting really nice to me and asked for my insta saying we should go out to events together then unfollowed my insta (v innocuous mostly just selfies/cat pics/food) the next day

This is all because I’m so physically repulsive that ppl automatically dislike me. I’ve been bullied for how I look my whole life, I look very masculine and ugly, I have alopecia so I need to wear a hair system. I need heavy plastic surgery and a million other cosmetic treatments. I’ve been contemplating suicide recently, I often think about it, because there isn’t any other option

I’m 29F and I’m hideously ugly. You can see for yourself but I have a long face, hyper masculine jawline and chin, crooked teeth, and severe acne scarring. I also have alopecia which means I need to wear a female hair system but the one I have rn looks awful

I know I’m ugly bc of how ppl treat me irl. There was one time recently where a girl was being super nice then asked to exchange instas w me bc she wanted to hang out w me some more. She unfollowed me tomorrow.

Then this sat (which triggered this episode) another girl was being rly nice then she switched up and began acting very weird. This is a common occurrence for me: I don’t have friends irl bc everybody thinks I’m physically repulsive and treats me like a leper. It’s impossible to have a social life when everybody sees you as a disgusting subhuman freak

I need heavy plastic surgery, braces, laser skin resurfacing, then a new female hair system to even look remotely normal. I want to bedrot until I can get everything I need. I’m in so much pain I’ve been treated horribly my whole life bc of how I look

Like I need heavy plastic surgery, a new female replacement system (I have alopecia), braces, skin resurfacing, etc… all to just not look like a subhuman mutant :(

I hate how I look sm and it’s unfixable I just can’t cope at all anymore I wish I were dead honestly