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I swear my hair was shinier, I weighed less, my skin was better, my whole complexion looks bad now. I feel and look like a swamp witch most days. I don’t know how my husband is attracted to me 😂 Bless his poor heart. I am just waiting and hoping for one day for my energy to come back and my will to care to improve for me to change and go back to how I was before. For context, I am 4 months pp and feel like it’s been forever. Sigh.

I swear my hair was shinier, I weighed less, my skin was better, my whole complexion looks bad now. I feel and look like a swamp witch most days. I don’t know how my husband is attracted to me 😂 Bless his poor heart. I am just waiting and hoping for one day for my energy to come back and my will to care to improve for me to change and go back to how I was before. For context, I am 4 months pp and feel like it’s been forever. Sigh.

I usually check on Zillow just to see how much they’re selling it for and am sometimes shocked at how underpriced or how over priced they are!

We only have sex when he wants to and if I’m too tired he tries to get me in the mood. But yesterday I wanted to have sex but he went to bed early because he was too tired. To be fair, he does work a hard labor job in a shipyard so he is tired. But usually it always happens when I want to have sex he’s too exhausted — coincidentally. I know he’ll want to have sex today and I’m thinking of giving him a dose of his own medicine and saying I’m too tired to have sex.

Am I overreacting? I know I need to have a conversation with him and I’m planning to but first I want to be petty and make him feel what I feel and leave him hanging.

I swear my husband forgets it all the time and I gave him a Tile thing to help his forgetfulness but it’s just annoying— are all men like this??

My husband is 30 and I’m 38, it’s the best relationship we’ve had so far. We don’t really argue, just discuss things, raising our newborn is even better than I imagined or maybe we just lucked out with a baby who is chill and sleeps all night lol but so far it’s great.

How’s it going for you so far?