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After i told my boyfriend i got raped, he told me he did too. Hes never gone into detail about it, but i always had a slight gut feeling he was lying. I never brought this up because the worst thing to do is tell a rape victim they are lying. Today I asked about his “rapist” and he was giving very vague answers about details about her, he told me he was 14/15 at the time and she was 18/19. I then asked if it happened. Hes lied about things in the past so i had to ask if this rape stuff was true. I told him that i wasnt saying i don’t believe him but i just wanted to make sure as i find it difficult to trust people. He spent 40 mins writing a response telling me that it never happened. He said that he made it up to support me with my trauma from when i got raped by my ex. Im so angry and upset and i just really need advice on how to move forward with this.

I was at the bus stop in my local town, all of the sudden there was a group of 8 boys around age 20 appeared at the bus stop too.
I am a 17 year old female and I was with my boyfriend who is also 17.
I was wearing a bathory band t shirt which has an inverted pentagram at the back of the shirt with camo trousers. ( my boyfriend was wearing a black hoodie and black joggers ).
First they started woofing and making dog sounds, then they started calling me a satinist.
I didn’t do anything I had my back to them the whole time they were saying stuff.

Why do people do this to people? And where did it come from? I’m so confused as me and my boyfriend were just chilling at the bus stop with our backs towards them.

Hi,
I was raped by my ex partner of 3 years when we were both 15 years old in England.

What he did to me was non consensual, and he did it out of nowhere whilst I was getting changed.
I haven’t had to confidence to report what he did to me, and I don’t even know if what he did counts as a criminal offence as we were under 16/18 years of age.

I am 17 now, and what he did to me has affected my mental health completely. Hes apologised for what he did to me, but he did lots of other non consensual things to me as well, for example he always put his hands up my t shirt and touch my boobs. He would finger me without my consent, he even did this when I was asleep then later gas light me into thinking I was dreaming and he said ‘it never happened’ later he admitted to that he was lying and he did actually finger me.

I want to know if I do report him, will the police actually do anything? Or would I go through all the stress of explaining what he did to me for nothing.

I went swimming on Monday with my friends ( F17), after swimming my ear felt blocked and muffled. The next day pain in my ear started and the pain seems to have gotten worse since then.

I went to the doctor today and didn’t give me any advice what so ever and he just said it may get worse before it gets better.

I have had pain killers all week and when it wears off it hurts so bad.

It gives a really nasty pressure feeling when I eat or burp and sometimes it’s making me feel dizzy.
I can just about hear out of my left ear.

I’m not sure what to do as I am finding it difficult to sleep at night too due to the pain.

Do I need to speak to a different doctor as I don’t want my ear getting worse.