u/chillime

Thanks

He was telling me that he’s worried about how my financial situation will be at 60 because time is our biggest helper as an early 30s adult. My expenses are high and he has been mentioning marriage here and there. We haven’t really talked about how much we save (he asked me this) actually I haven’t really shared about this. I’m reluctant because my mom has told me to always leave something on the side in case you need it for emergencies (ie you’re in a bad spot/bad marriage etc). I’m not sure how to discuss finances. I think he has a goal to retire early (45-55) or earlier. And I don’t know how to put into words: are you going to be retired and travelling while I put in my time to 65? I don’t know if he’d be bringing me along with him. But his concern about my net worth or financial situation at 60 kind of worries me. I don’t want to seem like a grifter because I’m trying to work hard in a way I know how- I work extra hours etc. I’d hope we retire together if we have enough money, together**.** Has it worked well for you guys if one person retires earlier?

Any tips?

Will be landing in Hobart. Looking for some classic spots, and off the beaten path spots. Any local foods to try? Best restaurant and bars? Any nature spots?

Will be travelling to Australian recommended souvenirs to bring back home? I thought of Vegemite. Is it generally likeable? I thought maybe a small bottle for each friend - any cheap grocery stores that have it? /

Is this yeast infection or is this normal?

He also asks if his \_ is the biggest I’ve ever had and I try not to lie so I don’t say anything or I say I like yours.. am I supposed to lie?