u/beinghotcamewithpain

Men saying “bitch,” “slut,” or “whore” feels oddly misogynistic

Men saying “bitch “slut” or “whore” feels so grossly misogynistic to me. These are words that have been used to oppress women for so long. “Bitch” literally refers to a female dog. I have literally never seen men call each other any word adjacent to those types of swears, it is almost entirely men talking about women whom they are mad at. Saying these terms inforces purity culture through our speech. There is no “sluts” or “whores,” just women with less or more experience. Men are praised for lots of experience, as society says that men with lots of experience ‘know how to please in bed.’ While women with lots of experience are shamed, called disgusting words, and are seen as ‘dirty.’ It is enforced in many religions that women’s bodies are dirty after having sex, and words like these only further the beliefs of purity culture. Am I too woken or..?

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u/beinghotcamewithpain — 5 days ago
▲ 212 r/Feminism

Why is fictional pedophilia towards young, female characters so normalized?

Being attracted to any character who is obviously a child is pedophilic, especially if they’re making porn of these types of characters. I went onto Reddit to look at the subreddit of a show I’ve been watching, (Evangelion) And 90% of the subreddit were people posting censored porn images, posting stuff about how they want to fuck the cast, or overly sexual images of the main 3, (WHICH ARE 13-14.) Honestly, I did like the show. I thought some of it was weirdly sexual, but I liked the show other than that. It had much less fan service than other anime’s. (thank fucking god!) My problem comes with the fact almost every man on that subreddit is postings about wanting to fuck the females. It’s such gross, incel behaviour that always comes with anime. I thought they would have the decency to not post about porn of the children, but nope! And of course, it was only the female cast being sexualized. It icks me so bad that men see underage girls as a sexual object to their desires, and that pedophilic belief even reaches into fictional stories. I wish men would stop holding these beliefs so dearly to them, because it is so damaging to young girls and it normalizes the belief that being attracted to children is normal and okay, while it is not. I honestly don’t even know what I was expecting when scrolling on an Eva thread, but whatever. I’m just uncomfortable. The mods on these forums ban people who call out pedophiles, but they will allow people to post censored porn of children or oddly sexual comments. Can we not normalize this behaviour?

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 6 days ago
▲ 213 r/longhair

Is my hair too long or no? My mom keeps saying so.

My hair is current 30 inches. I get it’s a bit ling, but she says I need to cut it off before it grows more or else it will look gross.😔 I love my hair a lot and it is my favourite thing about myself. Do you guys think i should just cut it off to 25in or keep it?

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 6 days ago

What does my room say about me?

All of these photos were taken from a while ago because my room is a MESS right now😓 Lots of the things I have hung up are just cute little sentimental things LOL!

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 6 days ago

How can I make this cuter??? HELP!

So I tried out a 60’s look and I’m honestly not very happy with it. I think the eye makeup threw me off. I like the base, but my eyeshadow was kind of patchy and I didn’t love it. I’ve tried doing a dark cut crease before, and it didn’t look great on me. You can kind of see that I put some white eyeliner on the top of my lid to make a smaller cut crease, (yes, I don’t have white eyeshadow!) but it didn’t work well. Does anyone have advice for cut creases or my makeup or basically anything?!? I love the vibe of the makeup SO much but the eyes ruin it!!!

Used eye products!

-TARTE maneater mascara
-NYX eyeliner
-MARCELLE white kohl eyeliner
-Sailor moon x colourpop eyeshadow

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 12 days ago

Ugh is this cute or no??

I tried a new 60’s look and I’m not sure if it’s cute or not😔 It’s kind of inspired by Valeria Lukyanova and Priscilla Presleys makeup looks. I wanted to look dolly and I feel I just look a mess. The eyeshadow isn’t great because it’s a pale pink eyeshadow with white eyeliner (had to improvise because I’m out of white eyeshadow!) If I do this again, I’m definitely getting actual white eyeshadow. I put a beehive in my hair but it would NOT stay LMAOO!

(Skin prep:)
-coconut oil
-centella cream

(MAKEUP:)

-NYX bare with me concealer shade Light
-unknown contour from 2020
Glossier cloud pain blush
-Revlon translucent powder
-Revolution highlighter
-TARTE maneater mascara
-NYX epic wear eyeliner
-Marcelle white Kohl eyeliner
-rom&nd glasting melting bomb shade pecan brew
-cocoa radiant lip Vaseline
-Sailor moon x colour pop pallet shades Silver Crystal and Shinjng Moon
-no setting spray or primer!

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 12 days ago

Does anyone know this painting? It’s kind of like this image, but different. I saw it once on Pinterest, and now I can’t find it! I’m relatively sure it’s by a Japanese artist and it depicts a Japanese woman inside a flower (I think) that looks similar a vagina. It has a kind of spiritual aura to it. It’s very bright and pastel. I think the woman is in a kimono. It is so gorgeous and I can’t stop thinking about it!! There was no name or artist tag on it and I had not saved it on Pinterest.

-CAME FROM-PINTEREST, MOST LIKELY JAPANESE ARIST!
-NO PHOTO AT THE BACK OR SIGNATURE
-REFERENCE IMAGE SHOWN IS BY Iris Sullivan

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 19 days ago

Both of the cute little dresses are vintage lingerie from the 60’s✨🫶🏻🌷 I got them from an adorable vintage shop! I go there almost every week cuz I’m obsessed😭

u/beinghotcamewithpain — 21 days ago