u/Unlucky_152

Hey, y'all!

I've been meaning to go to the gym! I used to be a competitive swimmer and now I want to get back into swimming!

I'm seriously considering the LA Fitness membership for the pool, hot tub, sauna and free classes since I also love Pilates and aquafit which I used to do but then I stopped due to work.

I went to the one at Don Mills the other day and the water was nasty. The one at Don Mills, doesn't have a hot tub or a sauna but it was closest to my boyfriend which I wanted to make it a fun little thing with him.

I'm not sure if it's just the Donmills one that's nasty or all of them are like that. (I live in Ontario)

What are your honest opinions on LA FITNESS? Is it worth it?

Hey, y'all.

I'm wondering if anyone have any good therapists suggestions in Toronto, with a budget of maximum $150!

I've been thinking about online therapy sites such as Onlinetherapy.com and Betterhelp but I hear those places don't attract the best therapists and I'm willing to go in person!

English is fine with me but my comfort language is Cantonese so both English and Cantonese suggestions would be amazing!

Thank you!

Hey, y'all!

I lowkey don't know what to do because I feel like my boyfriend often prioritizes his family and I feel like I'm the third wheel when he takes his mom with us. He used to take his mom with us EVERY date then I called him out and he was very understanding and stopped bringing his mom with us.

Then his sister INSISTED he bring his mom with us when we went shopping over the weekend but luckily he stood his ground because I expressed that I wanted the shopping to be a date.

The other day, we went shopping and he brought me this really beautiful Kate Spade purse, I loved it so much then he bought his mom the exact same purse which I tried to let it go as I thought maybe I'm just being sensitive. Another time, we go shopping AGAIN and he buys me this really cute red Victoria Secret Robe with "VS" on the chest area, he WANTED to buy the exact same one for his mom OR sister again and I finally couldn't ignore it and expressed that I really don't like that he's buying the exact same stuff for his family and he was very understanding and didn't end up buying the robe.

Like I really like him and we're getting serious. So far both of us have been pretty calm and mature in communication and I have to say "I want this to be a date thing" every single time. The MOMENT I don't say it, he invites his mom.

On Canada Day, I suggested we go to a massage since we've both had a long week and he agreed. Then invited his mom who didn't end up going because she said she's too tired.

l've expressed how I don't feel prioritized many times and he respects that and reassures me that I am prioritized but his actions says otherwise.

Sometime he would invite me over and I would just be in his bedroom for like an hour by myself while he interacts with his family.

We were doing physical intimacy once and his sister called in the middle of it and then he immediately dropped everything to go downstairs to talk to her and left me naked on his bed for almost an hour.

His mom also calls him like 50 times a day whether we're out or at home when he locks his door to give us some privacy. I don't know how to express my annoyance to his family. And he picks up every single time. I would personally express to my mom to stop calling me so often when I'm on a date if it ever happened to me but my mom knows better than to do that.

At first, I found it cute how caring and loving he is as a son but now after a while, it just feels suffocating.

I'm sorry if I'm overwhelming you with my feelings but I feel SO MUCH BETTER! Getting that out of my system!
In no way am I trying to talk bad about them but | just really needed to get that out of my chest.

What do I do? Will it ever stop? Or like what's up with that?

Hey, y'all!

It all started when I started dating this wealthy successful lawyer, my family didn't like him and automatically started leaving me out on things then the cold sore happened and it's just so much.

2 months ago, I had a cold sore which healed after 5 days with ointment prescribed by the doctor. At that time, I asked my doctor about it which he responded that a cold sore is just a temporary thing and once it heals, life can go back to normal.

Anyways, my family avoided me during my cold sore (understandable) AND AFTER my cold sore...

I told my family about what my doctor said and they told me to get proof. So I went back to him to get a pee sample.

The results came back and said nothing about my cold sore. My family read it and told me to go back to get the HSV-1 Antibodies.

I went back to my doctor to ask him but he said there's no reason to get it since a cold sore herpes is absolutely harmless when I don't have an active cold sore.

I went home to explain the situation to my family which they told me to get another doctor.

Anyways, I ended up going to a walk-in doctor and he answered all of my questions, a different doctor from a different clinic said the exact same thing as my primary doctor. This doctor even printed out an information sheet and stamped it with his name and number on it. I gave it to my sister but she refuses to believe me and everyone still treats me like "The Plague".

Once again, I went to another doctor within the same walk-in clinic where he finally gave me a form to take the HSV-1 blood test and I'm still waiting for my results.

I asked him the exact same questions as the other doctors and they all have said the exact same thing.

Meanwhile, my sister also went to her doctor to ask about it and she claims that her doctor tells her that my disease is highly contagious.

My boyfriend got me this really nice $3k 18k white gold diamond necklace and I was so happy and grateful that I showed it to my sisters and they immediately said it was fake and not worth $3k. Then they kept pushing me to get it checked out with a jeweler, eventually I did and then my second sister goes "Just because he didn't lie this time, doesn't mean he won't lie next time." Which obviously really hurt me.

Then my boyfriend and I got into a fight one day and he showed up at my house with flowers, apologizing and asking for forgiveness... I told my sisters and they went "Apologies don't matter if he doesn't give you a briefcase of cash."

After the cold sore incident, I was so over it and messaged my sister, explaining how mad and frustrated I am. Then I said I would rather grow old alone because I genuinely don't feel respected by them.

A couple days later, I apologize as I feel like I shouldn't have said that and she goes "I'm still deeply hurt by what you said."

But I'm also very hurt because how does no one believe me but EVERYONE believes everything my second sister says?

Now I don't know what to do. Now I'm really sad:( feeling so unwanted and as if I'm the one being insensitive... What do y'all think of this situation? What do I do?

Hey, y'all!

It all started when I started dating this wealthy successful lawyer, my family didn't like him and automatically started leaving me out on things then the cold sore happened and it's just so much.

2 months ago, I had a cold sore which healed after 5 days with ointment prescribed by the doctor. At that time, I asked my doctor about it which he responded that a cold sore is just a temporary thing and once it heals, life can go back to normal.

Anyways, my family avoided me during my cold sore (understandable) AND AFTER my cold sore...

I told my family about what my doctor said and they told me to get proof. So I went back to him to get a pee sample.

The results came back and said nothing about my cold sore. My family read it and told me to go back to get the HSV-1 Antibodies.

I went back to my doctor to ask him but he said there's no reason to get it since a cold sore herpes is absolutely harmless when I don't have an active cold sore.

I went home to explain the situation to my family which they told me to get another doctor.

Anyways, I ended up going to a walk-in doctor and he answered all of my questions, a different doctor from a different clinic said the exact same thing as my primary doctor. This doctor even printed out an information sheet and stamped it with his name and number on it. I gave it to my sister but she refuses to believe me and everyone still treats me like "The Plague".

Once again, I went to another doctor within the same walk-in clinic where he finally gave me a form to take the HSV-1 blood test and I'm still waiting for my results.

I asked him the exact same questions as the other doctors and they all have said the exact same thing.

Meanwhile, my sister also went to her doctor to ask about it and she claims that her doctor tells her that my disease is highly contagious.

My boyfriend got me this really nice $3k 18k white gold diamond necklace and I was so happy and grateful that I showed it to my sisters and they immediately said it was fake and not worth $3k. Then they kept pushing me to get it checked out with a jeweler, eventually I did and then my second sister goes "Just because he didn't lie this time, doesn't mean he won't lie next time." Which obviously really hurt me.

Then my boyfriend and I got into a fight one day and he showed up at my house with flowers, apologizing and asking for forgiveness... I told my sisters and they went "Apologies don't matter if he doesn't give you a briefcase of cash."

After the cold sore incident, I was so over it and messaged my sister, explaining how mad and frustrated I am. Then I said I would rather grow old alone because I genuinely don't feel respected by them.

A couple days later, I apologize as I feel like I shouldn't have said that and she goes "I'm still deeply hurt by what you said."

But I'm also very hurt because how does no one believe me but EVERYONE believes everything my second sister says?

Now I don't know what to do. Now I'm really sad:( feeling so unwanted and as if I'm the one being insensitive... What do y'all think of this situation? What do I do?

Hey, y'all!

2 months ago, I had a cold sore which healed after 5 days with ointment prescribed by the doctor. At that time, I asked my doctor about it which he responded that a cold sore is just a temporary thing and once it heals, life can go back to normal.

Anyways, my family avoided me during my cold sore (understandable) AND AFTER my cold sore...

I told my family about what my doctor said and they told me to get proof. So I went back to him to get a pee sample.

The results came back and said nothing about my cold sore. My family read it and told me to go back to get the HSV-1 Antibodies.

I went back to my doctor to ask him but he said there's no reason to get it since a cold sore herpes is absolutely harmless when I don't have an active cold sore.

I went home to explain the situation to my family which they told me to get another doctor.

Anyways, I ended up going to a walk-in doctor and he answered all of my questions, a different doctor from a different clinic said the exact same thing as my primary doctor. This doctor even printed out an information sheet and stamped it with his name and number on it. I gave it to my sister but she refuses to believe me and everyone still treats me like "The Plague".

Once again, I went to another doctor within the same walk-in clinic where he finally gave me a form to take the HSV-1 blood test and I'm still waiting for my results.

I asked him the exact same questions as the other doctors and they all have said the exact same thing.

Meanwhile, my sister also went to her doctor to ask about it and she claims that her doctor tells her that my disease is highly contagious.

Now I don't know what to do. Now I'm really sad:( feeling so unwanted and as if I'm the one being insensitive... What do y'all think of this situation?

Hey, y'all.

So Heidi sent me the photos of my order and requested that I pay the rest of the money.

So I chose the PayPal goods and services but then Heidi said she only accepts friends and family.

I find that so suspicious since I've never bought from her before so I don't know if that's just how she does things.

Also I've sent her phone number on here to ask if it was her legit number and everyone said yes. So I trust that I'm using the correct contact information.

Hey, y'all!

Last night I paid $50 for my very first replica, and then when Heidi receives my order, I will pay the rest of the full price.

Just to make sure, this is Heidi's real contact info right? I know I should've asked before I paid but I got excited.

+44 7355 778792

And also is it safe to give my home address to Heidi for the order? I've never done this before and I'm wondering if there's any other way I can ensure my own safety for future references❤️