Bf (m39) booked a vacation for his mom and we all shared a room me (f32)
Yes exactly what the title says, tell me if im wrong or a jerk. But basically my boyfriend works crazy hours and his time off is limited. His mom lives out of state and she is divorced and raised him as a single mom so he feels like he owes her and she also guilts him about traveling without her which is insane to me. So anyways were supposed to be moving and she told him before he moves she wants to visit maine and boston. So he books maine and boston and plans out a trip for a week to drive and spend time there. He didnt really ask me or discuss it with me. He booked one room for all 3 of us for the whole week. Am i crazy for thinking this is too much? Basically i did not give any opinions the whole week it was everything she wanted to do. When i said i felt uncomfortable i was told dont come. And how selfish i am. Now i feel guilty but im definitely torn. The relationship seems enmeshed to me and theres a lack of boundaries. She puts sunscreen on his face shares pieces of pie with him gives him pillows when he lays down and we have no privacy. We been together over two years. I think maybe i am a bad gf.