u/Wonderful-Reporter45

I’d like to buy a bike and I’ve seen a nice one in size 53. But I can’t try it out before I buy it.

I’ve already watched loads of horror films, but I’m always keen to see more. I think most of the horror films I have are American… I’d like to: 1. Make sure I haven’t missed any classics 2. Try and discover some non-American horror films

Thanks in advance to everyone!

I’ve tried not to go on too long or sound too accusatory, so please don’t judge me.

I’m 26 and in the process of ending a relationship.

We’d been building a life together for six years and had been living together for three.

During our relationship, we were both at fault, but in completely different ways. While she lied and manipulated me, I would get angry and often end up insulting her because she drove me so crazy. I even broke furniture (and fractured my hand twice). None of this behaviour was right, but what I don’t understand is how our relationship, which was ‘healthy’ at the start, became toxic...

I suppose an unhealthy routine crept into our relationship...

I’d like to know now how I can weigh up the pros and cons.

She’s someone I love deeply, but she hurts me so much that I no longer know what to think or how to act.

It was my first serious relationship and I don’t know if I want to try again because we share a history and feelings that still exist today, or if I should just learn to move on, telling myself that it’s part of the cycle of life.

To give a bit more context: I’ve gone back to studying this year and the end of the academic year is really tough because I can’t concentrate on my work anymore.

I suppose I’m far from being the first guy in this situation – for those of you who’ve been through this, what helped you move forward with your thinking?

Edit: I posted this on other channels, including the "love" one, and literally 300 people ignored me...

Am I really that much of a loser?? Or was it just the wrong place? Or do people just not care?

Ps: Thank you to everyone who wrote to me. It certainly gave me some relief at the time and stopped me from doing something stupid.

I’ve tried not to go on too long or sound too accusatory, so please don’t judge me.

I’m 26 and in the process of ending a relationship.

We’d been building a life together for six years and had been living together for three.

During our relationship, we were both at fault, but in completely different ways. While she lied and manipulated me, I would get angry and often end up insulting her because she drove me so crazy. I even broke furniture (and fractured my hand twice). None of this behaviour was right, but what I don’t understand is how our relationship, which was ‘healthy’ at the start, became toxic...

I suppose an unhealthy routine crept into our relationship...

I’d like to know now how I can weigh up the pros and cons.

She’s someone I love deeply, but she hurts me so much that I no longer know what to think or how to act.

It was my first serious relationship and I don’t know if I want to try again because we share a history and feelings that still exist today, or if I should just learn to move on, telling myself that it’s part of the cycle of life.

To give a bit more context: I’ve gone back to studying this year and the end of the academic year is really tough because I can’t concentrate on my work anymore.

I suppose I’m far from being the first guy in this situation – for those of you who’ve been through this, what helped you move forward with your thinking?

Edit: I posted this on other channels, including the "love" one, and literally 300 people ignored me...

not to mention all the other channels that didn't accept the post. So Reddit suggested this feed to me

Am I really that much of a loser?? Or was it just the wrong place? Or do people just not care?

I’ve tried not to go on too long or sound too accusatory, so please don’t judge me.

I’m 26 and in the process of ending a relationship.

We’d been building a life together for six years and had been living together for three.

During our relationship, we were both at fault, but in completely different ways. While she lied and manipulated me, I would get angry and often end up insulting her because she drove me so crazy. I even broke furniture (and fractured my hand twice). None of this behaviour was right, but what I don’t understand is how our relationship, which was ‘healthy’ at the start, became toxic...

I suppose an unhealthy routine crept into our relationship...

I’d like to know now how I can weigh up the pros and cons.

She’s someone I love deeply, but she hurts me so much that I no longer know what to think or how to act.

It was my first serious relationship and I don’t know if I want to try again because we share a history and feelings that still exist today, or if I should just learn to move on, telling myself that it’s part of the cycle of life.

To give a bit more context: I’ve gone back to studying this year and the end of the academic year is really tough because I can’t concentrate on my work anymore.

I suppose I’m far from being the first guy in this situation – for those of you who’ve been through this, what helped you move forward with your thinking?