u/cereclothh

I’m not going to go into too much detail for privacy reasons. I’m rushing writing this a bit so apologies if my words seem like they’re all over the place. I just really can’t get this off my mind.

I (15F) I need some help with learning how to help my boyfriend (16M) that’s insecure, and he gets jealous extremely easily. I’ve tried to be as supportive as much as I can, I reassure him, I give him space to grow, I let him know it’s totally fine and important for him to open up about anything he’s been through or express any concerns he’s been having.
He keeps telling me that I’m not doing anything wrong and that I’m the greatest partner he’s ever had and that he wants me to spend the rest of life with him. I also want to spend the rest of my life with him because I’ve genuinely never had such a strong, deep, intense, and real connection with someone before.
But I just want to know if there’s a better way for me to help him learn how to gain self confidence. He has discussed about how he truly loves me and how he knows that his insecurities and jealousy makes him bad for me and even suggested that I should leave him. Despite him telling me in the past he’s afraid that I’ll leave, or that I’ll see another man.
Sometimes when the insecurities get to him he can be hurtful with his words either by insulting me or starting a fight over a minor misunderstanding.
An example of that is when he got upset at me the other day when we were at the shops together, and I was looking for a specific product at the store that I couldn’t find. So I asked a male clerk if he could help me find what I was looking for because he was the only employee in the shop that was responsible for helping the customers while the only other worker was a female cashier. Talking to another man made my boyfriend outraged. After we left the shops he started an argument with me about how I shouldn’t just asked the female worker for help instead. That the male clerk “Was looking at you in a certain way and it made him jealous”. I was just completely bummed out after that date with my boyfriend like we were having so much fun together and walking around that day just for him to end it with an argument.
Sometimes he’d also argue with me if I accidentally call him “dude, lad, bro, brodi, geezer, or mate” because he feels like “I’m friendzoning him” when I do that when it’s just apart of my vocabulary. Either way I did stop calling him those terms.
He’d also get extremely jealous of my male friends despite my friendships being entirely platonic. (The majority of my friends are women so don’t assume I have a bunch of male friends) I’ve asked him if I’ve ever done anything in specific that has made him question my loyalty to him and he tells me he doesn’t have anything to say. It pisses him off when I talk to any any and I mean any guy.
(His ex had male friends of her own and she’d use them to make him jealous according to him)
Which I’ve never done by the way but I don’t know why he’s choosing to compare me to her. It’s like whenever he does that it makes me feel extremely disrespected and hurtful.
I’ve even told him about how deeply connected I feel to him and that we have this special bond that no friend can replace. What makes him special is the great qualities he has, and that I can truly be myself around him, be vulnerable around him, share my personal stories, and that I only want to build a life with him.
Once he’s even told me about how he’s hesitant about the thought of me pursuing engineering in uni because it’s a male dominated major. But an hour later or so he said he realized what he said was completely insane and controlling and that I shouldn’t let him stop me from pursuing the major I’ve always wanted.
When I’d try to handle the situation in the most calm and mature way possible he would sort of guilt me during our arguments, or he’d go silent when it feels slightly overwhelming for him and then tries to talk to me again a while later.
I love my boyfriend dearly and I feel like he loves me the same way but it’s just that he’s had a horrible ex in the past, and he hasn’t healed from that in a healthy manner and he knows it’ll affect our relationship.
I want to figure out a way on how to help him learn how to gain self confidence and regulate his emotions. Because I really really want to make this work so I’ll appreciate any advice or feedback on what can I do.
Again I also want to say that he’s genuinely everything I’ve ever wanted in a man, but it’s just this that we’re having issues with. He does have great qualities.

I’m not going to go into too much detail for privacy reasons. I’m rushing writing this a bit so apologies if my words seem like they’re all over the place.

I (15F) I need some help with learning how to help my boyfriend (16M) that’s insecure, and he gets jealous extremely easily. I’ve tried to be as supportive as much as I can, I reassure him, I give him space to grow, I let him know it’s totally fine and important for him to open up about anything he’s been through or express any concerns he’s been having.
He keeps telling me that I’m not doing anything wrong and that I’m the greatest partner he’s ever had and that he wants me to spend the rest of life with him. I also want to spend the rest of my life with him because I’ve genuinely never had such a strong, deep, intense, and real connection with someone before.
But I just want to know if there’s a better way for me to help him learn how to gain self confidence. He has discussed about how he truly loves me and how he knows that his insecurities and jealousy makes him bad for me and even suggested that I should leave him. Despite him telling me in the past he’s afraid that I’ll leave, or that I’ll see another man.
Sometimes when the insecurities get to him he can be hurtful with his words either by insulting me or starting a fight over a minor misunderstanding.
An example of that is when he got upset at me the other day when we were at the shops together, and I was looking for a specific product at the store that I couldn’t find. So I asked a male clerk if he could help me find what I was looking for because he was the only employee in the shop that was responsible for helping the customers while the only other worker was a female cashier. Talking to another man made my boyfriend outraged. After we left the shops he started an argument with me about how I shouldn’t just asked the female worker for help instead. That the male clerk “Was looking at you in a certain way and it made him jealous”. I was just completely bummed out after that date with my boyfriend like we were having so much fun together and walking around that day just for him to end it with an argument.
He’d also get extremely jealous of my male friends despite my friendships being entirely platonic. (The majority of my friends are women so don’t assume I have a bunch of male friends) I’ve asked him if I’ve ever done anything in specific that has made him question my loyalty to him and he tells me he doesn’t have anything to say. It pisses him off when I talk to any any and I mean any guy.
(His ex had male friends of her own and she’d use them to make him jealous according to him)
Which I’ve never done by the way but I don’t know why he’s choosing to compare me to her. It’s like whenever he does that it makes me feel extremely disrespected and hurtful.
I’ve even told him about how deeply connected I feel to him and that we have this special bond that no friend can replace. What makes him special is the great qualities he has, and that I can truly be myself around him, be vulnerable around him, share my personal stories, and that I only want to build a life with him.
Once he’s even told me about how he’s hesitant about the thought of me pursuing engineering in uni because it’s a male dominated major. But an hour later or so he said he realized what he said was completely insane and controlling and that I shouldn’t let him stop me from pursuing the major I’ve always wanted.
When I’d try to handle the situation in the most calm and mature way possible he would sort of guilt me during our arguments, or he’d go silent when it feels slightly overwhelming for him and then tries to talk to me again a while later.
I love my boyfriend dearly and I feel like he loves me the same way but it’s just that he’s had a horrible ex in the past, and he hasn’t healed from that in a healthy manner and he knows it’ll affect our relationship.
I want to figure out a way on how to help him learn how to gain self confidence and regulate his emotions. Because I really really want to make this work so I’ll appreciate any advice or feedback on what can I do.

It doesn’t matter how much color corrector or concealer I use or what techniques my dark under eyes never seem to be hidden fully with makeup.

(I’m fair skinned with dark undereyes) so I go in with the orange primer color corrector from makeup forever and tap it into my skin while blending the outer corners of it. And then I go in with my makeup forever hd full coverage concealer.

But it never seems to fully cover it up.

What are the steps I should take to reach fluency in German and a better understanding of the language.
I’ve been trying to learn for the sake of my father but it’s no use because I have no idea on what to do🥲

I 15F went to a salon a couple of months back for my uncle’s wedding and they decided that they were going to straighten my curly hair because it seemed like an “informal” hairstyle to do for the wedding.
And the lady at the salon burned my hair so bad it became straight and flat; so when I washed my hair the next day I noticed that I had strands of hair that were half curly and half straight☹️☹️☹️

So what can I do to fix this?? (My curly hair type is between A3-C3)

I have a couple of skin concerns like really dark circles, hyperpigmentation around the mouth, blackheads, pimples, and smile lines.
If someone could recommend a routine for me that’s suitable for a 15yr old girl please let me know!

(I used to suffer from dry skin and all I do is use a moisturizer from cetaphil and sometimes sun screen from avene or beesline)

I’ve also tried the ordinary salicylic acid serum to “help with the blackheads” but it’s no use.