u/Winter_Wave_2327

For context, we're older teens, and we started dating almost a month ago.

She dated one of my old friends for 8 months. I haven't talked to him, but she's told me about how, when they broke up, she was begging for him to take her back.

She also has another ex she dated for 2 years, and before we started dating, she would always tell me how amazing he was and that she still loved him, even over a year after they broke up. When we started getting closer, that ex reached out to me and said she manipulated him for 2 years and that she is "soul sucking."

Right now, though, this relationship seems great. She texts me a lot, almost annoyingly a lot, and she plans a date at least 2–3 times a week. I only have to briefly mention wanting to hang out for her to make a whole plan.

She was really high the other night and was texting me about how she was crying because she thought I'd leave her when we start school because "everyone will love you because you're perfect." Then she sent more texts about how I'm flawless.

It all just seems too good to be true. I mean, she's not the most attractive, but she's pretty, and she seems to really, really love me, more than anyone ever has.

I've also talked to her about having BPD. She told me she was diagnosed at 15 after spending the summer in a mental hospital. She said I have nothing to worry about because I "won't stay when it gets bad" and that she's working on it.

The last person she dated was for 5 months, and then she broke up with them to date me. She always uses the fact that he's asking for her back, and that she didn't manipulate him, as proof that she's not as toxic as she used to be.

I just want reassurance that I can trust this. Like I said, it feels too good to be true.

Kinda a clickbate title but I think he's using me

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Okay so he's asked to kiss me and we have/used to have a very flirty friendship. We have matching pfps (I asked to) and I have no idea if we are dating.

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We went on a date (I thought) today and he asked at the end whether it was a hangout or a date. He asks to kiss and stuff but never actually does.

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I feel like he doesn't actually like me but he doesn't think he's gonna have another girl like him so he's keeping me around

I am SO SO SO confused about whether me and my crush are dating or not. He asked today if we were on a date or hangout and I said yes and he said okay so idkkk but I'm hoping music will help me not overthink.

I am SO SO SO confused about whether me and my crush are dating or not. He asked today if we were on a date or hangout and I said said and he said okay so idkkk but I'm hoping music will help me not overthink.

I am SO SO SO confused about whether me and my crush are dating or not. He asked today if we were on a date or hangout and I said said and he said okay so idkkk but I'm hoping music will help me not overthink.

My gf(15f) is being weirdly private recently me(15f)

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We had a sleepover a few days ago where we did more physical stuff then we've ever done and after she seemed a little different but she continued to make jokes so I thought nothing of it. She's texted me and sent me tiktoks and stuff so I moved on. I asked to hangout tmrw and she wouldn't tell me what she's doing or anything and this is the first time she's ever been so closed off. Normally she's very extraverted and excited and willing to do anything.

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I said "U+ME TMRW" and she said "can't" then I said "why" then she said "I have stuff" and I said "what stuff" and she said "stuff"

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I didn't wanna pry so I asked if she was hanging out with someone and she said yes and who it is is classified.

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I'm worried I made her uncomfortable or something. She said she wanted to be more physical so I thought I was doing what she wanted but maybe this is the end of our relationship. Do you think I'm digging into this too much or is there something I need to do to fix this?

We had a sleepover a few days ago where we did more physical stuff then we've ever done and after she seemed a little different but she continued to make jokes so I thought nothing of it. She's texted me and sent me tiktoks and stuff so I moved on. I asked to hangout tmrw and she wouldn't tell me what she's doing or anything and this is the first time she's ever been so closed off. Normally she's very extraverted and excited and willing to do anything.

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I said "U+ME TMRW" and she said "can't" then I said "why" then she said "I have stuff" and I said "what stuff" and she said "stuff"

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I didn't wanna pry so I asked if she was hanging out with someone and she said yes and who it is is classified.

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I'm worried I made her uncomfortable or something. She said she wanted to be more physical so I thought I was doing what she wanted but maybe this is the end of our relationship. Do you think I'm digging into this too much or is there something I need to do to fix this?

Okay, so I'm a girl, and I've dated girls before. I've kissed girls, and sometimes I even dream about kissing girls. However, I've also done the same with boys. The difference is that when I kiss a boy or get close to a boy, I feel this warm feeling that I don't really get when I'm with a girl.

I love boobs, but I lowkey hate vaginas. I know I have a lot of internalized homophobia from my childhood, so maybe that's why. I also sometimes feel like a gay relationship isn't as "real" as a straight relationship, even though I know that's probably because of how I was raised.

So I met this guy almost double my age at a show and I'm a minor and he's obviously an adult and we've been talking and I really like him and he talks about cracking and stuff but he says it's unrelated to age and stuff but why would you try to crack someone so much younger then you it your an adult if it's not for age yk

I was groomed when I was like 7 and I've kinda been seeking it out in various people since