Hey girls
i’m bored w my hair. have always played safe but now i want a change. i was first thinking of dying my hair jet black. They’re virgin right now. and then i also want feathered bangs like that little girl in 2nd slide. idk if it’ll suit me since ive a round face and i wear glasses too.
what do u say, should i go for it?
also if u like my hair, pls say MashaAllah.
rescued a ginger male kitten (10 12 weeks old) from my university he’s hella playful. Bros name is simba i love him a lot (tho i don’t think he loves me) like any other orange cat, he got a syndrome too - hes a spicy feisty playful mf who yanked on my belly piercing while playing and that shit hurts.
i love him a lot, take care of him too but i think it’s best suitable for bigger homes and people who maybe don’t have piercings at sensitive spots.
Lmk if yall are interested, can pick him up from DHA
Hello,
I have been looking to buy an iPad along with an apple pencil. Can be used ofcourse since my budget is only 100-120k
As a student, I happen to write notes a lot and believe that an ipad would be perfect however I’m unsure to go for an ipad mini or something bigger. I will obviously purchase the mouse and keyboard attachments later on as well.
Any guide, as to where can i purchase it from, any good installment plan (without credit card) or mercantile or nextgen leads would be very helpful.
Hi, adding some details here because my DMs have been absolutely flooded with people asking about “salary” 😭 so hopefully this answers most questions before you message me.
To clarify, this is strictly business/professional. There are no romantic expectations, emotional involvement, or anything beyond the arrangement we agree on. This is essentially me needing a believable fake boyfriend for a short period of time.
Duration/frequency:
This would probably be for around a month, potentially a little longer depending on how things go.
I’d probably need you around once a week, although some weeks may require more/less depending on the situation.
Most of the interaction would be fairly brief and planned in advance.
There is no “salary.”
I’m not hiring someone on a monthly payroll 😭. Instead, reasonable expenses related to the arrangement will be compensated/reimbursed by me.
For example:
Fuel/transportation costs
Flowers/bouquets
Gifts if something specific is needed for the situation
Food/coffee/etc. when required for the arrangement
Any other reasonable expense we agree on beforehand
If we’re going somewhere specifically for a picture/date/social-media-purpose situation, I will pay for the date myself. I’m not expecting you to take me out and spend your own money to maintain the fake relationship.
What I actually need from you:
Ideally, someone who can occasionally make a small, believable effort, nothing dramatic or over-the-top.
For example, once a week you might:
Drop flowers at my office and tell the receptionist something along the lines of “I brought these for Bunny.”
Call the office landline and ask to speak to me, saying you’re trying to reach me because you’re coming to pick me up.
Occasionally meet me somewhere for a quick photo/social situation if needed.
Basically help create the impression that yes, there is in fact a man in my life who occasionally makes an appearance
I don’t need someone constantly texting me or pretending we’re madly in love. Consistency and believability matter more than excessive interaction.
Privacy/identity:
You don’t need to give me your entire life story or personal information. A first name/fake name is fine, and we can keep personal details to a minimum. I probably won’t need your WhatsApp either, although that may become necessary depending on how the arrangement works.
I’m also not looking for someone to expose their real identity publicly or involve their friends/family/etc.
Discretion is important on both sides.
And just to reiterate: strictly professional. If you’re messaging me because you think this is an invitation for something sexual/romantic, please don’t. That’s not what I’m looking for.
If you’re genuinely interested after reading all of this, DM me with your age, general location, availability, and why you think you’d be a good fit. Please don’t just message “how much?” because the answer is: there isn’t a salary. 😭
I got my navel pierced about 2 weeks ago and I’m looking for some advice because I’m not sure if this is part of the normal healing process or if something is wrong.
For context, I don’t have a flat stomach. I have a protruding belly, so when I bend or sit, the skin naturally folds over the piercing. My piercer said this wouldn’t be an issue and pierced me with a curved barbell. He also placed a silicone/rubber disc stopper behind the top ball to prevent it from sinking into the skin while healing.
During the first two weeks, healing was pretty rough. It was quite painful, especially when bending over, sleeping on my side or stomach, or doing normal daily activities. There was also a lot of thick yellow/greenish discharge every day.
For aftercare, I initially cleaned it with sterile saline twice a day using a Q-tip. My piercer also recommended mixing ibuprofen ointment with Polyfax and applying that. However, after reading a lot of advice here, I stopped using the ointments because most people recommend only using saline, so I’ve only been using saline since then.
The strange thing is that after about two weeks:
The discharge has almost completely stopped.
The pain has improved a lot.
I can now sleep on my stomach and move around without much discomfort.
Because it seemed to be doing better, I removed the silicone stopper. Now I’m noticing that the top hole looks much larger than before, almost like it’s gaping or stretching, and it’s making me worry that the piercing might be rejecting or migrating.
I contacted my piercer, and he told me to put the silicone stopper back on, but unfortunately I lost it. He said he’ll replace it with a transparent retainer/disc when I come in.
My questions are:
Does this look like normal healing, irritation, or early rejection?
Should I continue using only saline, or should I go back to using the ibuprofen ointment and Polyfax?
Is it okay to leave it without the stopper until I can see my piercer?
Does the enlarged top hole look concerning?
I’ve attached photos in chronological order. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
25F- let me give you a background context.
I had unprotected sex with an older male who happens to have a lot of sexual partners. He did not ejaculate inside me but I immediately consumed an ecp.
The next day, I had a threesome with two young males. They did wear protection however they used the same condom that went inside my ass to go inside my vagina too.
Now, over this week, I have noticed these few things and i’m highly concerned.
Now the problem is, i could go to a healthcare provider but I am insanely broke, I cannot even commute and my salary doesn’t get credited until the next month. i’m unsure how to proceed and what to do. My desperation has caused me to post my genitalia online because i cannot see a doctor right now.
Please any leads and help would be highly appreciated!!
preferably a female tho.
Can somebody please please PLEASE tell me where can i watch the WC final if it’s being screened somewhere good. Open space preferably
i really wanna watch it outside somewhere with friends
work today has to be sooo boring and my boss is making it worse i wish i could go out somewhere during my break and maybe never come back to this stupid place
this is my concealer i’m using Maybelline age rewind in the color light. before this. i washed my face, used a light moisturizer and then the rhode milk glaze before applying the concealer yet it is coming off, is quite patchy too.
France vs Paraguay is j being dragged now i wish i could watch it w some good food at least
hi pls i rlly wanna watch the australia vs egypt can anyone tell me if there’s any live screening happening anywhere in dha?? quick pls bec we’re short on time 😭
Guys, i thought maybe karachi is burning but i was so wrong when i came to mirpurkhas fml it’s a fucking stove here 😭 can sum1 pls get me a mint lemonade from greeno here?
Salam everyone!
Moharram has begun and so is everyone busy with the Majalis, setting up sabeels, its peacefully beautiful. I have an addiction that has gotten a little bit too much out of hands. It’s music. I listen to music a lot! I can’t shower without music or make breakfast without listening to music and a lil confession, I was still listening to music during Ramadan. I want it to stop. But it’s so hard, I get carried away. As someone who makes content and is in marketing, i usually end up enjoying musical reels too much until realization hits that i shouldn’t.
I don’t know what to do and how to stop. Please help a sister out JazakAllah
At almost 3 a.m. today, I was reminded that great customer experiences aren’t created by policies, processes, or marketing campaigns.
They’re created by people.
After spending the evening working at Dunkin’ in Karachi, I accidentally dropped my AirPods under the table. Without checking, I picked up the case, tossed it into my bag, and headed home.
Hours later, while unpacking, I opened the case and realized the AirPods themselves were missing.
Panic. 😱
As someone who uses AirPods for work, studying, travelling, and practically everything in between, they aren’t just a gadget for me, they’re part of my daily routine and I absolutely CANNOT live without them.
My first instinct was to call the Dunkin’ outlet at Bukhari but it was already past closing time and I couldn’t get through.
Running out of options, I called Black Honey; one of my most favourite coffee spots in Karachi. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting anyone to answer.
But someone did.
Not only did they answer, they immediately sensed I was worried. The staff member, Zain, listened to my situation, shared his personal number, and assured me he would try to help. A few minutes later, he walked over to the neighbouring Dunkin’ outlet, connected me with their team, and helped confirm that my AirPods had been found and safely kept aside.
Soon after, I received a photo showing they were safe.
What struck me wasn’t that my AirPods were found.
It was that two businesses, after closing hours, took time out of their night to help someone who wasn’t even their responsibility.
No tickets. No complaints. No escalation process.
Just people helping people.
And the story didn’t end there.
The Dunkin’ team arranged for the AirPods to be delivered to me the very same night. At around 4 a.m., a rider, Majid bhai arrived at my doorstep with them. Before handing them over, they had even noticed that one of the AirPods was broken apart and took the initiative to fix it. By the time they reached me, everything was working perfectly.
That’s not customer service.
That’s genuine care.
In a world where we often hear that kindness is disappearing, experiences like these remind us that it isn’t.
Sometimes the most powerful brand ambassadors aren’t influencers, campaigns, or advertisements.
They’re the frontline staff who choose empathy when nobody is watching.
A huge thank you to the teams at Dunkin’ Donuts and Black Honey for restoring more than my AirPods, you restored a little faith in humanity too.
Not all heroes wear capes. Some wear aprons, work the late shift, and go out of their way to help a stranger at 4 a.m.
i listen to a lot of music and this and avoid romantic sweet type shi but aaj kal this aarzu im listening to it on repeat and its bringing out the lover girl from within me and im hating it rock and roll metal drake kendrick kisi ko sune ka dil nahi kar raha 😭
(and i know i sound farigh but im not its j smth i felt and im not liking it and wanted to know if other girls feel the same or not)
I need to get this off my chest because I just found out something that genuinely shook me.
For almost 3 years, I had this on-and-off friendship with a guy who used to be my junior in school and was also friends with my brother at one point. We talked A LOT. Like all day, all night type conversations. But it never really started as flirting, and honestly, I never even properly fell for him.
Over time though, he started getting sweeter, more flirty, calling me “mommy” occasionally (we listen and we don’t judge), then disappearing for months at a time. Every few months he’d randomly come back into my life, talk to me nonstop, ask to meet me, then vanish again.
Fast forward to December 2025. He randomly reappears, starts acting extra thoughtful, sends donuts to my house, offers to pick me up, drop me places, all that. One day I saw him at a chai spot in Bukhari with his friends. We made eye contact but he didn’t come say hi. Didn’t even text me until 2am saying “I saw you there btw.” Bohat weird energy.
Eventually we finally met after YEARS of this back-and-forth. He picked me up the day after my birthday with this ridiculously huge bouquet. We got coffee, sat in his car talking for hours, went for a drive while his playlist slowly transitioned from Aujla to Cigarettes After Sex 😭
The kind of vibe he was setting, surprisingly nothing crazy happened. It was honestly just soft. Holding hands, forehead kisses, sweet words, quiet moments. I loved every part of it. Before leaving, I hugged him and kissed his head goodbye. I went home feeling weirdly cared for and happy.
But then bhae, he disappeared again and I should have seen it coming because this happens every single time but this one for some reason hurt a lot and kind of birthed my insecurities even more.
Weeks passed. Then months.
At one point I stalked his following list and found this insanely gorgeous influencer girl he interacted with under EVERY post. I thought maybe they were just close friends because they were always together online.
A few months later he came back AGAIN, insisted on meeting me, saying how he owes me an explanation and for making it up to me. convinced me to clear my schedule, and then stood me up. Completely.
Today, I reconnected with someone who knows him personally and casually found out that him and that influencer girl have actually been dating for THREE YEARS.
I genuinely sat there in shock.
And weirdly enough, what hurt the most wasn’t even the ghosting. It was realizing I spent months wondering if I wasn’t pretty enough, interesting enough, good enough. Meanwhile this man was emotionally entertaining other girls while already dating someone absolutely gorgeous.
That’s when it hit me:
If someone can cheat on or emotionally play around despite having a loving, beautiful partner, then maybe another woman’s worth was never the issue to begin with.
Girls, if someone ghosts you or keeps you in cycles of confusion, please stop assuming you lacked something. Sometimes the problem is literally just that the person is deeply unserious. 🥱