Prescription doesnt have ADD, but I need them?

Hey y'all I got my prescription updated today with a new doctor who recommended that I get either progressives or bifocals because of how my vision has changed since the last exam I have in my file-not totally surprising imo. My doctors office doesnt offer frames and I need the ADD information BUT thats not on the form for my prescription. All I have is the sphere, cylinder, axis, and boxes for my DIST VA and NEAR VA. My previous eye exams didn't have me in progressives/bifocals so I can't use them as a reference. Any ideas?

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u/daeng-minnie — 7 days ago

Eyeshadow Dupe for Discontinued Rom&nd Quad

Hey yall I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions or recommendations for dupes for the shades in this Rom&nd Hannah Bahng quad. It’s become one of my regular go-tos. Unfortunately it’s no longer sold so I can’t grab another one.

I’ve tried looking at some of Rom&nd’s current pallets for individual shade dupes but haven’t been able to find anything, and wasn’t sure what other brands to look at so I figured I’d ask yall

u/daeng-minnie — 3 months ago

Sant Rosa Nail Techs

Im looking for a new place to get my nails done and was wondering if anyone here ad recommendations for where to go

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u/daeng-minnie — 3 months ago

Watery Eyes Makeup Tips

Hey yall. I was wondering if yall had any tips/tricks or even product recommendations for when eye makeup doesn’t seem to want to stick around your eyes, particularly the inner corners? Idk if it’s allergies-environmental or otherwise-but every now and then my eyes makeup just WILL NOT want to stay around my eyes, they start getting super watery and the makeup wears off as I’m putting it on. It’s incredibly inconsistent and doesn’t happen all the time

I have a dermatology appointment and I plan to ask if it’s like cosmetic allergies, but lined up but they’re booking into December 2026/January 2027.

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u/daeng-minnie — 3 months ago

Primers/Powders/Setting Sprays for the Hyperhidrosis Girlies

Hey yall so this is gonna be a bit of a vulnerable sand and might be kinda gross or a tmi to some people and I’m sorry about that but I’m trying to get back into wearing makeup again in attempt to find the fun I used to have with it again after being in a super rough spot for a while.

I stopped wearing a lot of complexion products a few years ago save for special occasions because to be quite honest I run SUPER warm-with a SSRI/thyroid issue/PCOS/hyperhidrosis trifecta going on I’m often warm to the point of getting a bit/a lot sweaty if moving around a lot. Unfortunately anything that says it’s waterproof/sweatproof or 24hr+ wear tends to not really last on me even when combined with other products. I was wondering if anyone else had similar issues and had any suggestions for products.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Mesh Bodysuit/Top Recommendations

Hey y’all I’m looking for some like long sleeve lace or mesh body suits that come in a few different colors-mainly ‘basics’ like red/burgundy, black, and white. I like using them to dress up or add something extra to like t-shirts or something more ‘basic’ without getting too warm.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Mesh Bodysuit/Top Recommendations

Hey y’all I’m looking for some like long sleeve lace or mesh body suits that come in a few different colors-mainly ‘basics’ like red/burgundy, black, and white. I like using them to dress up or add something extra to like t-shirts or something more ‘basic’ without getting too warm.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Tinted Moisturizer/Lightweight Foundation Suggestions

Hey y’all, I’m looking for some complexion products that have a straight olive or a neutral/olive leaning undertone in the fair to light shade ranges. Right now, Im specifically looking for a lighter weight tinted moisturizer or foundation-ideally something in the drugstore price range but I know how tricky that can be so any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

For comparison/reference, MAC NC 13, About Face F2 Olive, and Hera Reflection Skin Glow 13N1 Porcelain have been really good shade matches for me so far.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Olive Undertoned Fair Complexion Product Help

Hey y’all, I’m looking for some complexion products that have a olive or a neutral/olive leaning undertone in the fair to light shade ranges. Right now, Im specifically looking for a lighter weight tinted moisturizer or foundation.

For comparison/reference, MAC NC 13, About Face F2 Olive, and Hera Reflection Skin Glow 13N1 Porcelain have been really good shade matches for me so far.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago
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Olive Undertoned Fair Complexion Produxts

Hey yall I’m looking for a lightweight tinted moisturizer or foundation that has olive or neutral leaning olive undertones in the light and fair shade ranges. I’ve been having SUCH a hard time finding products with the olive undertones in the lighter shade ranges, even some ‘neutral’ shades tend to lean too warm or cool on me and really don’t look like a good match once on.

MAC NC13, and About Face F2 Olive are really good shade matches for me.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Plus Size Punk and Rave Clothing Reccs

He y'all! I'm looking to update/expand my wardrobe and explore different aspects of my fashion sense a little more, and I know what I'm looking for but I'm at a bit of a loss as to where to look-google isn't particularly helpful. I'm US based and am looking for like cheaper/mid range price point

I'm specifically looking for some more alternative clothing brands-gothic/punky and rave wear. I'm already familiar with the brand Midnight Hour for example and like their pieces, but I dont think their sizing for bottoms includes my sizing if I remember correctly.

Rn the size that tends to fit me is around the 3X/4X-typically a 3X or 22 in shirts 28 in pants.

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u/daeng-minnie — 4 months ago

Friendship Breakup Advice

Hey y’all, I(32 F) graduated college a few years ago in 2023. Shortly before I graduated, my friend group had a falling out with a particular friend (26 F) for what boils down to us finding out that they had lied to us about something we felt was important/a big deal, and that during previous disagreements they had been going around twisting everyones words around to everyone else in the friend group behind their backs to make themselves look/sound better or like more of the victim than they were.

I stopped speaking to them until about a year ago, when-as a courtesy, I reached out to let them know that the pet of someone in the friend group had unexpectedly passed away at the ask of said other friend.

Since then, we’ve been talking occasionally and it really does seem like they’re doing a lot better and in a much better place than they were in when we were friends. Which, genuinely, I’m thankful for-they were incredibly unhappy with their life during the time we were close friends and all I ever wanted for them was to be okay and genuinely taking care of themselves-which it genuinely seems like they are.

HOWEVER, I’ve realized that I’ve inadvertently given them the impression that we are indeed friends again. They invited me out to see them for a significant life event, they routinely try to facetime me out of the blue without asking to see if I’m available to chat, etc. Like I’m not actively angry at them anymore and I by no means wish them any ill will, however I’m not particularly interested in going back to being friends.

I do realize that it’s my fault for giving them the impression that we were indeed friends again, that’s 1000% on me. I just don’t know how to approach the situation and be like ‘hey I appreciate that you’re doing great and all that however I’m not particularly interested in speaking to you on a regular basis’

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago

Gluten Free in Sonoma County

Hey y’all I have a friend visiting from out of state that has celiac so I would love to get some GF recommendations in the area. They don’t have to be entirely gf but I’d love places that have info on if they use separate fryers, separate prep stations, etc. I have a few places bookmarked from the last time she was in town, but I’d love to have a few more on the roster for the next time.

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago
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Gluten Free in Marin

Hey y’all I have a friend visiting from out of state that has celiac so I would love to get some GF recommendations in the area. They don’t have to be entirely gf but I’d love places that have info on if they use separate fryers, separate prep stations, etc. I have a few places bookmarked from the last time she was in town, but I’d love to have a few more on the roster for the next time.

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago
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Gluten Free in SF

Hey y’all I have a friend visiting from out of state that has celiac so I would love to get some GF recommendations in the city. They don’t have to be entirely gf but I’d love places that have info on if they use separate fryers, separate prep stations, etc. I have a few places bookmarked from the last time she was in town, but I’d love to have a few more on the roster for the next time.

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago
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Hey yall I’d love some recommendations on favorite third spaces that are open in the evenings/later that have more of a chill vibe

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago

Does anyone have favorite late night third spaces in SR they can recommend? I’m primarily looking for places with more of a chill vibe/atmosphere

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago
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Hey y’all, I’m going back to school for my masters in the fall and would love to hear your recommendations for your favorite spots to sit and study. My program is an online/distance program and I often get distracted easily at home so I would love to have some recommendations for places I can go for a change of scenery, and to get some work done.

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago
▲ 6 r/Marin

Hey y’all, I’m going back to school for my masters in the fall and would love to hear your recommendations for your favorite spots to sit and study. My program is an online/distance program and I often get distracted easily at home so I would love to have some recommendations for places I can go for a change of scenery, and to get work done.

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u/daeng-minnie — 5 months ago