Mary Is Disgusting

Mary Is Disgusting

People crap on Christine, Nicole, Bre, Davina, and the other cast member rightfully so, but I feel like Mary’s actions go unnoticed.

Her behavior towards Chelsea is disgusting.

First of all, she is so discriminatory towards Chelsea. She’s so unconfrontational with everyone but when it comes the Chelsea, a black woman, she has no issue confronting her when other people treated her worse.

Her reaction to the flowers is crazy. They’re just flower but she believes she’s being attacked??? And when Bre sends an invite to Chelsea, Emma, and Chrishell it’s an open invite? So hypocritical.

I hated how she downplayed Chelsea’s struggle with being a single mom during the reunion. Who makes it a competition on which single mom has it harder? The way she acted like Chelsea has no issues because she thought she got financial support from Chelsea’s ex-husband is gross. And Mary isn’t poor!!! She buys designer clothes and Jewelry.

Honestly, Nicole is the worsr, but Mary is a close second. And it’s strongly implied that Mary does WAY MORE drugs that Nicole ever did/does.

Mary, you’re good at real estate, but that’s about it. Do better.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 5 days ago

Health Insurance

Ok, so this is a silly question - but for people who work for MBB, can you tell me what the health benefits are like?

Include things like the co-pays, co-insurance, deductible, OOP max, and out of network coverage.

Just curious because I know the premiums are either $0 or super low and the OOP max is also super low.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 8 days ago
▲ 27 r/Desoxyn

I Took Desoxyn Today and Forgot I Even Took It. That’s How Benign Yet Effective It Is.

So basically I take Desoxyn as needed. Not every day.

Today I took it and I felt sharp yet subtle focus, mood elevation, and pleasure. It was so benign that I did realize those effects were because of Desoxyn.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Desoxyn should be the gold standard for ADHD and an option for treatment resistant depression.

It’s not the evil drug people make it out to be, it’s efficient. I get the same effect from 5-10mg of Desoxyn than 30mg of Dexedrine or Adderall without the jittery, tweaky side effects.

I hope it becomes a standard treatment in the future.

Edit: I forgot to say it’s prescribed onviously

u/Working_Row_8455 — 16 days ago

How Are the New UHC Health Insurance Plans Compared to the Previous BCBS Plans?

As an ex-Northwestern employee, I'm just curious. I was never on the UHC plan as a left before they kicked in but I'm just curious to see how they are.

Apparently they aren't so bad from what I've heard but I know they're not as good as the BCBS plans.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 24 days ago

This Show Is Amazing

I LOVE this show. It's right behind WandaVision in terms of quality.

It has so much emotional depth yet is humorous and funny. It's beyond creative. Lilia’s story is the highlight for me: discovering that she experiences her life out of order turns seemingly random moments into something heartbreaking and beautifully connected. Watching her finally understand her gift, find belonging in her coven, and choose to save them makes her final episode hit incredibly hard.

Agatha herself is also such a compelling lead because she occupies this uncomfortable space between villain and antihero. She’s manipulative, selfish, and capable of real cruelty, but her grief and attachment to Billy reveal a humanity that makes her difficult to dismiss.

Her choice to save him matters without erasing the terrible things she’s done. The inventive storytelling, messy characters, and emotional payoff makes the show stick with me.

I also LOVE the queer representation in the show. Go Marvel!

u/Working_Row_8455 — 25 days ago

What Are Some Psychiatrists/Psychiatric Clinics That Treat Extremely Treatment Resistant Cases of Depression?

I've tried over 50 medications, rTMS, dTMS, ECT, ketamine, and neurofeedback with no results and just want to know if you knew of anyone who could potentially treat me?

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 25 days ago

My Final Verdict on Akito: I'm Neutral

Ok, so I’ve posted several times about Akito.

At first I hated her, viscerally.

Then I saw where her behavior came from.

And now I’m neutral in the sense that I don’t necessarily care about her and I believe her outcome is a form of atonement and punishment.

She abused people, tried to kill people, and said so many horrific things. But she’s a victim of a toxic cycle and a toxic family.

First her mom is awful. No explanation there. Then her dad tells her that she’s special and the zodiac belong to her. Then she sees the zodiac who visibly are oppressed by her but are bound to her. Her head is messed up and that doesn’t excuse her behavior, but it explains it.

After the series, most of the zodiac desert her and she ends up alone except for Shigure, Shiki, and Tohru & Saki on occassion. Other than that, she’s alone.

She’s also outcast by the family for all that she’s done, receives notes from someone about her wrongdoings, and receives hate from Ren.

She also got stabbed protecting Shiki from Ren.

In my opinion, she doesn’t deserve any saving grace even if she was in a toxic cycle and family. I don’t think she necessarily got away with her wrongdoings. Her receiving punishment might not work since she was essentially a victim at the end of the day.

Her outcome is the natural order of events from her abuse. She can’t exactly help the zodiac beyond a point and most of them don’t want anything to do with her, so her giving them freedom and leaving them alone is the best thing she could do.

If she had no negative outcomes, I might feel differently or negatively but I think the fact that she received antagonism but also had a happy ending with Shigure, Shiki, and her friends Tohru and Saki make me feel neutral.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago

As a Past Employee, I Have Mixed Feelings About Northwestern

I'm not sorry. I will probably get hate but I don't care.

I was in one of their research departments and I came in with the impression that it was a great opportunity. That I was joining a great company with elite benefits. A company that cared. A company that was mission driven and contributing to the world. A trade-off for low pay.

It was heaven for about 6 months until one of the principal investigators I worked with used underhanded, unethical tactics to get a patient into a clinical trial. I properly disclosed the major financial risks of the trial and the principal investigator got mad because she declined. He said he "verified insurance would cover it" which means he did a quick call and not a proper prior auth, or probably didn't call at all.

I got in trouble for that. After that, upper management created a narrative that I was incompetent and scrutinized my behaviors when other people were performing objectively worse. My studies were in tip top shape and my manager actively looked for issues with my performance but couldn't find any.

Then came the UnitedHealthcare Switch, the tuition benefit cancellation even for people actively enrolled and who put years of their lives to Northwestern just for it to be taken away, and the lack of merit increase. It really put into perspective the type of company Northwestern is.

I also saw several instances of lack of pay transparency. They post their salary ranges from the bottom to the midpoint (e.g EXS/5 51-64k when in reality it's 51-80k). Several times they've posted a job and when they couldn't get applicants they substantially increased the salary, meaning they always had extra money but penny pinch.

I couldn't take it and left. The department was in shambles when I left. I can't understand why they would think I'd stay after how poorly they treated me. It goes to show that my department is badly managed and unethical. I truly believe it's a trickle down effect from leadership. My department sees employees as disposable and I'm sure other do too.

I will say this. This is an anecdotal experience and Northwestern may be a truly great place for you and many others. I do know that their research departments need to treat their employees better. Overall, Northwestern has a massive research output, and despite needed employee support, it's still beneficial for the world. Northwestern's brand name also got me a unicorn job with a substantial pay increase, so it was worth the torture I went through.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago
▲ 140 r/tretinoin

Tretinoin 0.1% Is Amazing

For context, I started tretinoin 2 years ago. My skin is like titanium, so I started on 0.05% tretinoin daily. I had sensitivity and peeling for about 3 months but that went away. 6 months after the start date of tretinoin I got bumped up to 0.1%. I started seeing results aroun 9-12 months later. I'm in my mid 20s and had very, very subtle signs of aging. Those are all gone and my skin looks flawless, glowy, like a porcelain doll, and no comedomes. It also will prevent aging.

If you're in your teens or mid 20s, start tretinoin + SPF 50 for aging prevention or at least as soon as you can. You'll thank yourself later in your 60s.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago

Has It Gotten Harder To Fill Prescriptions?

For context, I’m on a painkiller, a benzo, sedating antidepressant, sleep medicine, and stimulant.

So I will acknowledge it’s unusual, but I have actual diagnoses for each.

The issue is I have very very difficult to treat depressant and insomnia. And I have pain on top of that.

Basically, if I stop a prescription the pharmacist states that they can’t fill it because of interactions, short term use, and that I should’ve stayed on it had it worked.

They don’t seem to understand medications can be taken on and off, and that I’ve taken medications with interactions before and been fine. They seem to make up their own rules for why they can’t fill it.

This is at a CVS in a large city. This is my main pharmacy. I feel like maybe because it’s in a large city and drug abuse is a larger issue than the suburbs that that’s why they won’t fill it?

If I fill a prescription at a CVS in the suburbs they fill it no questions asked.

I also find filling prescriptions is way easier at Walgreens and CVS.

However, I think large chain pharmacies are difficult in general. But years ago CVS used to dispense controlled substances for me on autopilot. I actually had to tell them to stop.

Can anyone advise on finding a pharmacy that’s easier to fill at?

I’ve heard independent or smaller pharmacies are more chill.

I also wonder if Express Scripts delivery is easier?

Any help would be appreciated.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago

Ren Sohma: A Devil’s Advocate

I’ll play devil’s advocate for Ren Sohma, because I think there’s a distinction between understanding a character and excusing them.

Ren is obviously a deeply toxic, abusive, and destructive person, and the story doesn't expect us to view her behavior as justified.

But psychologically and narratively, her character makes sense.

She’s someone who has become completely consumed by resentment, insecurity, and her fixation on Akira, and her actions are an extreme expression of that. She actively antagonizes Akito because she thinks Akito is competition for Akira's love. It's wrong, but understandable especially when Akito is the god of the zodiac.

The reason I honestly don't dislike her all that much is that Ren is one of the few people in the story who refuses to accept Akito’s authority or participate in the dynamic where everyone else is conditioned to accommodate her. Akito has absolutely no control over Ren, and Ren haunts Akito on the daily. It's so satisfying to see the power dynamics reversed.

Ren doesn’t fear Akito, doesn’t worship her, and actively challenges her—although she does so for incredibly selfish and destructive reasons. Ren cuts deep, an even though she's the overarching antagonist and started the toxicity of Akito, it was so satisfying to see someone bully Akito and hit it where it hurts the most. Akito throws tantrums, Ren injects venom and makes it hurt.

Akito spends so much of the story exercising control over other people and making them feel powerless, so seeing someone who is willing to antagonize her creates a fascinating reversal of that power dynamic.

I don’t think Ren is “right” for doing it, but I do think her presence is narratively interesting precisely because her opposition to Akito comes from such an ugly place. She’s not a hero standing up to a villain; she’s another deeply damaged person hurting someone who has hurt others.

Edit: I also think that her constantly enforcing Akito's fear of being alone was a catalyst in the curse breaking. Similar to Tohru where the zodiacs found bonds outside of the zodiac.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago

Isuzu & Hatsuharu Are My Favorite Couple

I like them more than Kyo & Tohru (sorry!).

Kyo & Tohru heal each other and complement each other well, but Isuzu & Hatsuharu were MADE for each other.

First off, Isuzu is able to see Hatsuharu's kindness, awkwardness, and loving personality.

Isuzu is a very alluring woman and I feel like they are two pieces of a puzzle matching.

The way Hatsuharu stands up for and eventually heals Isuzu is amazing.

Isuzu doesn't particurlarly "save" Hatsuharu, but they have an undeniable chemistry that I believe can't be beat with another person.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/MAOIs

Is Tramadol Safe With MAOIs

Just curious because I'm on low dose tramadol (50mg) and am potentially going to get on Parnate.

I'm assuming no because of all the things that you "shouldn't" take with MAOIs, serotoninergic medications are the ones you seriously should look out for.

Just curious if anyone know/has taken two before before.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago

Arcee Storming the Decepticon Warship to Rescue Optimus Prime

I love this scene. It showcases Arcee’s ferocity and determination.

This is similar to her ferocity when facing Airachnid.

u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago

Clinical Trial Manager?

Ok, can yall explain to me the difference between these roles?

  1. Clinical trial manager
  2. Clinical project manager
  3. Local trial manager
  4. Global trial manager

Are CTM and CPM the same? Or is one more senior that the other?

And for LTM and GTM, would a CTM be the LTM equivalent or GTM equivalent?

Just want clarification.

Thanks!

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago

UCSF's Interview Process Is Batshit

I interviewed for UCSF for a CRC position a while ago, and it’s absolutely ridiculous.

They had 4 interviews, separately, with the exact same questions asked each interview with different people.

I don’t understand the point of that?

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago

I Feel Like I Couldn't Coordinate the Trials I Monitor

Ok, so I’ve been on some complex protocols as a CRC.

When I became an FSP CRA, I was out on complex rare disease studies that were way more complex than the ones I was on as a CRC.

I feel like I monitor them well and can understand the protocol, the endpoints, and the science behind it from an oversight perspective, but as a CRC I feel like I’d have a harder time actually executing the protocol given how operationally demanding it is.

Does anyone feel the same?

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago

How Do I Handle Disrespectful Site Staff?

As a CRA, most of the coordinators are great.

Some aren’t and it’s no coincidence that they’re both incompetent and disrespectful when I point out something they did wrong.

Of course, I have no issue screaming at them, but I have to remain professional for the sake of my job and preserving site relations.

Usually I just say, “I’d appreciate if we kept this communication respectful”, but sometimes they keep going.

Once I escalated to my LM and sent an email to the site describing the issue. My LM is very supportive which I’m grateful for.

As a CRA I feel like I don’t have the power to do something myself, but is there a way to keep site staff respectful on my own without looping in my LM?

I understand CRCs are treated poorly sometimes (I was when I was a CRC), so I get it but not sure how to handle it on my own.

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u/Working_Row_8455 — 2 months ago