Tried to get methelyne blue out of apartment carpet, stain remover left me with this... how do I go about getting rid of it?? 😭😭
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Tried to get methelyne blue out of apartment carpet, stain remover left me with this... how do I go about getting rid of it?? 😭😭

Hey all,

I promise I'm not some granola health nut that's drinking straight methelyne blue, it's also a medicine for frogs and my pet frog has a skin infection so I've been using it for him. Got a miniscule spot on the carpet and tried looking up removals for MB as it stains everything it touches, tried a few at home pantry remedies that didn't work but also didn't make it significantly worse. Tried Folex next and an hour later saw this 😭😭 Should I just take the L on the security deposit or is there something I can do to fix this?? I've tried pet stain remover as a cope and it gets a little bit of the yellow out, so I don't think it's a permanent dye change situation, but nothing I try really gets it out entirely. This is such a comedic wreck it looks like straight cat piss and it's stressing me out LMFAO.

Thank you all in advance for any advice yall can give, I really appreciate it 😭😭

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 day ago

I caught her digging with all her little hands 😭😭😭

She froze up like I was catching her sneaking out of the house lolol

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 26 days ago

[Acne] One zit looking/feeling worse than usual (infected?); how to take care of it from here?

To preface this I have dermatillomania mostly in remission but unfortunately this stubborn... whatever the hell this is made me break my streak, which almost certainly didn't help :')

Started out as a small pimple on my neck (as these stories always start), tried popping and got nothing major, threw a patch on it overnight. Let it breathe for a day, put a patch on it overnight again, and when I woke up it was majorly sensitive to touch and way more inflamed and irritated than my skin usually reacts to pimples. It's hard to capture on camera but it's about the size of a nickel, which is also significantly bigger than what I've had in the past. I've never had one this angry and sensitive so I'm not quite sure where to go from here; of course I'm not fucking with it anymore but is there anything I can do to clear it up / have it heal easier or faster?

Thanks yall!

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

Got this tattoo and came back to a door in my apartment I didn't recognize, I'm sure that means nothing though

(the "you" is crooked bc i was crooking my wrist weird i promise lol)

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

After our fiasco yesterday, I bribed her with a treat; I think she forgives me

(She was skinny so it was time to feed her anyways; I promise I'm not an irresponsible parent!)

I had a horrible experience with Thrive coco fiber substrate yesterday. I had to do an emergency change for my girl because her original substrate grew mold from the humidity / heat wave our state is going through. Went to PetSmart for a bag, got her set up again, all good... until about 5 minutes after we settle I realize this Thrive substrate smells like something genuinely fucking died in it. Like rotting, sour milk type of reeks. I had to go out again and get another (DIFFERENT BRAND) bag of substrate, and get her moved again! It was so bad I was genuinely considering my options for a DKS route because I was concerned something had either died or a freak chemical had rotted the bag from the inside out. I know substrate doesn't smell the best because it's literal dirt but I have never in my 7+ years of keeping amphibians had a coco fiber substrate smell like that. Luckily we're well past the 24 hour mark I think and she's happy as a clam, so we're pretty out of the woods for some type of poisoning concern if I'm not mistaken.

Despite me bothering her twenty thousand times yesterday she was very patient throughout it all. I think she accepts my apology.

Also edit: She does not have a heat lamp, she's just somewhat near a window (with blinds as to not overheat her!) and this was taken mid afternoon so she had good natural lighting for her photoshoot ✨

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

"Thrive" Substrate; what happened here??

Hey yall!

Literally just posted about redoing my girl's home because her substrate started growing mineral crystals from the moisture (my state's going through a wicked heat/humidity wave). Got a bag of PetSmart's "Thrive" Coco fiber substrate. Got her rehomed and everything, great... but literally minutes after I get her set up this substrate fucking reeks. I don't know if it was just the substrate being exposed to air or what, but it literally smells like sour milk and dirt. I was so freaked out that there'd be some wicked chemical in it that'd give her DKS I immediately went out and bought a bag of a different brand.

I've had amphibians for years and know what a bag of coco substrate smells like. It's not going to be scent less because it's dirt but this shit was literally sour. I'm kicking myself in the ass for even putting her in it.

I think she's forgiven me for moving her twice in a day, but she refused to even touch the Thrive shit. She was in contact with it for under an hour, is DKS something I'd need to look out for? The substrate itself seemed fine but I cannot fucking get over that smell dude, it literally smelled rotten!

Anyways, there's my PSA I guess. Has anybody else had that happen with Thrive or am I just like stupidly unlucky?

Edit for more context: For what it's worth, she was moving completely normally when I moved her again and she's actively walking around on the EcoEarth I got. Not the fanciest I know, but I just wanted something clean that didn't smell like a rotting dairy farm. The more and more time goes by the more I worry about DKS. I cleaned the tank itself plus all her hides inside, so there's nothing in the tank that should have brung anything over. I hope I'm just being paranoid 😭

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

Had to do an emergency substrate change; my daughter is so well behaved

Had to get new substrate because I noticed her pacing on the walls more than usual, and when I looked closer I saw little mineral crystals in her dirt! Nothing poisonous/actual mold thankfully but still meant her dirt was a little bit more on the soupy side because of this wicked heat/humidity wave my state's going through. She only kicked hairs once and didn't even come close to bolting :) She's still pissed right now but the pacing has already stopped and there's no more fogging of the substrate, which is good enough for me (she'll forgive me later lol). Does anybody have any tips for keeping substrate dry in a stuffy apartment? Would maybe a dehumidifier help? Our walls are made out of this crazy concrete shit so it holds moisture like a motherfucker. She's got cross ventilation and I have a fan going (not directly on her but in her general vicinity) and I have a window cracked for cross breeze. I also switched out the former wood hide she had as it was damp and replaced it with a glass mason jar that I cushioned with some substrate so there's no risk of that growing anything on it.

Everybody thank her for not eating me!

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

Skating again after a vertebre fracture; has anybody bounced back after?

Hey yall! Was going to post this in the main skating sub but I don't think this would fit quite as well, so I'm here now lol.

I will say I'm not new to skating as a whole. Never been really good (more of a vert skater, but still never dropped in and never got my ollies on lock even lmfao), but I've been skating since I was about 14 and I'm 21 now.

I've always had vague, achey back pain since I can remember but 17-18 I "tweaked my back" at the gym and I've been getting lumbar spasms, pain, sciatica, the whole 9 yards since. Knocked me off my board until somewhat recently, where on a good pain day I tried skating again (about two months ish ago?) and I genuinely couldn't walk for like three days after the pain and stiffness was so severe. Got an X-ray last week at the request of my primary care physician and they discovered a hairline fracture in my L5. Going in for an MRI soon to see the whole extent, how old it is, how far it goes, etc.

My question is, is this like... game over completely? Have any of yall recovered from something similar and gotten back on the board? I was seeing a PT for a while and loved it but insurance would only help for like three sessions, and even with insurance help that shit was like $300 a session and I have rent to pay lmfao. My running theory is the "back tweak" a few years ago was probably the final straw so to speak but I just kept brushing it off as my normal back pain and couldn't pay attention to it the way I should've because it's just so expensive to do anything besides like a basic checkup.

I miss my board so bad! I literally live across the street from the biggest skatepark in our state because me and some buddies are in an apartment in the heart of our downtown and it genuinely makes me so sad I can't be out there every night like I used to be. I think I'm going to have to build my skills up from scratch if I ever get back on, which isn't necessarily what bothers me. It's knowing I'm in like my peak skating age right now and I still can't do it lol.

Half rant, half question. Thanks for reading this far if you did. Yall have any back stretches you guys really like pre-skate sesh? 😭

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 1 month ago

First X-Ray ever; found this curve + a potential old L5 fracture

Went in today and was told this didn't even break the angle for scoliosis diagnosis. While I'm glad, I still have pain that I now think is almost disproportionate to how minor this looks on the x-ray. The muscles underneath my shoulder blades constantly feel like they're on fire and I have a really noticable curve when standing at my natural position. They also found what might be an old, healed L5 fracture (they called it a Pars fracture), and I have to go in for an MRI for that confirmation.

I'm just conflicted. Super happy that my PCP told me it should be manageable with just physical therapy, but also feeling a little stupid because I genuinely am in a lot of pain from it and it seems so insignificant now. Although I guess it is good to know I wasn't making it up entirely lol. The fracture caught me off guard though... I didn't save the photo and the displays only work on laptop, but it is a pretty straight solid dark line in the middle of my L5 lmfao. Crazy shit

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 2 months ago

She hates my fan and she wants me to know it

Started scaling her walls (with what little space she has) and only stops once I turn it off and then she's fine and goes back to chilling like she always does. Girl we are in a historic heatwave I cannot afford to have my fan off lest I want to wake up with the most major swamp ass of all time. The things I do for this spoiled little freak

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 2 months ago

What's a way you guys make your daily life a little more Jewish?

Hey yall!

I've been stupid busy with EMT school and full time work lately and I've been craving more Jewish religiosity and spirituality in my day to day life. I've been wanting to get in the habit of at least my morning prayers and bedtime Shema (my Rabbi's "prayer prescription" lol) but I feel like I want a little more on top of that. I also have a vague interest in Kabbalah study but I feel like that's so over my head... I feel like it's so overwhelming to even start 😭

I could hypothetically just Google this yes, but I want to gather ideas from people who hold similar values to mine lol. What's your guys' favorite small but significant way to make your day a little more Jewish?

Thanks! :D

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 2 months ago

Hit 7mm - lobes looking good?

Hey yall! Recently went up to 7mm with half-size dead stretching glass plugs and wasn't sure if the appearance while naked is to be expected with a fresh stretch or signs of dreaded "cat butt". I wait 2+ months with every stretch, and with these bigger sizes I find erring towards 2 and a half - 3 months works best. I do daily jojoba massages (except for the first few days of a new stretch because I find that jojoba stings a fresh stretch) and have exclusively used glass dead stretching plugs for all my stretches except for my first few small gauges which were from a Spencer's taper kit (I learned my lesson I promise! I cut that shit out quick lol).

Just took these photos today (after about 10 mins of naked time post-workout) and I'm like 5 days out from my stretch I think, so I definitely don't think they're healed or anything. Just want to make sure the journey looks fine so far! My current goal is 10mm but I assume that will probably change in the future lol.

Thanks yall!

Edit for clarification: I didn't have any pain or upsets while stretching either, I love my half size plugs they go in like butter lol. I just see so many blowouts and tears on here I want to make sure I'm not doing the same lol 😭

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 2 months ago

Good to feed after molt?

hey yall!

My baby girl just recently molted with me for the first time and I'm unsure of the timeline for feeding post-molt for sub adults. I attached photos of her fangs and they look pretty blackened to me, but I just wanted to make sure I wasn't jumping the gun. She's so skinny post-molt, I feel bad making her wait for her next meal lol!

thanks yall!

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago

How long to change jewelry after minor (unrelated to stretching) mishap?

Hey yall!

I've been dead stretching for well over a year and like to think I've done pretty well, been doing .5 stretches with glass plugs and they've treated my ears great. Currently stretched to 6.5mm and been there for a good amount of time since I had to stop my stretching journey for EMT school. I haven't had any pain/blowouts etc and I like to think my lobes look pretty healthy. Daily jojoba massages and naked time, currently trying to taper up to sleeping with plugs out all night but my body likes to close piercings stupidly fast so I'm taking that very cautiously lol.

I was putting in 2g/6mm saddle flare glass plugs in after shower naked time (wanted to size up slightly above to get the flares in) had my elbows on the edge of my bathroom counter like an idiot and they slipped, so I ended up snagging my lobe kind of roughly (spotty bleeding for a handful of seconds but no severe blowout / tearing or anything). The thing that sucks is I know for a fact it's not the size that did it because I had actually been wearing these for multiple days at that point and they had gone in just fine with no pain or snags! And the plugs are cute too 😭

I immediately put my normal dead stretching glass plugs back in and haven't messed with it since unless it's been to take my jewelry out in the shower for naked time, and even then I stayed away from that for the first few days to really give it time to settle. It's already at the point where it's not red or sensitive to the touch, but I still don't want to go trying to shove double flares in there a week from now or anything. What would a timeline for this look like for you guys? I was thinking at least a month, probably two before I start trying to mess with new jewelry again just to really make sure my lobes are healthy but I don't know if that's overkill or not lol.

Thanks yall!

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago

He kicked dirt in his calcium dish on purpose, hid from me, then only came out when he heard Nine Inch Nails

My child yearns for Trent Reznor

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago
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Potential missed diagnosis as a trans person

Hey yall,

Been dealing with what I now know are incredibly run-of-the-mill iron deficiency symptoms with a ferritin of 23. In my charting app though, it has me "in the green" which is why I never batted an eye at it until I really looked into what numbers meant what as apart of my job. I'm currently a phlebotomist and in EMT school, so of course I love going over specific tests with patients if they have any questions as to what means what, etc.

Not only did I recently discover that there's a push for making the deficiency level equal between sexes, but it only had me "in the green" because I am a trans man (been on T for years, post op, the whole shabang) and the results are still coming back according to the female reference values. Whenever there's a "too high" or "too low" spike in my chart, if you plug those values into what the general consensus is on a cis male patient, I am healthy. I guess it just never crossed my mind it could go the opposite way too.

It sucks because I really do try hard to make sure I'm in shape. I love being active and staying healthy and there have been so many days where the aches and chest pain and dizziness just knock me on my ass and I can't do anything because I was told it was just a Vit. D deficiency or overtraining.

Am I like, overreacting in saying that's a deficiency? Checked everything else too and my binding capacity was borderline high, but my CBC came back all within normal ranges which is what was throwing me for a loop. That paired with a confirmed Vit. D deficiency I'm taking supplements for already (caught by my new PCP, thank god) makes me think I'm barking up the right tree, but is this indicative of an actual condition (in any of yalls' experiences of course), or just weird vitamin deficiencies all making each other worse?

Apologies for the rambling, this is a very new space for me to explore and I'm hoping to maybe start another vitamin supplement to maybe get rid of some of this brain fog and muscle ache. Do you guys have any ferritin/iron supplements you guys like/haven't hated? Preferably ones that won't fuck your stomach up too badly, I deal with that enough already lol

Thanks guys!

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago
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Blue boy Pedro lives on!

Hey guys! Great news!

I posted about 10 days ago concerning a weird bacterial spot on my boys back and was able to squeeze him in a vet appointment after about a week of methelyne blue soaks. Not only has the spot on his back almost completely cleared up at this point, but the vet was able to do a scrape swab of the spot and found no harmful bacteria left! Yay for Pedro!

She said it's looking like the infection itself is gone and the rest is scar tissue that might stick around for a little bit longer, but like I said that's fine with me since it's reduced to literally half a fingernail sized spot on his back. He's been feeding normally, moving well, soaking constantly and recently gave me a great bowel movement to clean up (but I did it anyway bc that means he's healthy).

Pedro says thank you all!

Edit: If you want to see my original post, his symptoms and the initial presentation, you can find it over here if you are concerned you may be dealing with something similar or are just curious. A deep thank you to the two posters who guided me in the right direction in the threads of the post!

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago
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He annoyed me so I'm turning him blue (caption)

Title is a joke I promise lol, despite how it looks this is for his own good. For those that don't know, methelyne blue soaks (INCREDIBLY diluted) have good anti fungal properties in amphibians, especially if it's a minor issue. From the help of users here, I was able to come to the conclusion my boy was probably experiencing a mild fungal infection and I wanted to do him some good while I look for an exotic vet in the area that's not booked months out to take a look at him (live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere Midwest so this is a mission on its own).

Not sure if it's just wishful thinking, but very quickly after I plopped him in he started working on getting the stuck shed I was concerned about off his sides, so I'm optimistic he'll be good as new soon! I'm very fortunate to say he wasn't showing any other symptoms of a severe infection; his appetite and behavior were totally fine, so I'm really thankful I got the advice of you all to point me in the right direction to catch it early on and not let my boy be so uncomfortable!

Despite me banishing him to his evil blue stew he is being a very good sport about it. Everybody say thank you Pedro.

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago
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Redness on bottom of legs and weird spot on back I'm concerned about - vet visit time, right?

Hey all,

Unfortunately discovered some not-so-awesome things on my boy today. I've been keeping an eye on this spot on his back that's been changing color and remaining a little wet compared to the rest of his skin, and when I checked his belly today, there was a bit of redness near his vent. I'm not quite sure what illness this is indicative of, but I know those two are red flag alarms for sure. Anything come to mind for you guys that I should specifically ask the exotic vet about? I'm definitely making a visit soon.

Thank you all greatly, I appreciate any advice yall can give

Edit for clarity:

His name is Pedro and he's around 12 years old. I have dechlorinated water for him constantly and warmth/UVB for him, and I dust his food (dubias) with vitamins and calcium. Feed him every three days or so. The thing that is getting me is that he's had the spot on his back for about two weeks now and he hasn't had any other symptoms - he's been eating totally fine and hasn't been showing any lethargy or spasms or anything of the sort, which is what's throwing me off (I know red leg and similar illnesses kill within a week or show rapid deterioration within that time frame). Does this sound like something that could be taken care of by a vet to you guys?

Edit #2: Upon seeing this post here , I'm pretty confident in saying 1) the same thing is probably going on with my boy and 2) that it should hopefully be easily fixed. I've since deep scrubbed his water dish with Wipe Out and am now letting it air dry before rinsing it with dechlorinated water one more time for good measure before returning it to him. I have been guilty of just refilling his water as opposed to dumping it out entirely as of lately when it's not soiled (the past month or so), which would line up with the timeline. Hoping it's just irritated froggy skin and we see it clear up with his newly cleaned tub!

Edit #3: Found what might be the culprit besides that - a tiny patch of mold was growing in the substrate right in front of his pool as well! Obviously deep cleaned that corner with Wipe Out too and got rid of all the offending material plus a good handful around it just to make extra sure. I'm hopeful these two changes will get him back on the right track especially since he's still hungry and active!

u/VirtualAspect7250 — 3 months ago

What's the market like in Chicago / surrounding areas?

Hey yall!

Starting my EMT-B course and plan to go into an ER Tech position at least to start my EMS education. Me, a friend and my boyfriend were looking at the Chicago and surrounding areas to move to (a year+ in the future, but still somewhat soon I suppose). Figured it would be good to figure out what the EMS scene is like in the city and surrounding before we make a final decision!

Are there any hospital chains I should avoid/have a negative reputation or work environment? Is it super oversaturated? Any info from those from the area/have worked there before would be awesome!

Thanks in advance!

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u/VirtualAspect7250 — 4 months ago