My mum is so toxic
Throwaway for obvious reasons. I (F, adult) had a major fight with my mum and we’ve stopped talking. It’s not an ongoing daily thing, but this incident was bad enough that I need space.
During the argument she:
Spiritually cursed me (said she doesn’t wish well on my life / basically put a curse on me).
Agreed that she shouldn’t have had me (regretted having me).
Called me stupid.
Went heavy on the guilt trip: “After everything I’ve done for you…”
Insisted “I’m older, I’m your mum, you must respect me” while refusing to show me any respect as her daughter.
When I pointed out the double standard, she raised her voice, got angry, and said multiple times that she would kick me out of the house if I don’t follow her rules.
I’ve tried to have calm conversations about respect going both ways before, but it always ends with her getting defensive and escalating. This latest one crossed a line for me.
Looking for advice on whether stepping back / low contact makes sense here, especially while still living at home. Thanks.