u/UndeadSavage94

I’m currently a full-time social worker in San Jose but I’m going on leave due to extreme burn out. I’m looking for something part-time. I can handle stress, but having my life threatened and being assaulted regularly is what I need a break from. I’m trying to finish school which is why I’m looking for part-time. Please let me know if you know of anywhere urgently hiring. I’m open to anything.

I really want a guys perspective here. I’m 32, my longtime girlfriend is 30. We’ve been living together with her parents for two years now ever since she quit her job. She’s been looking for work, but she’s very specific in what she’s looking for and refuses to work lower end jobs even if it means paying her bills. She’s had no success. I’ve basically been paying for everything. She does cook and clean a lot which I’m very thankful for.

I work full time in a very stressful and dangerous job. I really want to quit. My depression and anxiety have been increasing and just the thought of this job makes me feel hopeless. I’ve been feeling this way for a long time. I was very lucky to get this job since I never actually finished college, and so my employment opportunities are currently limited. I lift heavy weights 3X a week which is the only thing that’s been keeping me going.

My girlfriend basically told me she would not have the emotional capacity to be in a relationship anymore if her bills and other needs were no longer covered. She suggested for me to move back with my family until I can land back on my feet. Living with my family (and not paying her bills) would allow me to finish school and have more potential job opportunities which I do like. All I need to graduate is to finish an internship and I’m done. But I can’t do it while working full-time.

But hearing her say this just made me feel like a walking ATM. I told her she needed to sacrifice her pride and work minimum wage jobs if she is so desperate to cover her bills. I’m currently speaking with my father about returning home. I know men are traditionally supposed to be providers but hearing her say this made me question what love even is..

What’s your take and how has your girl reacted when you’ve lost or quit your job before finding another one?

I’m currently using a dual sense edge controller on my steam deck, although I feel little to no rumble at all when playing games. How is the rumble/vibration on the new Steam controller?

Growing up, I was very talkative and outspoken. Other kids would often berate me and call me an idiot for literally speaking my mind all the time. Even my own friends treated me this way. Eventually, I became so insecure that it feels like I’m always guarded when it comes to opening up and just communicating with people in general. I crave connection but I also fear rejection. It feels like a perpetual cycle of me trying to convince myself to just get over it. Have you ever experienced this?

Growing up, I always loved the sonic franchise which obviously took inspiration from dragon ball. As an adult, I finally gave the dragon ball shows a chance. I’ve been missing out! So many lessons about never giving up, pushing past your own limits and being there for your friends. I battle with heavy depression and anxiety. This franchise has helped me so much the past year and a half. So many days, I can’t stand the idea of getting out of bed. But what would a true saiyan warrior do in my position? They might still shed tears, but they’ll fight every step of the way. Since January 2025 until yesterday, I began watching DB, DBZ (OG), DBGT and just finished DB Super. I’m so sad it’s coming to an end but I have to remind myself to never forget the lessons learned and the feelings I’ve experienced along the way that made me stronger. What about you? What’s your story?

I park my 2021 Tesla Model 3 in the driveway, but the only outlet nearby is outside on the other side of the house. Apparently you aren’t supposed to use extension cords to charge. How else can I go about charging at home??

How do men typically feel about their girlfriend or wife hugging other men, such as coworkers?

Does it all really just come down to trust? Is it an automatic deal breaker? Is it all just circumstantial?

Tell me your thoughts.

How does it play? Is there input lag? Would you recommend it for the Steam Deck?

I can’t seem to play the Steam Deck longer than 15 minutes without getting a sore right hand. I don’t have this issue with Dual Sense or Switch Pro Controller. I use a pillow for the Steam Deck so I don’t think it’s the heavier weight. How similar does the Steam Deck and Steam Controller feel for long term play? Do your hands get sore? How does it compare to other controllers?