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How often are we really feeling for those strings?

I got my mirena a month ago and haven't checked for them. I've been bleeding so don't want my bf to check for them and I'm weird about feeling unsure myself...so I'm curious how often are you guys checking? Or how often realistically should I have my bf check? Thank you

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u/depressedcatfishh — 3 days ago

It's 140am And I just ate a bag of hot Cheetos dipped in cream cheese...

It was delicious. I was alone. And I loved every minute of it lol (I have 0 time alone. Literally I am NEVER alone. And getting to enjoy this snack in the middle of the night alone was amazing lmao)

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u/depressedcatfishh — 7 days ago

I think my 4 year old might be pre diabetic or getting there or something

She has dark spots on her under arms and legs and neck :( her diet is pretty bad since she's so picky and we just give her what she wants which is neglectful af :( I don't want to hear how I'm a shit mom, I just don't know how to change this bad diet and habits? If she won't eat healthy do I just not give in to anything else? And how do I go about lightening the hyperpigmentation? Ima make an appt this week for labs and to see the dr. But I'm scared

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u/depressedcatfishh — 8 days ago

What would you call this form of "meanness?"

I got my IUD last Thursday. I have 0 libido but my husband has a high libido so to avoid pregnancies and shit I got the iud. Which he was all for mind you, he was all for some form of birth control. Well, since getting it, he's been very mean and an ass and when I react to his meanness or his attitude he turns around and claims the iud hormones are making me act crazy. It's Tuesday and he's been serious and just mean, Hell make snarky remarks about everything I do, just to be mean. Like I always reverse park when I park anywhere and on the weekend he loudly said "idk why you park like that it's ASSININE" or we purchased this cleaner for the stove (I always clean everything, I'm the only one that does chores but I needed something to combat the grease on the stove better) and he loudly says in the checkout line with many people around "finally you won't have an excuse to not clean the stove right" these are small examples of him being mean over literally nothing and loudly for the world to hear. I know he's doing it because of the iud, idk if it's because I'm in pain and extremely tired and he wants to add to it? Idk but I'm curious what the term is for what he does/is doing

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u/depressedcatfishh — 23 days ago

Got the mirena inserted Thursday, should I be good to go in a public pool tomorrow?

Not sure if I can go in a pool since I'm still experiencing cramping and back pain etc. ? Thank you

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u/depressedcatfishh — 24 days ago

You ever have days where you're just in a bad mood and mean?

Today is one of those days where I'm extremely irritated and in a bad mood and unfortunately it means I'll say things to my toddler that sound mean when I normally wouldn't. And no I don't mean yelling or cussing, but just making remarks that sound mean. Like I told my daughter to get into the car and instead she followed me around to the passenger seat and I told her why is she following me when she should be in the car. (Doesn't sound mean but I said it in a voice that made m sound lik a bitch) and then I apologize right after but ugh it's one of those days :(

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u/depressedcatfishh — 25 days ago

I got my mirena iud Thursday and today Sunday I have bad back pain

Anyone have this and know if it's normal? No fever and no bleeding. Just cramping and horrid back pain lol :( curious if it's normal, I went back Friday to make sure everything was good because I panic easily and everything looked good.

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u/depressedcatfishh — 26 days ago

I got the mirena iud inserted Thursday.

That day I felt not much different, no pain and no bleeding. Today I am having cramping and lower back pain and exhaustion. Is it normal to get these symptoms a few days later? I also have not bled, is that normal? I'm trying not to freak myself out, just knowing I have something inside of me that I can't get out myself freaks me out so someone calm my mind please, thank you

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u/depressedcatfishh — 26 days ago

Started clotrimazole for chest psoriasis but it says to Apply twice a day..what can I do for itching in between doses?

Man it's itchy I'm so annoyed what can I use to help with itching since I can only apply lotion twice a day

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u/depressedcatfishh — 26 days ago

Turns out I have psoriasis. Patches appeared on my chest.

The dr very casually said "it's psoriasis. I'll prescribe a cream" and walked out. This made me think it was not a big deal, a cream should heal it. But turns out it's much more serious than that? I'll have this forever? And it may not go away unless I made huge changes in my life? Why was she so calm and didn't explain anything? I'm so angry and upset and overwhelmed😭😞 I havent even gone for the cream because I'm so overwhelmed and somewhat depressed and in denial. Am I being over dramatic? 😭😭😭😭

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u/depressedcatfishh — 30 days ago

My daughter is my life. My sole purpose of living, but

But, I feel like I'm constantly stuck on my phone living a life in my head, wishing my past was different. Wishing I could do things I can't. And I'm losing out on time with my daughter, she's 4 btw. Idk how to explain it. I wouldn't change my life for nothing. I would choose my daughter in every life. But I constantly live my life in a "I could be doing this" or " I could be doing that" and I feel like I'm missing out on just experiencing the amazingness that is my toddler. One day she won't want to be around me, and right now that she's obsessed with me I'm taking it for granted. How do I stop this? I'm tired of living in a what if and I just want to live in the now with my child

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u/depressedcatfishh — 1 month ago

Every.Single.Day it's dishes and picking up toys.

I can't keep up with the toys everywhere. Dishes 3 times a fucking day. I'm so fucking over it!!! It can never just ALL be clean. It's either the kitchen is clean or the living room or the room but never all of them. And it's just me doing all the chores. SAHM life. I want a clean home but it's so fucking hard and draining

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u/depressedcatfishh — 2 months ago

I want my daughter to grow up saying her home was a peaceful space but that's not how it is

She gets everything. She is spoiled. She has had 0 discipline. And because of this, our home isn't a safe quiet peaceful space. It is full of yelling and empty threats of taking away toys or "we're not going to the park" or just me and her dad yelling angry because she doesn't listen. 😭😞 idk how to change this. How do you add discipline to your parenting if you've never done it in the last 5 years of your toddlers life? Every time, even when I'm not angry, if I look serious or tired she'll ask if I'm mad at her. I hate that :(

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u/depressedcatfishh — 2 months ago

When they think the mean fucked up shit they say to you is the reason you're crying but

The truth is I cry because I'm so mad that I'm a loser with no career or job or savings or good credit and that's why I put up with this shit. Because my poor daughter has to be witness to it. Because he always says he'll take her from me because I have nothing. That's why I cry. His words don't hurt me. But my actions in life that have led me here is why I cry.

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u/depressedcatfishh — 2 months ago

What color do these look like to you?

Seller says they're brown brown. But how is it in photos they look more burgundy brown? Or is the converse brown different from normal shit brown? lol

u/depressedcatfishh — 3 months ago

Hello was just wondering why this could be

So the other day I have a large SUGARY extremely sweet boba drink! After checking my sugar it was 278, I expected worse but hey. Well last night I had 2 1/2 tall cans of IPA beer, when I checked my sugar when I finished it was 430!! How is it that beer made it go so much higher than a sugary drink :O

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u/depressedcatfishh — 3 months ago