u/accidentallyhappied

It has been for a while now, and I always kind of knew it. I was stupid enough to have even a little bit of hope, but now I’ve reached the conclusion that my life never even really started.

I’m 26. No friends, no boyfriend, ugly and boring. The only thing I got going for me is being half way through a masters degree with 80k in savings, a nice sports car and my pets. But it still isn’t enough.

I’ve just turned into a mean and bitter person as I get older. I have no one, really. I’ve been told I’m ugly my whole life. I have no friends so I don’t go anywhere, I just go to work and come home to sit in my room. Men have never showed me an interest because I’m ugly, I’ve been told my whole life. I don’t get hit on, I don’t get compliments, I’m just completely invisible.

I’m traumatised by people to the point where I’m scared of them. Even if I had friends or a boyfriend, I would feel like I have to walk on eggshells so they don’t abandon me. I wouldn’t even know how to have fun or socially function anymore. I would have to be fake and always hide who I really am because everyone will leave me anyway.

I’m really done with my life. My cut off is 30. No one will want me especially as wrinkly old lady. No one wants to be friends with someone with no friends. It’s truly over for me. I have nothing to look forward to, nothing to be happy about, nothing to work for anymore. It’s really just completely over for me. I have been like this since I can remember, and it’s not going to change no matter how hard I try.

I’m officially closing the lid on any type of relationship

Friendship, romantic relationships, all of it. I’m officially done and while I feel a bit sad since this isn’t how I thought my life will turn out, I’m relieved.

I have no friends, and romantic relationships are just not in the cards for me. Every friend I’ve had just used and abandoned me, treated me like a therapist, used me as a placeholder until someone better comes along, or im just completely excluded and forgotten or some other bullshit. I’m officially done being nice to people and trying to build any form of relationship with them.

It’s been nearly every single friendship. I’m officially done, I’ll happily live the rest of my life alone. I’ve been proven to be completely worthless to people no matter what I do. I’m 26, it’s been this way since my teen years.

Ive officially given up. Now I get to be selfish and mean to people who deserve it.

I do. I’m 26f. No friends, had one brief relationship with someone I wish I never met.

Any and all friends I’ve had have either:
- left me for their relationship
- abandoned me once they got new friends
- fucked me over
- used me

I’m done being nice to people and friendly and giving. No more. People won’t like me even more after but idgaf. Everyone has burned me. I’m just going to be private and selfish from now one because I’m done. I’ve been treated like shit by nearly everyone, just used and abandoned when they feel like it.

There goes having friends, travelling the world, having a loving partner. I’m basically left with nothing. I’m fine alone but I’m also not. At this point, it’s not really a choice. I don’t want anyone near me anymore.

I just angry and mad all the time. I can’t understand how I literally have no friends. I just can’t. I see people with their friends or mentioning them and I just get angry. How come you can have some, but I can’t?

I just don’t understand what is wrong with me. Why does no one stay, even for a little. Why do I get close to people and then they just vanish and I never hear from them again. Why does no one want to hang out with me, or initiate or even put any effort.

I’ve tried making friends but it just doesn’t work. They don’t care. They have their other friends and relationships, why would they add me?

What is so fundamentally wrong with me that no one wants me, I just sit in my room all day and live life on my phone. Why is it so hard to find genuine friends that actually put in effort.

I’m going to be like this for the rest of my life. I stumbled on one of my own reddit posts that I made when I was 22. I’m 26 now, and it’s still exactly the same. I have felt this way since I was 19. Nothing has changed, nothing has improved despite trying.

I will never be able to travel with someone, I’ll never have a boyfriend, I’ll never have close friends. It’s over for me. Isolating is something I should never have gotten out of. I just hate people. I truly do. I can’t read them or understand them anymore. It’s over.

I’m 26. No friends, no boyfriend. I’ve never travelled anywhere, all I do is sit in my room. I’m too ugly for a boyfriend, people don’t like me enough to be friends with me, no one likes me.

I’m half way through a masters degree, drive a nice car, have money in the bank. But I literally don’t give a fuck. I don’t care. What the fuck even is the point when all I do is sit in my room all day because no one likes me.

What even is the point of existing or accomplishing things when you’re just alone. When you’re boring. When life is boring and repetitive. When nothing fills the hole of wanting to have friends or a partner.

My life is never going to change. I’ve tried making friends and they don’t last because I’m not important. Men don’t like me or just flat out reject me constantly. I’m embarrassed to even speak to people because I have nothing going to me, I’m not interesting, I’m nothing.

What the fuck is the point. I would do anything to eat a bullet. I’m genuinely losing my mind the older I get.

I have no friends. I don’t have a boyfriend because I’m too ugly for one. All I do is go to work and study. It’s the same repetitive shit over and over again. I’ve never really travelled anywhere because I have no one to do it with, I don’t go out much and just stay at home.

My life is so embarrassing. I’m 26, at the prime of my life. And I have completely wasted it. And I don’t think it will ever change. People already have their own established friends and lives, they don’t want to add anymore. Men are not attracted to me so let’s just say a relationship is not in my cards. I hate talking to people because they just seem so much more interesting and travel and actually do things, when I don’t.

My biggest dream is to travel. But I don’t think I’ll ever get to because I have no one to go with. I wouldn’t mind some solo travelling but I’d prefer to have someone to go with. But I have no one and I’ll probably never have anyone either.

No one wants to be friends with someone who doesn’t have friends, who essentially is boring. Once people find out I have no one and have never travelled they just lose interest. No one wants to befriend someone with no friends so it becomes an endless cycle. My life has completely passed me by, and by the looks of it, it won’t change. I’ve tried making friends but nothing sticks. People just don’t care. They have their own friends and lives, why would they want to include me?

I’m honestly just so done. I spent years isolating myself because of loneliness and I think I might just stay here.

It’s go to work, study my masters degree, go home.

I have no friends. I try. I really do. But I’m no one’s first choice. I never have been. I’ve always been excluded and rejected. No matter how well I get along with someone, it just doesn’t last. We can be friends for like 6 months then I never hear from them again. I just can’t understand why I’m not good enough to be someone’s friend. I see on social media, everyone travelling, going out with friends, having fun. All while I rot in my room.

I’ve never had a proper boyfriend. Men just aren’t interested in me. Not the good ones anyway. I’ve always been ignored and rejected by men too.

My life is just embarrassing. Everyone I know is in a relationship, has friends, travels etc. but not me. It has never happened for me. And I’m 26, if it hasn’t happened by now it probably won’t.

I just purely and genuinely hate my life. Absolutely hate it. I hate making small talk with people because they always ask if I’m going to travel, or if I go out with friends or have a boyfriend. And I never know what to say. How do I lie.

I just wish I wasn’t here anymore.

I’m 26. I have no friends, no boyfriend. I’ve been this way since I was 18 or 19. All I do is go to work, study and sleep. I have no life. I’m a complete loser. I’m struggling to get through every day.

I can’t make friends. No idea what’s wrong with me. I can get along with people just fine, but I’ve never made a friend. I’ve met so many people, became close to them, got along with them, yet, at the end of the day, I’m still alone. Everyone else has friends or partners, I don’t. My friends in the past used me, betrayed me in some way, or found a boyfriend/ new friends and just left me to rot. People just don’t want me around. No one wants to be my friend.

Like i said, I’ve been friendless for nearly 10 years. That is not changing anytime soon. I’ve met people at work, uni, mutuals and other places but not once have I actually made a friend. Someone to hang out with. Someone to travel with. Someone to send stupid memes to. Literally not one.

I just don’t really see the point anymore. My family doesn’t care about me either. No one wants me around. No one wants to be my friend or associate with me so I just isolate and don’t even bother speaking to people anymore.

My life is essentially over. It’s like I have a sign on my forehead that says “don’t befriend me” which makes people only tolerate me. It’s so embarrassing having no friends. It really is. I’m 26, sit at home all day unless I’m at work. Everyone knows. I have no life, nothing to look forward to. No one will notice if I’m gone. No one will care either.

I’m 26, and have only one friend. I used to have plenty of friends until they used me, backstabbed me or just got rid of me once they found new friends or relationships. I haven’t made any legitimate friends since. Not for my lack of trying, but because people are fake af and don’t care about actually having a friendship.

I’m more than likely to end up this way forever. No matter how much I try, how much effort I put in, or how much I get along with someone, it goes nowhere. I literally don’t care or like people enough to socialise or bother making friends anymore. It’s crazy how every single person I’ve come across has not lead to any sort of friendship or contact, even through we were close at one point.

It sucks, I’m insecure about it. I’ll never be able to travel, have no one to go out for dinner or go to concerts with, I just sit at home, or go to work. But at the same time, I hate people, and every time I try to build a friendship with someone, it reminds me why I should just be by myself and isolate myself.

I know no one likes me, I have no friends. Any “friend” I’ve had treated me like shit so I would get rid of them. Or even if we had a good friendship or whatever, it just wouldn’t last. They don’t make effort to keep in contact or have other people they hang out with so they don’t care. I’ve been excluded my whole life, never been invited to things and just completely discarded.

I honestly don’t bother being friendly with people anymore or try to make friends because they all end up the same. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. No matter how well I get along with someone they just don’t care enough to actually hang out and have a friendship. I just keep to myself now.

I don’t have any friends and it’s been this way since I was 19, I’m 26 now. I’ve met so many people, made “friends” (I don’t even know the definition of a friend anymore), people from the past either treated me like shit or ghosted me for no reason.

I’m never good enough. I never have been. I just wish I had a handful of friends to hang out with but I’ve accepted that’s never going to happen.