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I’m getting more and more annoyed with people that have pets… then decide to have babies.. and cast their pets to the side and don’t care about them anymore. That dog or cat love them and looks to them for hugs as it’s always done and then suddenly gets pushed to the side!

Don’t have kids if you can’t give your pets love and attention too. I know it’s time consuming having children, I know it’s hard but people choose to have them and then treat their pets this way. I can’t stand it! Not your pets fault you chose to have a baby!! They don’t understand why they’re being pushed out. Makes me so mad.

My partner [35M] seems to make a lot of errors in communication and doesn’t understand a lot of what I [32F], say. He’s a very clever man in a lot of ways but just seems to get words wrong. An example today was “I didn’t mean to not interrupt you”, I repeated it and explained that he didn’t mean that and he just kept saying it, not understanding it was wrong. He obviously meant “I didn’t mean to interrupt you”. This then leads to me getting frustrated as this happens so often and arguments. He also mixes up words a lot, like spoon instead of fork.

Does anyone have any advice on what would help him? Every single argument is about communication issues like the one above, and it’s coming between us every single day.

Not fuller just wider, mine is about the same width as my nose, which I hate. I wish it was wider!

We’ve had a door bricked up recently and only just found out that we’re in an area of outstanding beauty. We did contact the council to get it signed off, but didn’t realise we had to do anything else (I’ve looked online and it says to get permission to change bricks etc for area of outstanding beauty) What are our next steps? We obviously don’t want to get a fine or anything going forward but we didn’t realise we need to get special permission for it. Really appreciate some advice on this. Thanks!