u/aonisk

Ask me something!

I am a bit bored.

I'm married to an infj. He is hotheaded and impatient, which is the complete opposite of me. I dont feel comfortable when hes mad and sometimes it hurts me so we talked and I asked him what are the things that trigger him so he could learn to react better in those situations. He said when he's been working or preparing for sometbing and things dont go according to plan, and when he says he wants something done or especially on time and there's a delay. My question is, how do you deal with situations like this and how do you get yourself relaxed in general. And, just FYI, i do try my best not to do anything that triggers him but he also has to deal with his reactions.

Just want to make a post to appreciate the ISTJ friend I have. She is one of the few people I feel emotionally safe with. I like how she is consistently reasonable, calm and respectful. I also like that she advises me directly if she thinks I’m doing something wrong but she does it in a gentle way and doesn't pressure me or judge me harshly. I'm so grateful to have my ISTJ friend in my life. 🤍

Usually, when I meet someone new, especially someone who is similar to me in age and gender etc., I immediately notice something that is positive and unique about them and feel like I lack somehow. Sometimes I wish I saw myself in third person because I can't see what is good in me. I hate comparison but it's always, ALWAYS done, whether by others or me. For me, its like having someone else as a refrence point. I know what I'm about to say may be so stupid but I can't deny it. I feel like when I see others who are similar to me, I get to know what "I'm supposed to be doing". It's like having rolemodels ig. I wonder how others decide, do they also copy others?.... ugh. I don't know how to explain myself. It so wierd. But I wish I could just decide for myself and not second guess myself all the time. I'm not sure what my type but when I noticed this pattern I couldn't help but remember the enneagram types. Specifically, the 2, 3 and 4 types. Is it related?

Baby just turned 1 yo and my husband and mil are going for a 10 day trip.

Baby is a picky eater. He doesn't accept formula and I haven’t tried pumping except once. We almost always give him homemade food besides the snacks. I will not be able to cook anything for him in a hotel room. So, i could rely on the store bought foods but i worry about the quantities, diversity and how to pack them. They're going to a foreign country and i think it would be hard to get baby food from there.

We haven't gave him many BLW experience bc we wanted him to actually eat (mostly my in laws and husband as they're always on my back on this topic).

I'm also someone who can't walk alot without tiring. Our baby doesnt walk yet which I heard is easier? Also my mil would help us out with the baby. What do you think? Is it going to be worth the trouble or not?

First option

Nutritional Values (per 100 g)

Carbohydrates: 72 g (of which sugars: 23 g)

Second option:

the serving size is 28g

And in a serving, theres 20g of carbs. Total added sugar is 8g

Ichigo i saw him typed as isfp and it made sense at the time and thought he could be intj. Now im not even sure. Only thing sure is se-ni rather than ne-si and he seems introverted.

Rukia entp?

Orihime xnfp

Chad ixfp

Uryu estj

Urahara intp

Rangiku esfj

Grimmjow esxp

Kenpachi esxp

Byakuya i saw him typed as istj and it made sense at the time but i feel like he could be using other functions so ixxj

Unohana isfj

I haven't watched bleach from a long time and i didn't finish it. Didnt mention rest of chsracters bc idk their types. What do u think?

I'm specifically looking for the type that has clasps on the back like a bra.

I don't have pics but I saw one online a while ago and thought it was a genius idea. All the gowns that I have have pads that are loose and never secure without wearing a bra underneath.