Bf (m39) booked a vacation for his mom and we all shared a room me (f32)

Yes exactly what the title says, tell me if im wrong or a jerk. But basically my boyfriend works crazy hours and his time off is limited. His mom lives out of state and she is divorced and raised him as a single mom so he feels like he owes her and she also guilts him about traveling without her which is insane to me. So anyways were supposed to be moving and she told him before he moves she wants to visit maine and boston. So he books maine and boston and plans out a trip for a week to drive and spend time there. He didnt really ask me or discuss it with me. He booked one room for all 3 of us for the whole week. Am i crazy for thinking this is too much? Basically i did not give any opinions the whole week it was everything she wanted to do. When i said i felt uncomfortable i was told dont come. And how selfish i am. Now i feel guilty but im definitely torn. The relationship seems enmeshed to me and theres a lack of boundaries. She puts sunscreen on his face shares pieces of pie with him gives him pillows when he lays down and we have no privacy. We been together over two years. I think maybe i am a bad gf.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 4 days ago

Does this disease cause intolerance to thyroid medication?

Hello I have hashimotos and Ive been properly medicated for over 10 years on the same dose same medication until the last few years I have been getting reactions to my thyroid medication that seem like hyperthyroid so I have been trying different medications and every single medication gives me the same reaction panic, anxiety, irritability, uncontrollable crying for no reason, depression, dark thoughts, sometimes weight gain. Ive tried armour, np, levoxyl all splitting the lowest dose possible even alternating days. It becomes intolerable. My tsh is around 6 but can go higher t3 & t4 are normal. My father had hyperparathyroidism and he had emergency surgery I believe when he was in his 30s and I am in my 30s. Ive had fluctuating calcium normal pth. Just curious is this is anyone out there.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 10 days ago

150 mcg is food vs supplements?

How come when I eat 150mcg plus in my food for example seaweed I dont have any reaction but If I take 150mcg in a dropper I get so many side effects? Anxiety goes insane insomnia panic etc for days……

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 13 days ago

Every time I try to take meds it sends me over the edge

Im thinking of asking to get my thyroid removed, I have no quality of life. Every time I try to take meds I get hyper symptoms that are debilitating no point of living like this. You can look back in my old posts this has been forever. I even tried to just take supplements and its like my thyroid just mass produces way too many hormones at once . And its the same symptoms, adrenaline rushing through my body shaking at the base of my skull uncontrollable crying anxiety panic. I even tried to just take some iodine a low dose and it sent me over the edge. What can this be? Anyone? And yes i tried the lowest dose i tried splitting it etc. im so depressed.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 18 days ago

At a loss

I can’t tolerate thyroid meds, tried splitting the lowest dose on levoxyl tried splitting the lowest dose of armour. I feel like it just builds up in my body my chest hurts my heart pounds head pressure anxiety. I give up im so emotionally drained this is ruining my life. This has been on going for more than two years. My ferritin is low and i am working on it taking 60 mg every other day. Can anyone recommend something? Thanks

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 2 months ago

Cefadroxil hell

I want to share my experience so that someone who has this issue knows its from the antibiotics & maybe it will help. I had to take an antibiotic for surgery precautionary. I took 500 mg 2x a day for 4 days. At first I had issues falling asleep but i chalked it up to discomfort from my surgery/ anesthesia. Well that lasted 3 days. I could not fall asleep no matter what and I never had that issue before in my life. I wasnt taking anything else besides tylenol by this time. I was having crying spells randomly and the worst headache of my LIFE. It was a throbbing fire pain that was pressure in the back of my head that was a 7/10. Not only that but my whole body was vibrating from the base of my beck into my head and it was visible in my hands. Why? Because cefadroxil revs up your central nervous system. I think if it got any worse I would have went to the ER. I was icing my head crying and tylenol would not touch this headache at all! Alarming. Then not connecting the dots I took another pill late at night. That sent me into over drive & I figured it out shortly after. I became restless and wired within 1 hour. I was rocking back and forth and could not sit in one spot but in my mind I wanted to go to sleep. When I wanted to go to sleep I would lay down and close my eyes drift off then jolt back awake. There was zero sleep in sight. The anxiety depression and panic creeped in. It was a horrible experience while trying to heal from surgery. Im still dealing with the side effects I started a probiotic daily and drinking a lot of liquids to flush my body. When i told the dr that this medication did this to me he said no way and brushed it off. But yes it does it is listed as a side affect so do your research insomnia is a side affect of many antibiotics. Most drs dont know the side effects they just write the script. Its been crazy and im still not great but i hope this helps someone looking for answers.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 2 months ago

Rhinoplasty recovery HELL

Wow no one told me it was going to be like this. Wow wow wow. Excuse my rant, but wtf! Everyone told me oh youll be fine just take tylenol! Oh um NO! Im on day 5 and my head and body are still throbbing i just can barely speak and i have not slept. Oh also i cant go bathroom because of the drugs! The dr told me to stop taking the medication because it was making me loopy…. Which it was. He told me to stick to tylenol every 4 hours. It feels like i have the flu i can not breathe out of my nose AT ALL im so imflamed and nothing really helps. I wish i would have known but this is the most difficult thing i have ever gone through. My head feel like it can explode and my nose just leaks and leaks, yes i spoke to the dr he basically told me its all going to be ok! Yipeeeee im losing it i have not slept but in so tired plz help LOL.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 2 months ago
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Is 25 mg enough?

Ferritin was a 9, took 25mg of thorne for 2 months it got up to a 20….. is my dose enough? Im 32 130 lbs. i suffer from heavy periods and hashimotos.

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 3 months ago

Overmedicated still stopped taking meds 16 days ago!

Chest pain and tightness after working out & eating im so freaking tired as well. Sensitive to caffeine. Heart has been just pounding. This sucks really bad does anyone know when this is going to get better?? I was taking too much armour thyroid ;(

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 3 months ago

What is this?

I just mopped the floors cleaned the bathroom. The apartment smells like chemicals so i opened the doors & windows to air out the apartment. Boyfriend comes home says hello wow its cold in here! I said yes i just mopped the floors so it stinks just leave the doors open for a few minutes. Right away he gets annoyed & sits on the couch in his DIRTY SCRUBS on purpose! I said what are you doing?! He goes well its cold in here and you wont shut the door! Literally 5 minutes? Im so confused on this behavior! Then he says i cleaned when it was inconvenient for him & i should have cleaned another time?! This is a true story& i cant believe this is my life right now! Also its 65 degrees outside!

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 3 months ago
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Has anyone increased their dose before the 6 week mark bc they feel so sick?

Hey have any of you actually called your dr and asked for an increase before the 6 week mark? I had to i started off on a really low dose to begin with 15 mg of armour because im sensitive then i went to 30 and then i called after two weeks and asked for a slight increase to 45mg. I did blood work just to play it safe my tsh went from a 9 to 6.83 my t3 and t4 were in range but very low. Im just paranoid but i literally can not function i lay on the couch all day sleeping!

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u/Unfair_Bag4440 — 3 months ago