u/Virtual-Cress-8740

Post avoidant discard

I just had a quick questions for avoidants lol
So after being discarded I’d say now I’m very close to being fully healed and feel very free , as soon as it happened I took it upon myself to remove them from all my socials.
My question is how does the avoidant respond to that , does it hurt him or does he not care
This is just out of curiosity and maybe because I can’t understand that someone just suddenly switches from lovey dovey to being cold ( what a scary characteristic tbh)

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u/Virtual-Cress-8740 — 22 hours ago

Post discard

I just had a quick questions for avoidants lol
So after being discarded I’d say now I’m very close to being fully healed and feel very free , as soon as it happened I took it upon myself to remove them from all my socials.
My question is how does the avoidant respond to that , does it hurt him or does he not care
This is just out of curiosity and maybe because I can’t understand that someone just suddenly switches from lovey dovey to being cold ( what a scary characteristic tbh)

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u/Virtual-Cress-8740 — 23 hours ago

No one ever came back …

They always come back ?

This phrase has never been proven right for me in nearly all my relationships.
And I think it’s something to do with me and how I deal with it, as much as I try to convince myself it’s a good thing I’m afraid it could be a bad thing.
What does it mean that no ex has ever come back ?

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u/Virtual-Cress-8740 — 3 days ago

No one has ever come back …

That’s phrase has never been proven right for me in nearly all my relationships.
And I think it’s something to do with me and how I deal with it, as much as I try to convince myself it’s a good thing I’m afraid it could be a bad thing.
What does it mean that no ex has ever come back ?

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u/Virtual-Cress-8740 — 3 days ago