I feel as if no one believes me in my own family even though I've never given them a reason not to.
Hey, y'all!
It all started when I started dating this wealthy successful lawyer, my family didn't like him and automatically started leaving me out on things then the cold sore happened and it's just so much.
2 months ago, I had a cold sore which healed after 5 days with ointment prescribed by the doctor. At that time, I asked my doctor about it which he responded that a cold sore is just a temporary thing and once it heals, life can go back to normal.
Anyways, my family avoided me during my cold sore (understandable) AND AFTER my cold sore...
I told my family about what my doctor said and they told me to get proof. So I went back to him to get a pee sample.
The results came back and said nothing about my cold sore. My family read it and told me to go back to get the HSV-1 Antibodies.
I went back to my doctor to ask him but he said there's no reason to get it since a cold sore herpes is absolutely harmless when I don't have an active cold sore.
I went home to explain the situation to my family which they told me to get another doctor.
Anyways, I ended up going to a walk-in doctor and he answered all of my questions, a different doctor from a different clinic said the exact same thing as my primary doctor. This doctor even printed out an information sheet and stamped it with his name and number on it. I gave it to my sister but she refuses to believe me and everyone still treats me like "The Plague".
Once again, I went to another doctor within the same walk-in clinic where he finally gave me a form to take the HSV-1 blood test and I'm still waiting for my results.
I asked him the exact same questions as the other doctors and they all have said the exact same thing.
Meanwhile, my sister also went to her doctor to ask about it and she claims that her doctor tells her that my disease is highly contagious.
My boyfriend got me this really nice $3k 18k white gold diamond necklace and I was so happy and grateful that I showed it to my sisters and they immediately said it was fake and not worth $3k. Then they kept pushing me to get it checked out with a jeweler, eventually I did and then my second sister goes "Just because he didn't lie this time, doesn't mean he won't lie next time." Which obviously really hurt me.
Then my boyfriend and I got into a fight one day and he showed up at my house with flowers, apologizing and asking for forgiveness... I told my sisters and they went "Apologies don't matter if he doesn't give you a briefcase of cash."
After the cold sore incident, I was so over it and messaged my sister, explaining how mad and frustrated I am. Then I said I would rather grow old alone because I genuinely don't feel respected by them.
A couple days later, I apologize as I feel like I shouldn't have said that and she goes "I'm still deeply hurt by what you said."
But I'm also very hurt because how does no one believe me but EVERYONE believes everything my second sister says?
Now I don't know what to do. Now I'm really sad:( feeling so unwanted and as if I'm the one being insensitive... What do y'all think of this situation? What do I do?